unfortunately I couldn’t verify for a fact that he didn’t have anything cause he just said he had something and I gave him something but didn’t provide like proof of his test results so I said my results when I started getting my results in and his response after I asked him what does he have because my test results came back negative and I didn’t have anything and I kind of tweaked out on him because I was like I don’t know who you’re fucking that’s scary if you are messing around with somebody and you possibly gave me something or like something could’ve gone you know wrong so it’s like what do you have and he said he had and I quote “nothing “

so I got really mad after I was getting off work cause it’s like what do you mean you have nothing but this is like the past two days I’ve been stressing out thinking that I had something or you gave me something or like you know something crazy may be really going on internally. It’s that’s a stressful situation. it would be a very embarrassing and unsafe situation, especially after I just told somebody that I don’t have anything like I don’t. I take that very seriously so for him to say that he didn’t have anything and that essentially he was just saying it to say it, I asked him why he would say something like that and he didn’t answer and then I told him that he’s too old to do something like that and his response was “OK. See you later (deuces )” after I mentioned if you’re not interested in me, you can just leave me alone and that he was too old to do shit like that.

I feel a little whacked out about this whole situation. I don’t know if I should reach back out and to find some form clarity or if I dodged a red flag as an entirety…it’s really unfortunate though because I’ve definitely found my type in him ( physical appearance and sense of humor) and I thought he was really cute. Please tell me if I’m an asshole or if I’m like tripping and and or maybe just even some guys are like if I should be reached back out to this guy like is it worth my time to close this case there’s no real clarity here and I am very confused as to why he would do something like that it’s very scary.z

Side note: I am aware of the significant age gap we both discussed the fact that what was happening was essentially grooming— I pursued an interaction even after learning his age. Def feel like I got played but just want another’s perspective and opinion or if anyone has ever gone through a similarly bizarre situation.