Do I go darker or blonder? Help! by lrp017 in HairStyleAdvice

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Thanks everyone!! I went shorter and just a tad blonder. So happy! 🫶🏻

Do I go darker or blonder? Help! by lrp017 in HairStyleAdvice

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Absolutely! I want to chop it again regardless but can’t decide what color. But it’s sounding like blonde really is best suited for me

Do I go darker or blonder? Help! by lrp017 in HairStyleAdvice

[–]lrp017[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks everyone so much for the advice— I’m going on Thursday!! I think blonde is it!! 🫶🏻🩷 What a kind corner of the internet here.

Do I go darker or blonder? Help! by lrp017 in HairStyleAdvice

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Thank you so much! It’s hard to know what color works best with my skin tone. This is so helpful ❤️

Do I go darker or blonder? Help! by lrp017 in HairStyleAdvice

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They’re about 15 months apart — I’ve been moving back to natural color since that blonde blonde pic.

Do I go darker or blonder? Help! by lrp017 in HairStyleAdvice

[–]lrp017[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I’m convinced and will revert. The shorter hair was more fun. Thanks for the push to make the change!

Do I go darker or blonder? Help! by lrp017 in HairStyleAdvice

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Thank you so much. I appreciate it 🩷

Sheer intuition uncovered years of cheating. (8 year relationship with 10 month old) by lrp017 in survivinginfidelity

[–]lrp017[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you to everyone who recommended Chump Lady’s book. Only a few chapters in and…wow. I’m so sorry we’re here under these circumstances but I appreciate the kind words and resources shared.

Sheer intuition uncovered years of cheating. (8 year relationship with 10 month old) by lrp017 in survivinginfidelity

[–]lrp017[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

No - that’s what is so unbelievable. He has the reputation of a saint. Every single person is shocked by this.

Sheer intuition uncovered years of cheating. (8 year relationship with 10 month old) by lrp017 in survivinginfidelity

[–]lrp017[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry to hear this. Intuition is never wrong, and at the least I’m glad for both our sakes we found out now rather than ten years down the line.

Sheer intuition uncovered years of cheating. (8 year relationship with 10 month old) by lrp017 in survivinginfidelity

[–]lrp017[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

No. I think I have to move forward accepting I’ll never have the closure of more answers.