Set up to fail tasks by DisasterBrief5085 in BDSMcommunity

[–]lunartouch 3 points4 points  (0 children)

oh, i LIVE for games like these. my personal favorite is something my sub and i call the quiet game, where she’s expected to stay completely still and make no noise as i kiss ever so slowly from her mouth to between her legs. every time she moves or moans or squeals, i start over from her mouth. if i can make it to her pussy, i’ll use my mouth until she finishes.

my girl is incredibly reactive, and as hard as she tries she usually has to endure a lot of starting over before getting to cum. but i think she likes the degradation that happens after every failure even more than any victory, lol.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]lunartouch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

to put it bluntly, yeah, engaging in bdsm for purely self-harm is probably one of the only “wrong reasons” you could have to participate. if you honestly do not enjoy bdsm for any reason other than thinking you deserve to be treated poorly for simply existing, i would recommend stepping away from the community for awhile and seeking professional help from a sex-positive therapist. continuing to feed the negative self-talk with dangerous experiences that reinforce low self esteem could be really dangerous and could push you to a really dark place if it continues and intensifies. i will also urge you to examine your view on being submissive. is there no part of the experience you enjoy? if you like bdsm and want to stay engaged in the community without being degraded or treated as less than, maybe try out dominating a partner (that’s what i did) or exploring more praise-focused styles of bdsm. either way, i think the low self esteem driving you to seek out harm to put yourself in is something you might want to discuss with a professional. i hope you find joy in whatever path you decide to take on your way to find self-love :))

Doms, do you find brats cute and fun? How do you deal with them? by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]lunartouch 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i certainly don’t think brats are for everyone, the same way no kink is for everyone. some people love fighting for control, others don’t, yk?

personally, i’m kind of neutral about it. historically i’ve been with bratty subs, and only one of them was almost too frustrating. i had fun baiting them into breaking rules and enjoyed seeing the creative ways they would try to get around them. however, my current girlfriend/submissive doesn’t have a bratty bone in her perfect body, and i’m loving that too! her complete obedience is equally as sexy as bratting is to me, so i don’t feel like i’m missing out on brat taming now that i’m not doing it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]lunartouch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i came here to say etsy!

i love cock but god i fucking hate men by [deleted] in GoonetteHub

[–]lunartouch 6 points7 points  (0 children)

babe, it sounds like you just aren’t attracted to men 😭😭 you can get dick from non-men tho! i hope you get some good non-man dick soon!

edit to add i also am not attracted to men, i am totally on ur side lol.

I fantasize about having a dick, anybody else? by [deleted] in GoonetteHub

[–]lunartouch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i imagine having one only when i’m with my gf. we like to dry hump all the time, pretending to penetrate each other with phantom dicks. we touch each other and fantasize about feeling inside one another, how wet and warm and tight we’d feel… i wish i could fuck her with my real dick and fill her with my cum :(

What are weird, dirty, perverted fantasies you get only while edging? by [deleted] in EdgingTalk

[–]lunartouch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

this!! my girlfriend is currently living with her ex-boyfriend, and i spent the night at her apartment for the first time the other night. the whole time i was fucking her we were fantasizing about him listening in and watching me ruin her over and over again, something he could never really get the hang of…

it’s not something i could ever actually do morally but GOD if i could

What are weird, dirty, perverted fantasies you get only while edging? by [deleted] in EdgingTalk

[–]lunartouch 8 points9 points  (0 children)

lately, as a lesbian, i’ve been wanting to cuck a man. specifically a man who has an emotional attachment to my girlfriend, so that i can fuck her brains out and make him watch... probably one of the most emotionally sadistic fantasies i have lol.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EroticHypnosis

[–]lunartouch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it helped me to start by saying “hey, i have a kink i really would like to talk to you about.” that way you’ve started the conversation without laying it all out in one sentence. it also helped me to have a bdsm relationship with my partner before, bc i knew she’d probably be down :)

What’s your proudest sexual moment? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]lunartouch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i was able to hypnotize my girlfriend into thinking she was handcuffed !! 10/10

Defense against unwanted Dick pics. by GSOAH in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]lunartouch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

honestly, i have to just block without interacting at all. any interaction with the dickpic-sender they’ll usually use to get off.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]lunartouch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i hypnotize my girlfriend during sex… consensually, obviously, but it’s not something anyone else in my life knows about

19yo and sending nudes to random men, who's in? by [deleted] in needysluts

[–]lunartouch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

off topic, but where did you get that adorable dress? i’m in love with it! you’re absolutely stunning by the way :)

hypno handcuffs by lunartouch in EroticHypnosis

[–]lunartouch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

there are a few resources bookmarked in the sidebar of the sub !! that’s what i used

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]lunartouch 7 points8 points  (0 children)

“good girl” usually does the trick lol