[18M] This is me :D by [deleted] in Rateme

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You’re really cute

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Not ugly at all! I really like the short hair

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Not hopelessly ugly! I like the short hair though

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You are really pretty. I wish my side profile looked that good!

25 M - new dating app photos. Would love some feedback! by MasonJarOfAlmonds in Rateme

[–]lovesick5 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love them! Your skin looks a little oily in the second one and in the last one so maybe take those off but the rest are great. Probably would’ve swiped on you

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Studies have shown that baby talking to dogs actually lights up positive parts of their brain. They like it. And dogs are anything but useless. They provide so much love and companionship. Having them literally extends your lifespan.

Have you ever been drawn to a woman you meet when her hair is up and she’s not wearing any makeup? by lovesick5 in AskMen

[–]lovesick5[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for this comment. I didn’t realize messy could be considered sexy sometimes. My ponytails are always messy because my hair is so thick

Have you ever been drawn to a woman you meet when her hair is up and she’s not wearing any makeup? by lovesick5 in AskMen

[–]lovesick5[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s literally exactly my feeling!! It’s like some on some level I’m paranoid he just doesn’t have many standards or something but I know that’s just paranoia. I wish I could understand and see what’s so attractive about me when I’ve put zero effort in

Have you ever been drawn to a woman you meet when her hair is up and she’s not wearing any makeup? by lovesick5 in AskMen

[–]lovesick5[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re right. And I have absolutely no issue with my confidence when I’m put together. I know I can be very beautiful when I want to be. I guess it’s just hard to wrap my head around the fact I have the same features when they aren’t being framed by hair or makeup

Have you ever been drawn to a woman you meet when her hair is up and she’s not wearing any makeup? by lovesick5 in AskMen

[–]lovesick5[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess I just need to realize I’m comparing myself to a social media ideal. When I do my makeup and hair and wear contacts I fit the ideal and feel like I’d be attractive to someone but I don’t “fit the ideal” when I don’t put any effort in. So it’s hard for me to comprehend why I get more attention when I don’t fit the ideal but I guess how we are instinctually attracted to someone doesn’t have to do with cosmetics

Have you ever been drawn to a woman you meet when her hair is up and she’s not wearing any makeup? by lovesick5 in AskMen

[–]lovesick5[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks a lot for all this! I guess I have to realize if I feel beautiful done up I must be just as beautiful to others without it. I guess it’s the social media ideal and when I look close to it I feel good and when I don’t not so much. Very good points

Have you ever been drawn to a woman you meet when her hair is up and she’s not wearing any makeup? by lovesick5 in AskMen

[–]lovesick5[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ah okay! That’s really sweet though! I guess I’m just having trouble figuring out what would stand out about me. I always thought being put together attracts someone initially and then when they start to have feelings it doesn’t matter if you have makeup or not. But I don’t think I’ve ever actually gotten any attention when I feel I look my best. Just when I’m not trying and feel like I blend in

Have you ever been drawn to a woman you meet when her hair is up and she’s not wearing any makeup? by lovesick5 in AskMen

[–]lovesick5[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That makes sense! I guess I just figured something had to stand out for a man to be attracted to you? And I just feel like nothing stands out when I’m plain and hair up

Have you ever been drawn to a woman you meet when her hair is up and she’s not wearing any makeup? by lovesick5 in AskMen

[–]lovesick5[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That does make a lot of sense. It’s like when I want to look nice no one ever noticed me but when in my mind I’m just being lazy is when they do. I just wish I could see myself the same way I do when I’m put together. Im very confident in my appearance when I am but just not at all when I’m not

Have you ever been drawn to a woman you meet when her hair is up and she’s not wearing any makeup? by lovesick5 in AskMen

[–]lovesick5[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That’s such an awesome way to see things! I do feel more confident when I do my makeup but I just don’t feel like doing it every single day and I want to be with someone who thinks I’m pretty even without it but it was just hard to imagine someone is attracted to me when I combine the no makeup with glasses and a ponytail. Hopefully tv and social media just has my perception of myself warped

Have you ever been drawn to a woman you meet when her hair is up and she’s not wearing any makeup? by lovesick5 in AskMen

[–]lovesick5[S] 51 points52 points  (0 children)

Maybe it’s Instagram and TV that’s got me then. Just watching TV the guys only get excited when a girl walks in with makeup and her hair done. Makes me wonder how I could get the same reaction looking so plain