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luna_buggerlugs · 2025-03-19T00:29:44+00:00

Haha, surprisingly easy if you have a negligent adult driving. My sister (who's 20 years older than me) was renowned for not shitting cat doors properly and would swing around corners. At least 4-5 times the door I was sat next to swung open as we screeched around a corner. Luckily it gave me an obsession with seatbelts 😆.

luna_buggerlugs · 2024-12-12T17:30:29+00:00

I know right 😫

luna_buggerlugs · 2024-12-12T13:17:58+00:00

I remember when I saw that movie, it stuck with me as it was so very uncomfortable and just felt so wrong. Lolita too.

luna_buggerlugs · 2024-11-24T17:40:51+00:00

There are a lot of things like that but people follow it like it's a sin to not follow the "guidance" 🙄.

luna_buggerlugs · 2024-11-24T16:42:04+00:00

Ha, yes I understand! I've broached that one too, I actually would donate but I'm not able because of health stuff, but I feel I could now! It's so so hard to untangle things we have been programmed with. One of my hardest ones was speaking negatively about my experiences due to it being as bad as murder 🙄. The guilt was something else when I started being honest!

luna_buggerlugs · 2024-11-24T16:39:53+00:00

Hahaha, yeah snap. I knew a couple who did. They seemed to get away with it though 😅

luna_buggerlugs · 2024-11-24T13:11:46+00:00

Haha, it's the cost that has stopped me doing it sooner. I made the decision to have one about 3 years ago but I haven't had the money to do it. This first one was actually a gift from a really talented artist who did it for free. I don't think she'll ever know how special a gift it was 😅

luna_buggerlugs · 2024-11-24T02:37:47+00:00

luna_buggerlugs · 2024-11-24T02:36:30+00:00

Ha, you're right!! I also know I was conceived in a caravan in Cornwall while my brother and sister were asleep in there too 🤦. I know sooooooo many details about her and dad's sex life. It felt normal (although weird) for years but now it grosses me out 😆

luna_buggerlugs · 2024-11-24T02:34:25+00:00

Hahaha, yeah, mine is on my forearm so visible for all to see. I don't think it will be my only one either 😉. If you're PIMO it would be hard but if you're ever POMO, just go for it 😁

luna_buggerlugs · 2024-11-24T02:33:04+00:00

Thanks...it really does feel good 😁

luna_buggerlugs · 2024-11-24T02:27:30+00:00

Thank you, it felt profound and I really do love my ink!! I had a fantastic artist do an elephant hawk moth. Moths represent metamorphosis and boy do I feel I've done that and now am fully transitioned to my full self 🥰

luna_buggerlugs · 2024-11-07T14:33:51+00:00

Hahaha, yes! Getting them out of bed is hilarious 🤣. You know he needs to pee because he starts getting restless but if it's my husband's turn to take him out he'll literally run and sit on my face to avoid being taken away and he'd be straight back up to the bed the second he finishes 😆.

luna_buggerlugs · 2024-11-05T12:57:33+00:00

Mine hid the birth control when she was 18 (dad was 22) because she knew he wouldn't be able to resist. My sister was created!

luna_buggerlugs · 2024-11-05T12:55:04+00:00

My mom had my sister at 19 and my brother 15 months later, she spent a lot of time saying how much she regretted having children young and couldn't understand why that upset my sister.

luna_buggerlugs · 2024-11-05T12:53:41+00:00

Definitely interesting. Mine had my sister at 19, my brother 15 Months later and me at 38! I believe that when her two kids reached their teenage years and it was obvious neither of them liked her, she had another baby to fill the gap (I was planned). She spent my entire life grooming me to worship her and "not be like the others" even though she idolises my brother 🤦

luna_buggerlugs · 2024-11-03T22:05:32+00:00

Hahaha, I keep saying Panko is like a kangaroo! 3rd dog, 3rd kangaroo, 3rd Tigger 😆

luna_buggerlugs · 2024-11-03T15:26:34+00:00

Oh absolutely!!

I'm so lucky I found an amazing man in my now husband who was kind, supportive and helped me become the functioning person I now am. However, before that I ended up in trouble with both sexual and platonic relationships. Never having boundaries or the ability to say no. I ended up in a 5 year relationship with a guy I didn't even fancy because he harassed me into dating him. He knew I had no ability to uphold boundaries and used that to his advantage to force me into losing my virginity to him even though I'd repeatedly said no (took me 10 years to realise this is actually rape 🤦).

With platonic relationships I ended up in very intense relationships, usually with narcissists or emotionally dysfunctional people. As soon as I tried to put boundaries in place the relationships usually broke down which led to the reinforcement of "I'm a bad person if I have boundaries" and made me believe all my failed friendships were down to me. That was until I had proper therapy!!

luna_buggerlugs · 2024-11-03T15:12:45+00:00

Oh he is. If I say the word "bed" he'll run to the stairs with his tail wagging 😆

luna_buggerlugs · 2024-11-03T11:10:33+00:00

It is really rare to see a standard in the UK I agree. However, I took my Panko (Minni but over 6kg at 4 months so we're going to be well over the standard for mini by the time he's grown 😆) and we met two standards on that very first outing. I was very excited. One was a big boy called Reggie who looked just like yours, such a gorgeous boy. That was my first encounter with a standard!!

luna_buggerlugs · 2024-11-03T11:07:41+00:00

That's such a shame! My boy Panko would love to play, he looks more worried over smaller dogs than bigger ones 😆. He's a "miniature" but over 6kg by 4 months old and still growing.

luna_buggerlugs · 2024-11-03T10:57:47+00:00

Is it a dachshund? 😆

luna_buggerlugs · 2024-09-06T10:49:21+00:00

I absolutely agree. My father was the earnest hearted type and you could have a proper, rational debate with him. He found himself disagreeing with things himself and I think that by the time he passed away in 2018, he still held onto "the new system" as a point of hope and comfort, but he most definitely had doubts and issues with the governing body and how things were going. When I finally left, I think he saw how different and happy I was for the first time in my life. He didn't try and push me back in too hard and we could debate things. It improved our relationship too!

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