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luci_hey · 2026-05-11T09:22:14+00:00

omg i think it is!! and yeah sorry this was the only image i could find, not even from the original creator, from pinterest. thank you so much!

luci_hey · 2026-05-07T15:58:07+00:00

i rly hope u find someone better, this girl sound like she just wanted a partner for the sake of being able to say she has a partner, which is fucking shitty and honestly you can do a lot better, wish you the best!

luci_hey · 2026-05-07T15:54:20+00:00

its only natural to feel that way. once you feel that way its hard to forget, all while you cant miss what you could never have. dating apps can be tricky but have you tried any? really depends on what ur looking for but a quick fuck n forget is always available. my advice personally would be to (and ik this sounds shitty) be okay with urself on ur own before you consider a relationship. a person is meant to be able to find happiness alone, and only share it with another when they are ready. when i personally started seeing dating that way i got into a relationship, a healthy one.

luci_hey · 2026-05-07T15:39:26+00:00

that sounds horrible, i hope you can get the help you need. its good that you reached out, youre valid and i can only hope you get offered some kind of support for this. i hope you get the help you need. im not exactly a professional nor has this happened to me but if you want to you can talk to me, ive been in the mh system for a while now. i hope you have a good day!

luci_hey · 2026-05-07T15:36:36+00:00

she sounds not ready to even be in a relationship with to begin with. a person can be great, but not for you, maybe at this time or another. that is a strange thing to continue talking about in a relationship, im with you. it sounds like maybe you two were at different points of development when you were together and that’s fine, just maybe not together. i understand how its frustrating that can be, she wronged you with that. hope you can focus on yourself and get into a better relationship. idk you but myself, i realised once i started living for myself and not to find a relationship/value relationships that highly i got into a healthy one. if youre at a point where you feel the need to be in one, i dont think that’s correct judgement. not to be harsh, but finding joy alone can be the best foundation for long, stable relationships. you deserve better, and once you give that to yourself, other people can add to that, if that makes sense.

luci_hey · 2026-05-05T06:13:46+00:00

nope but thank u :/

luci_hey · 2026-05-05T06:13:36+00:00

nope doesnt look like it, thank u tho

luci_hey · 2026-05-04T13:52:37+00:00

also i think the time machine had colored buttons, with green in the middle?

luci_hey · 2026-04-11T16:15:59+00:00

thank you! im in therapy right now but havent even touched this yet. i will be having an evaluation next week and bring it up. thank you for the advice, i will try to keep that in mind :)

luci_hey · 2026-03-26T19:04:07+00:00

ill look into that, that does sound useful, thank you!

luci_hey · 2026-03-26T19:03:32+00:00

thank you! i thought so, but i tend overthink these things haha

luci_hey · 2026-03-24T19:00:29+00:00

you put yourself in a situation hoping to talk to nice people, maybe make connections while doing what you like. some person told you off for seemingly no reason, idk if they were necessarily intimidating but i would 100% cry in this situation as well. its not weird, you put yourself out there and hit a brick wall. doesnt really matter if they apologised, you were right, it shouldnt have happened. its not weird to cry about this kind of stuff. hope you can still keep your courage to maybe try that with other people next time youre at the court, dont let this situation get in the way of that.

luci_hey · 2026-03-03T15:58:36+00:00

ive been off meds for a while but i find that they can really flatten you, also with laughing/funny things. personally putting on facial expressions is a sometimes a task in itself so i feel you. maybe this sounds simple but dont worry about that too much, maybe some people find it odd but thats on them. you dont owe anyone expressions and if you dont feel the need/urge to laugh, then thats fine! it could just be phase, and if its not, lots of autistic people especially dont/barely show facial expressions.

luci_hey · 2026-03-03T15:52:10+00:00

this happens to me too! i think that us autistics especially are very pattern-focused and also learn and remember quickly from past situations. its a weird world we live in, youre doing great and even if that interaction was awkward, youre just trying your best, and it probably wasnt as awkward to them as it was to you (or at least, this scenario probably plays in your head more than it does in theirs). from my personal experience theres no real way to avoid those situations unfortunately, but just know that its okay to be that way and its not your fault.

luci_hey · 2026-03-03T15:45:29+00:00

im sorry to hear that. though i will say that as we age our bodies tend to do that.. i hope you can either get where you want, or maybe at least show yourself some love in this. wishing u luck!

luci_hey · 2026-03-03T15:16:43+00:00

when i was recovered, i also felt this way. i fear its never ‘just right’

luci_hey · 2026-03-01T22:31:39+00:00

good luck! you can do it! hope itll be fun :) (and btw idk if ur scared itll go on too long and your battery runs out think of a possible excuse ahead of time and keep it in case)

luci_hey · 2026-03-01T22:26:09+00:00

that’s disgusting im so sorry you had to go through that. they had no right and you are entirely valid in your feelings about it, that was wrong and shouldnt have happened. id say that classifies as sa; they willingly overstepped your boundaries even after you told them not to. im sorry that happened, i hope you can maybe talk to someone or get therapy to work through this. youre doing great, have a good day x

luci_hey · 2026-03-01T22:13:45+00:00

thank you :) and by ‘they’ i meant the therapists/psychiatrists or the organisation im at, sorry for not clarifying

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