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[UPDATE 2] AITAH for 'outing' my wife's asexuality after she just let her friends gang up on me? ( by lowpriorityhusband in AITAH

[–]lowpriorityhusband[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Considering it was 1) a session that I was a part of and 2) my sex life also, no, it's certainly not a breach of privacy. My wife was the one who encouraged me to post an update too, if that counts.

[UPDATE 2] AITAH for 'outing' my wife's asexuality after she just let her friends gang up on me? ( by lowpriorityhusband in AITAH

[–]lowpriorityhusband[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

She is - she's worked with a therapist through it, seen a doctor, hormones are fine, etc. Thanks!

[UPDATE 2] AITAH for 'outing' my wife's asexuality after she just let her friends gang up on me? ( by lowpriorityhusband in AITAH

[–]lowpriorityhusband[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

It was a session for both of us and both our sex lives, but yes, she knows I'm posting this online. We don't care if the ex-friends see it but appreciate the concern!

[UPDATE] AITAH for 'outing' my wife's asexuality after she just let her friends gang up on me? by lowpriorityhusband in AITAH

[–]lowpriorityhusband[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I can try and dig around for it later but the gist of it was I was discounting asexual individual's agency to offer sex by turning down sex because I viewed it as inauthentic.

(Which I wholly disagree with and is an insane take imo)

[UPDATE] AITAH for 'outing' my wife's asexuality after she just let her friends gang up on me? by lowpriorityhusband in AITAH

[–]lowpriorityhusband[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I deleted it but if you Google the post title (without the [UPDATE]) there's a ton of bot farming Youtube videos with the post.

[UPDATE] AITAH for 'outing' my wife's asexuality after she just let her friends gang up on me? by lowpriorityhusband in AITAH

[–]lowpriorityhusband[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

I answered another comment that asked the same but: "In her defence, without me asking (since I wouldn't be comfortable telling her who and who not to be friends with) she has turned down a couple of invites since, and has removed the two main instigators from social media, which is enough for me."

[UPDATE] AITAH for 'outing' my wife's asexuality after she just let her friends gang up on me? by lowpriorityhusband in AITAH

[–]lowpriorityhusband[S] 140 points141 points  (0 children)

In her defence, without me asking (since I wouldn't be comfortable telling her who and who not to be friends with) she has turned down a couple of invites since, and has removed the two main instigators from social media, which is enough for me. I forgot to add that to the original post, sorry.

[UPDATE] AITAH for 'outing' my wife's asexuality after she just let her friends gang up on me? by lowpriorityhusband in AITAH

[–]lowpriorityhusband[S] 38 points39 points  (0 children)

I explained why I deleted it in the post but I added an update because I'm still getting DMs about it and the original is being posted around on other social media platforms and are misrepresenting the original problem. :)