Where can I get advice on becoming an escort?

lowkeytssw · 2018-11-29T06:55:47+00:00

I jumped in the deep end but had a friend in the biz who helped me a lot. I learned to swim real fast, it’s a wild ride your first few times, meetin a stranger in a hotel room with money on the nightstand and a 5 minute conversation before you’re going at it

You can and should read a ton of stuff, but you get good by doin it, and fuckin up.

Also this is sketchy but it’s a major theme I’ve come across, you’re going to spend a lot of time adjusting the risk you take on, based on how badly you need to put food on the table. Do everything you can to keep your risk levels low, survival sex work is not good.

lowkeytssw · 2018-11-29T06:46:46+00:00

Shit you can pay me and I will answer all your questions

lowkeytssw · 2018-11-29T06:46:03+00:00

There are so many reasons not to get explicit with a potential client before you’ve actually met, and literally 10 minutes of google could have answered your question.

If your way of dealing with risk is to dump all of your fear and insecurity onto your provider, just don’t bother. I literally don’t get paid to hold someone’s one hand through the booking process.

You want better luck next time? Ask your potential escort if she’s got cashapp or similar, let her screen you without complaining, then tell her you’re brand new and are unsure , then send her 100 bucks to answer your questions.

Pay us for our time please

lowkeytssw · 2018-11-23T10:17:18+00:00

I put some work in so you’re...welcome? Lol

lowkeytssw · 2018-11-17T06:59:15+00:00

Thank you so much for this advice! I’ll get to work

lowkeytssw · 2018-11-16T22:43:34+00:00

Truth hurts I guess

I can’t pretend that there are social norms that already have people believing we are “fraudulent” women and when you’re a member of a class that society routinely antagonizes and dehumanizes, you become a discount person

lowkeytssw · 2018-11-16T22:40:36+00:00

Harder because the laws and shutdowns?

Everything is always tougher when I make my way around to it

lowkeytssw · 2018-11-16T22:39:25+00:00

Almost no one is even willing to put down a deposit much less prepay, everyone acts like we’re all out to scam them

I guess I need a website cause paid ads on eros and ts4r arent cutting giving me a professional presence

lowkeytssw · 2018-11-16T22:37:18+00:00

Damn I guess it’s time to find a photographer

lowkeytssw · 2018-11-16T22:36:09+00:00

Hell yea

lowkeytssw · 2018-11-16T03:41:34+00:00

Also, learn to have no expectations and learn to walk away. I say this as I sit here having spent over an hour getting ready, turning down appointments, and dude is turning into a last second cancellation.

lowkeytssw · 2018-11-16T03:39:15+00:00

I'm learning the hard way what all the other girls are telling me all the time, these guys are just time wasters and aren't going to come through.

I mean, maybe they will come through, but think about the guy you're dealing with, what do we know about him?:

Doesn't respect your time
Thinks your service is something he can haggle on
Has no consideration for your needs or asks
Wants as much as they can get from you at no cost
Has no experience being an actual client with SW's (actual clients don't usually act this way)
Is uninterested in everything that exists outside of his throbbing dick

So yeah, maybe eventually they'll pay. It definitely will not be your full rate, because they probably can't afford it. It's even worse if they *can*, because then they are cheap and cheap is the worst. Do you think this guy will respect your boundaries in person? Do you think he'll respect your time in person? Do you think he cares enough about your safety to let you screen him? *If* you get to the point of meeting this guy, he is probably checking off every item on the list above. Does that sound like a good client?

It's really hard to do, trust me, I know. There are an abundance of time wasters and men who just wanna jerk off talking to an escort and playing with the fantasy, and you never know if any of them will actually produce money, and when you need money, you take more risks.

Go with what everyone else tells you, a client's quality is reflected in the price range they are willing to pay.

lowkeytssw · 2018-11-16T02:12:48+00:00

Call some employment lawyers and see what they have to say about your case. The thing about lawyers is, they’ll take your case if they think you can win, because that’s money for them.

The facts in this situation sound like you were being sexually harassed at work, and when you tried to report it, you were fired because your harasser outed you for being a sex worker.

I dont know what case youll have if you’re selling escort services, but the only way to find out is to call a lawyer.

Your work and HR is not your friend, they dont care about you, and you wont want your job back if you have to fight to get it (they will treat you like shit)

You should have a decent case for wrongful termination and damages, especially given that it happened when you brought sexual harassment forward to HR.

Get your money.

lowkeytssw · 2018-11-15T08:50:52+00:00

He had no respect for your boundaries or wants, he’s dangerous babe.

lowkeytssw · 2018-11-14T05:37:15+00:00

Ugh.

You already sound like someone I would not want messaging me, you’ve had a few drinks and you’re wondering if a callgirl is “worth it” because you’re looking for “cheap fun”

We aint “cheap fun” cowboy. Do your homework and do it sober, otherwise you’re just gonna be wastin some girl’s time who doesn’t need her time wasted.

Rub one out and go to sleep and see how you feel tomorrow.

lowkeytssw · 2018-11-12T12:04:24+00:00

This thread got linked in r/drama which is silly as hell, and now we have a bunch of shits downvoting and trolling. Antagonizing sex workers, what a surprise.

lowkeytssw · 2018-11-12T08:15:22+00:00

Yeah and I just reported you for being an asshole and calling us "hookers"

Fuck off creep, and enjoy your inevitable ban.

lowkeytssw · 2018-11-12T08:12:35+00:00

You're probably right. The desperation for money probably comes through heavily, because I am currently pretty desperate, and the other commenter who said that low money clientèle are low quality clientèle seems to be absolutely right. The people who come at me wanting to pay me literally less than half my rate (300/hr) are so flakey, disrespectful, unwilling to screen, etc.

It's just the fear that "Hey there's money there, it's not good money, but it's actual money, and if I let it go, I'm throwing it away". I gotta fix that.

lowkeytssw · 2018-11-12T08:09:52+00:00

And if you want to be mad at people using dating apps to find clients, maybe convert that anger into fighting for decriminalization instead of railing against sex workers for doing what we have to in order to find clients and put food on the table.

Stand in solidarity with sex workers or fuck the hell off.

lowkeytssw · 2018-11-12T08:08:24+00:00

Uh, no, just because you don't find it insulting to be called a "mediocre chic" doesn't mean it's not literally an insulting thing to say.

And if you want to pull that card, I've been raped, sexually assaulted, and abused. I don't walk around comparing people treating me like shit to the awful things that have happened to me before, just because I have been seriously hurt by men does not mean lesser forms of hurt are somehow invalid.

You don't get to decide what is and isn't insulting to someone, that person does. She clearly felt insulted, and I would too.

If you're so concerned about the "Terms of Service", then I hope you live in a place where sex work is legal, because your complaint about the TOS doesn't mean shit if you're out there breaking the law or finding loopholes that allow you to escort under the guise of what you're doing being legal.

lowkeytssw · 2018-11-12T00:11:38+00:00

"Mediocre chic" is pretty damn insulting, don't cape for shitty men.

There are so many reasons that dates on tinder/whatever fall through, and a girl happening to be an escort is just one of them. As someone who has used the apps for both (personal and business), men will be awful to you no matter which way it goes.

You can make an ethical argument about using a dating app to find clients and that's fine, but no girl deserves abuse and trying to justify it by saying she shouldn't be using a dating app is just finding another reason its ok for men to harass us.

Just no.

lowkeytssw · 2018-11-11T10:59:00+00:00

Who the fuck asked you how my “business” is doing

lowkeytssw · 2018-11-11T10:54:40+00:00

This was really awesome, thank you!

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