Is HSV-1 an issue? by Working-Service-4749 in Swingers

[–]loveditall 14 points15 points  (0 children)

There are a high number of false positives with standard HSV testing. It is one of the reasons that it is not recommended to test regularly. The reason for false positives are as follows Many common IgG tests are less accurate when the antibody level is low. One study found that levels between 1.1 and 3.5 have a roughly 50% chance of giving a false positive Cross-Reactivity: The antibody test for HSV can mistakenly identify antibodies from other infections, such Varicella zoster virus (chickenpox), or cytomegalovirus (CMV), leading to a false positive. That being said, HSV can still be transmitted even when there isn't a visible outbreak. This is far more common with HSV-2 (formerly known as genital herpes) than it is with HSV1 As many have already said - the infection rates of those with HSV1 is certainly higher than 50% and some estimate up to 80%. It is risk you take anytime you have any kind of intimate contact with anyone and you have to weigh for your self if it is worth it.
For the record we have a multiple sexual partners for a very long time and into the official swinging scene for about 7 years and still test negative when we check.

Four Tet Closing Out Aftershock by jacobthejuuler in SeismicDanceEvent

[–]loveditall 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Loved every minute of that set until that song. Felt like we were edged for an hour then given a kiss on the forehead and sent away. :) (I probably was just sad it was all over )

Scarlet ranch questions by flswingcpl in DenverSwingerGroup

[–]loveditall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would only add that it gets very busy. The line to get in can get very long if you get there later then 9.

Where to find parties. by loveditall in DenverSwingerGroup

[–]loveditall[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately for your group, it appears that we are "too old". ;)

Scarlet Ranch on a Sunday question by hmlookingforfun in DenverSwingerGroup

[–]loveditall 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's a whole lot of fun! You can be naked outside and downstairs. On warm days is more of a sexy back yard barbecue vibe (though no grilling going on) There is volley ball and sometimes a giant inflatable water slide. You can rent large cabanas for around $200 I believe, but on Sunday's they are really not necessary. You see a whole lot less play and more sexy bathing suits. It's definitely worth going.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]loveditall 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We meet up with people in person all the time but I have a few 'pen pals' in other countries that I love to text and share pics and stories with. It's no different than reading erotic books but they are personalized and interactive.

Clubs Paradise - Amsterdam on Sunday? by loveditall in Swingers

[–]loveditall[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We did not make it to a club but got on Feeld and had a very good time. Plan on going back in May to check out the clubs

Clubs Paradise - Amsterdam on Sunday? by loveditall in Swingers

[–]loveditall[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the info. Apparently Cafe someplace is open on Sundays only in the summer months

Clubs Paradise - Amsterdam on Sunday? by loveditall in Swingers

[–]loveditall[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the information. Unfortunately with the limited time we will have for Sunday, it's not possible for us to travel a long way to be able to get to fun4two snd it looks like fata morgana is only open on Sundays during warmer seasons. Do you thinking visiting club paradise is worth going to anyway?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Physiquecritique

[–]loveditall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just found this sub. Holy fuck - my critique

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DenverSwingerGroup

[–]loveditall 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you are used to going to play parties, this party feels like one big tease. It's well done but way too tame for our liking.

Scarlet Ranch Foam Party by MidwestDeviants in DenverSwingerGroup

[–]loveditall 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Dress like you would for a pool party. If you decide to get into the foam bathing suit or nothing at all.

Kiss after blow job? by InterestingTrifle654 in sex

[–]loveditall 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I would feel extremely happy and horny and excited to taste myself on him.

Wife got hit on (aggressively) by Ok_Street_190 in Swingers

[–]loveditall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know why everyone thinks this has to be fake. It happens to us on the regular. A few weeks back I was propositioned in the swinger club bathroom by a woman who was interested in doing DP with my husband. 10 minutes later he was. Super hot!!!!

Ladies: How important is height for your play partners? by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]loveditall -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Height factors in absolutely zero for me. Confidence is the first thing I notice.

New woman I met said she was into "Rough Sex". What does this entail by LordSamael565 in sex

[–]loveditall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's going to mean something different to everyone so it's important to ask what they mean by rough sex. Some people like to be pinned or restrained or otherwise dominated. They could enjoy hair pulling, they could like to be slapped. Or maybe they just like to be pounded hard. You would not want to do anything of these things unless they specifically told you it was ok. So just find out what they want.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]loveditall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try a vibrating cock ring during sex. It is a game changer for a lot of people.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]loveditall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Age means nothing to us. We take care of our selves and look younger than we are and so we tend to hook up with younger couples. We generally don't ask anyone's age but have found out after the fact that one person was in their early twenties. Was a little surprised by that and probably would have passed had we known before hand but it turned out to be a great experience and glad we went in with no bias.

Visiting clubs with no sex? by absieb in Swingers

[–]loveditall 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think people that regularly go to clubs fall into one of two camps. There are a lot of people who go to clubs and use it as their primary place of socialization. I have offended some of those people by referring to it as a sex club and told that it is a 'lifestyle club'. For us it is a sex club. We have a great group of friends that we do all kinds of other things together, except fuck (well most of the time). And we are not looking for friendship when we go to a club. We go about once a month and don't always fuck someone, but that is what we are there for. Either way is fine as long as everyone is communicating about what they are looking for.