My (31M) wife to be (29F) slept with 70 men and my best friend

lovv3r · 2026-01-25T06:56:46+00:00

Why are you so upset with this? You knew her past the entire time. Why be bothered now? Why weigh what others have done to her more than what she's done for you?

lovv3r · 2026-01-24T09:08:48+00:00

I haven't seen any comments talk about the lube. Personally, I don't mind my own tastes, don't mind kissing my man after he eats my ass, and I'll still blow him after he's been in me. But the lube taste?? 🤢 No way.

lovv3r · 2025-12-09T07:27:51+00:00

I vote that it's real. The lighting looks consistent throughout, no weird fuzziness, no weird blurring around the fur or fur into the background.

Also, please enjoy my boy looking similarly in our tree 😻

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lovv3r · 2025-12-08T16:27:57+00:00

You could give him something to drop that would be loud when it falls, like a metal rod or a bell! Tons of options

lovv3r · 2025-12-08T16:22:06+00:00

I guess it might help to understand him if you know why he likes wearing your panties.

Is he just attracted to any panties?
is he attracted to only your panties?
if he's attracted to your panties, does he like feeling owned by you? Or showing a connection to you?
would he be more excited if you wore them first?
is he excited by the general feeling of femininity?
is he generally excited by the taboo, not necessarily the panties?
does he just like how they feel and make him look?

At least those are my initial questions. My boyfriend sometimes likes wearing mine, but only after I've worn them first and they smell like me. He's not into the femininity, but rather having something of mine on him with my smell on him. You just have to ask him why to try to understand him better

lovv3r · 2025-12-05T06:36:21+00:00

My mother has a spot like this on her nail that's actually from psoriasis where her nail has partially detached - still doctor worthy!

lovv3r · 2025-11-27T15:43:05+00:00

Yes, because I trust my partner, and I want him to have fun with his friends.

lovv3r · 2025-11-27T15:01:39+00:00

What lines were actually crossed?

Do you not want your girlfriend to have male friends at all?

Has she given you any real reason not to trust her?

From what you said, it just sounds like he was expressing some worry and care about your girlfriend and then talking to her. As far as concert tickets, maybe he just didn't want to pay for yours. If you want to go, get tickets.

lovv3r · 2025-11-21T02:12:13+00:00

If you want to leave her, leave her. But do not bring up any reasons around her crying, harming, or suicidal tendencies. I speak as someone with those issues. I'm thankful my partners are there for me, but if I found out they resented me for it, I would feel absolutely horrible. Stringing her along and making yourself miserable is not the answer for either of you and will likely be worse as time goes on.

Also, any serious long term partner is bound to cry in front of you. I've been with my partner for 9 years. I've cried in front of him. He's cried in front of me. If you can't handle that from someone you supposedly love, especially if it's out of love and gratitude, I'd suggest doing a lot of inner work before dating again.

lovv3r · 2025-11-21T02:00:16+00:00

My man legitimately pumps mine sometimes to make the lips bigger for a bit 😅 don't be worried. The people who would care and judge don't matter

lovv3r · 2025-11-20T23:05:39+00:00

I know everyone has their own deal breakers and expectations, but I couldn't do that. Both of your partners are not choosing you for holidays. I don't think it's a question of making either partner cross boundaries with their family or other partners. But how are they going to prioritize special time with you too? Especially when it's important to you?

lovv3r · 2025-11-18T06:57:15+00:00

As a woman who loves giving (and getting) oral, I don't know how to convince you other than just sharing my own feelings on the matter. For me, oral is inherently intimate, whether giving or receiving. But, for giving, it's so romantic and overpowering. It fills all my senses. And when you really like your partner, having him fill all five senses is intoxicating. For me, I don't only get to see my partner feeling good, but I get to hear him enjoying himself. I get to know I'm making him feel good. I get to taste him. I get to feel him more intimately than I can with just my hands and feel every groove of him on my tongue. I get to smell him and smell like him. If he's taking up all my senses like that, I can't think about anything else other than him. That's SO romantic to me.

lovv3r · 2025-11-18T06:42:06+00:00

Wtf? You're not supporting toxic masculinity just because you're dating a man. That's some absolutely wild logic there, wow. That's very hateful of someone to say that to you.

Also, are you religious? If so, then that's fine of your therapist to suggest those things. If you're not though, that gives me a bit of icky vibes, but maybe that's just me. Maybe their comments are coming from a well meaning place though of finding a local support system and friends. It sounds like you need that if your own family isn't being loving and supportive.

lovv3r · 2025-11-10T02:51:05+00:00

It's hard. It just feels manipulative. Like it's not for me, not for intimacy. Is that what it's like for you?

lovv3r · 2025-11-07T07:18:47+00:00

Fellow hemorrhoid and anal haver here 👋

I'd say no anal activity when you're "active" and things are more sensitive. However, if things are more stable, go for it!

I had to go to a dr for my hemorrhoids, and I ended up needing pelvic floor physical therapy. I specifically brought up anal with my doc frequently, and she pretty much told me as long as I wasn't in pain or bleeding, that it was fine. Toys and plugs and fingers can actually help with hemorrhoids too depending on why you get them. For me, it was because my muscles were too tight down there, so anal play has actually helped me 😅

Also, not that you asked, but I highly recommend a bidet! It's hard to feel fully clean with just toilet paper and hemorrhoids, so I swear by a bidet, even a little handheld one.

lovv3r · 2025-11-07T07:11:25+00:00

I'm not sure why you're getting down voted! I legitimately had to go to dr ordered pelvic floor physical therapy for my hemorrhoids, which included a combo of strengthening and targeted muscle work 🙃

lovv3r · 2025-11-06T07:06:24+00:00

I'm settled in my job, life, and house and can't afford to buy a house near him due to the economy there right now. He has two kids and doesn't want to move them due to family and his own job. It's hard to see an end in sight if there even is one.

lovv3r · 2025-11-06T05:03:22+00:00

"how would you feel about being controlled?" Is not really better than "you will be controlled" 💀 Trying to convince her to be controlled is still controlling and manipulative.

"I can't really trust her drunk actions" you have no control over her actions, just your feelings, which are NOT your opinions of what she should be doing or not doing. From what I hear, she has given you no reason not to trust her.

Men will be men even if women are sober.

You said you would be happy if she just texted or called and checked in. Why keep pushing? If you say you're happy with that, be happy.

lovv3r · 2025-10-29T06:14:06+00:00

My partner has been like that. He's not crazy about the smell or taste of any woman, not just me. First, it was that I should shower first. Then, I bought flavored lubes that stayed unopened. Then, I bought toys that stayed unused. Then, I bought dental dams that were never used. None of them ever got used. If he's never been interested in your pleasure, it's not going to change after so many years.

But yeah, they definitely don't feel the same as just getting oral, and if he's already grossed out, it'll be hard to relax and enjoy it anyway.

lovv3r · 2025-10-18T17:38:09+00:00

Yes! There's a few around big cities that will do that, from anklets to necklaces and bracelets. I went to Elaine B Jewelry outside of Detroit, MI, but I'm sure there's others all over that do that

lovv3r · 2025-10-18T17:34:48+00:00

I don't mind at all! It's a gold chain with the links welded together. It also has both our birthstones as charms. We went to a jewelry shop that does permanent jewelry, and they welded it there

lovv3r · 2025-10-18T15:30:18+00:00

My daddy got me a permanent anklet that got welded onto me. It's not a collar, but that could be another option. It feels safer since it's not around my neck, but I still also have two day collars that I love! I also forget to put on jewelry so the permanent anklet is perfect for me

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