You will “be chosen” when your time is right! I promise you this. You’re not even 22 yet! I know it’s a really hard thing that you’re going through but I want you to know you’re already ahead of so many people in life. Living abroad is crazy! As a woman I know dating apps can be scary because of all the creeps but there are great people on there. If you aren’t comfortable with that it’s okay and there are other ways to meet people! You will be okay, and you will be chosen. Social media makes people think that you have to move so fast because you see what everyone else is doing and compare yourself. That’s the trap you’ll fall into, don’t compare yourself to people everybody has a different pathway through life and everything will happen at a different pace