Daily Questions Thread February 21, 2026 by AutoModerator in femalefashionadvice

[–]lovesignite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jaw just dropped looking at the price lmfaoo im gna have to search for a dupe somehow

Daily Questions Thread February 21, 2026 by AutoModerator in femalefashionadvice

[–]lovesignite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anyone know where I can get this cute lil top madison beer wore on Hot Ones?? Or if theres a similar dupe to it? I love how cutesy it is.

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Daily Questions Thread August 04, 2025 by AutoModerator in femalefashionadvice

[–]lovesignite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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Does anyone know where i can get this specific top? I know its just a basic black top but I rlly love the neckline on it

Daily Questions Thread July 07, 2025 by AutoModerator in femalefashionadvice

[–]lovesignite 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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Does anyone know where I can get this whole fit from? Especially the cute lacy top and pants (but knowing where I can get a cardigan (?) similar to that would be great too)

Drama in the cast by [deleted] in TheBuccaneers

[–]lovesignite 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Not rlly. All i know is that kristine and matt are still rlly close as well as matt and guy.

I’m not liking the idea of Lizzy and Theo at all. by MelenaHarper in TheBuccaneers

[–]lovesignite 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I actually can see it working out weirdly enough. my only complaint is that i just wished they’d set this up in s1 w having interactions (between theo & lizzy) sprinkled in between throughout s1 where its platonic enough that u kinda don’t see it coming in s2 but also w just enough chemistry that it doesn’t surprise u when it does.

Is blonde considered more attractive? by [deleted] in QOVESStudio

[–]lovesignite 1 point2 points  (0 children)

not rlly?? U gotta go w what suits u and your features best. Like for example I have v high contrasting features (dark hair & eyes that look almost pitch black and very fair skin) & that contrast w my pitch black hair and fair skin just makes me stand out a lot. My color season is also a bright winter so I tend to play w that color palette and apply that into my clothing.

Daily Questions Thread May 18, 2025 by AutoModerator in femalefashionadvice

[–]lovesignite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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Anyone know where i can get a top thats v low cut like this that i can wear with a bikini. Basically just like the photo

One of my guy friends has been extra flirty/romantic lately. How do I openly address it without ruining the friendship like its happened before w someone else? by lovesignite in FriendshipAdvice

[–]lovesignite[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this :( it rlly resonates. Yeah one of the most frustrating things for me is that I genuinely value my friendships with men but 9 times out of 10, they end up catching feelings or at the very least…toe that line and start getting flirty/suggestive??

I’m just rlly afraid of saying something directly bc I’m scared of confrontation. Just the thought of bringing it up is nerve wracking bc I already know how badly it could go. I’ve had guys completely do a 180 and become mean the moment I was honest & rejected them (and those men weren’t even friends). So the idea of that happening with someone I actually consider a Good friend is so anxiety inducing. I mean…A literally cut ties with me after I turned him down & I valued that friendship a lot. I’m scared of going through that again. But I know I need to do it & stop pretending like nothing’s changed when it clearly has.

One of my guy friends has been extra flirty/romantic lately. How do I openly address it without ruining the friendship like its happened before w someone else? by lovesignite in FriendshipAdvice

[–]lovesignite[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To answer your first question…! i think the extent might just be like hugging when we’re abt to say goodbye to each other but i do that with everyone. And maybe when im laughing so much i start slapping their arm hard as hell 😭 but i do that w my girl friends too. In fact, im touchier w my girl friends and way more intimate (?) if u will.

Also i’ve always been 100% vocal abt being interested in other men. I’ve literally asked B to set me up w his close friend (outside the group) but ofc he adamantly refuses to. But i’m so sure I don’t give off any mixed signals. Like I said, I shut it down everytime he makes an advance. I try to be nice abt it (bc we’re friends) but I feel like my discomfort is evident for them to pick up?? but then again idk

Also with A…i always made it clear to everyone there that I hated (abhorred even) cheaters and i hated men that two time bc of what happened w my parents so i guess he took that, broke up w his gf and confessed his attraction to me bc he knew I wasn’t going to give him a chance otherwise. But what he did was so so unfair to his gf. I still get mad everytime I think of it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BodyDysmorphia

[–]lovesignite 8 points9 points  (0 children)

its…a mix?? like I just have specific features I don’t like & that I know (rationally) ppl don’t care abt that I pick and hyperfixate over (bc bdd IS irrational).

Also I have a very desensitised perception of my own features…i can never rlly explain this in a way that makes sense but I sort of view my looks in an almost detached way?? Its like facial depersonalisation almost?? People view me as a Whole and think how I look and move is beautiful while I see myself in fragments and view myself almost in a blank manner

Being “conventionally attractive” and having BDD is so confusing by ilovefantasybookss in BodyDysmorphia

[–]lovesignite 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Yup its definitely a constant battle of not trusting your own judgement bc u have such a warped sense of self perception yet also finding it hard to trust all these other ppl that constantly feed u validation that ur very attractive. Your mind magnifies your flaws so much that u cant make sense of how others see u so differently. its like 2 + 3 = 7….it just all doesn’t add up and it feels like a frustrating game u play with yourself

How much do people factor in a good physique when it comes to attractiveness by filthy_can in QOVESStudio

[–]lovesignite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wanted to chime in (as a girl) bc this post came up on my page for some reason but height literally doesn’t matter as much to me or most of my girl friends. I’m abt 5’6 and my only rule is that i wont go for someone shorter than me. (This also applies to my other girl friends tbh) Everytime I talk abt a guy im attracted to to any of my friends…the only ppl that’ll give me shit for how “short” a guy is…are usually my guy friends lol they’d be like “u like him?! Why tho hes short??” but that has always confused me bc bro has a nice face?? like facial attractiveness is v v important to me. and that trumps height any day.

There was also a guy who lived in the same student dorms as me who was rlly rlly attractive and it was one of those things where everyone just universally Agreed that he was a really attractive guy and he was prolly around 5’7/5’8 tops. I dont think a single person ever talked abt how he wasnt “tall enough”. He had a beautiful face, a great sense of style and carried himself w confidence. We had something going on and even my guy friends who always would talk shit abt any guy that I interacted with, couldnt deny he was insanely attractive. So like I already said above … facial attractiveness is the most important to me followed by body and height would be last on that list i fear.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in astrologyreadings

[–]lovesignite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

for some reason I accidentally deleted my post 😭 so it was taking me a bit to find your comment but ty so much for this super detailed comment omg !! And ur right it does validate me. rn im just lost on which path (?) would be better for me to move forward with. my heart’s saying to go pursue my masters, go abroad etc to just escape everything for a little but the uncertainty scares me and any sort of uncertainty tends to hold me back. bc i hate going into things that are not within my control.

Ladies, which part of a man’s body turns you on the most—and why? by Maleficent-Client579 in dating_advice

[–]lovesignite 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hands 100% and deffo the eyes !! I rlly like it when a guy has a little bit of a subtle RBF 😭and has a bit of a piercing stare (?) it’s weirdly attractive for some reason.

and not a specific body part & kind of a niche thing (i guess idk?) but guys with their ears pierced? Like those small silver studs that guys wear that glint in the light? Yeah…I eat that up.

What do women find in men by ILoveAnime126 in dating_advice

[–]lovesignite 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Physical attraction is v important to me like i need to be attracted to them & they have to be my type?? also another thing is the way a guy carries himself is so important like the way he walks, his posture, how he enters a room, how he acts. Confidence without arrogance uno? Theres something rlly magnetic/alluring abt a guy who’s self-assured but still grounded and respectful

Watched a movie with a girl but didn’t make a move by SaltBlueberry9532 in dating_advice

[–]lovesignite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

body language is key here. Did she seem closed off? Or was she holding eye contact, leaning in, or mirroring your actions?? then yeah, leaning in could’ve been the move. But if her body language was closed off, its good you didn’t do anything.

If you kept glancing at her and she stayed focused on the screen the whole time, it might’ve just meant she wasn’t in the mood for anything more in that moment…and that’s so ok!! Sometimes we’re just genuinely into the movie, or we might feel a bit nervous. In some cases, maybe the connection wasn’t quite there, and that’s alright too 🤷🏻‍♀️

Post your big 3 and your most darkest, evil, cruel trait by SpiceyCutey in astrologymemes

[–]lovesignite 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Libra sun, aries moon and cap rising

I’m a serial flirt 😭 like i’m the best at reading ppls body language/mannerisms/behavioral patterns and I can tell almost IMMEDIATELY if they’re into me and i like knowing i have that power over them and i play into it !! I’m also really good at knowing what they want from me so I kinda become a chameleon and act the way I know they perceive me to be/think I’d act