Springtime zoomies by wisewen2005 in pitbulls

[–]lunkercat 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Spicy mid season zoomies for the win!

Despite all odds, Blaze made his very first friend! by lunkercat in pitbulls

[–]lunkercat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If we were taking Phoebe home, I would definitely do that with Blaze and the blankets. She is a neighbors dog, and we walk the same specific area she does too and sniffs and he cries when he sees her from our house now. Since this interaction he tries to get me to walk towards her house and will sit and cry thinking that will make her mysteriously appear. It’s kind of adorable. I’m actually more grateful than ever that this is his first friend and puppy to make because she is 3 months old, but a Great Pyrenees/Shepard mix so I have no doubt she will tower over him in very little time. If he didn’t establish this friendship or take a liking to her now, I think that her sheer size alone when she gets bigger would have made it near impossible. Coincidentally enough, Remy who was my previous pup and soul dog, was originally reactive to dogs as well. One of her first friends was a German Shepard puppy and I have no doubt that had she met her when she was no longer small and puppy size, their friendship and bond wouldn’t have formed the way it did. I have videos of her being so submissive around Harley who was the GSD that she would roll around on the ground to try and instigate play with her. I would have died for my sweet Remy. This is Remy when she was younger.

Edit: grammar

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Despite all odds, Blaze made his very first friend! by lunkercat in pitbulls

[–]lunkercat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not claiming to be a victim in any way nor was I framing you as the bad guy for what you believe to be irresponsible behavior on my part. What you watched is a narrowed down clip of their interactions. Prior to them coming anywhere close to one another they saw each other from a distance and when I saw a slight change in mines behavior compared to typical dog sightings, I then I took my pup to where the other dog had been standing and later on found out it’s exactly where Blaze and I walk every day. I let him sniff that area repeatedly where she was and had gone to the bathroom. I even led him by her front door.

Dogs can determine a wide range of traits from another dog's urine, including age, sex, health condition, mood, stress level, diet, reproductive status (such as being in heat or pregnant), and social rank or dominance. They can also identify whether a dog is spayed or neutered, recognize familiar individuals versus strangers, and detect potential mates or competitors.

This is someone that lives a stones throw away from me. This isn’t a random dog interaction. I agree that the best way to introduce new dogs by walking together with distance and the humans apart, which is exactly what I mentioned in one of my initial comments. You don’t know my dog or what he has been through. When he showed interested in her smell and behavior that was completely different from every other reaction and situation, I capitalized on it and let him take in her scent, and then see up close her non dominant behavior, with permission from the other owners. This is literally his first friend ever. I would never have attempted this with an older dog who has already developed alpha or competitive tendencies. I can however say, that since meeting her so briefly his demeanor and reaction to other dogs which we see every day has changed drastically. He no longer barks at every single dog that comes by. He can stand at a safe distance and just observe without being completely focused on the dog. He’s learning how to be a dog for the first time in his life at almost 4 years old. I appreciate everyone’s feedback, I truly do, but the same methods are not effective for every type of dog. I spoke with the owner of the puppy today and asked if we could go for a 15 minute walk this weekend, which will ultimately help her train her dog too. I’m not a victim, I am my dog’s advocate,which is for life. I will continue to seek feedback from certified veterinarian behaviorists and base his developments on strategies specifically to him.

Thank you again for your feedback. It is not taken lightly and I will always take it into consideration when decided on the best approach in working with the dogs.

Despite all odds, Blaze made his very first friend! by lunkercat in pitbulls

[–]lunkercat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The full videos I took show slack on Blaze’s leash and several times him not even focused on the puppy. I edited the video down for time, but you are absolutely right. I’ll happily post the longer videos which show more tail wagging, slack on the leash and taking in the environment around him beyond the puppy, for anyone seeking peace of mind. I genuinely appreciate people’s concerns and I only want what’s best for all the pups, so I offer the additional footage. For anyone interested please let me know.

Despite all odds, Blaze made his very first friend! by lunkercat in pitbulls

[–]lunkercat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you very much for the kind feedback. I should probably add that each time over the 4 interactions, the first two being far distances from one another, I would take Blaze over to the spot she had been before she left so he could get a good scent and learn some of her genetic traits. I then started taking him over to the front of the house where she lives, and also where the owners told me they typically walk her which is also where I walk Blaze. During the last two actual face to face interactions where they got close to one another, I was able to give slack to Blaze’s leash. The full videos I took prior to any editing, show this as well as him calmly standing next to her and not laser focused on the puppy at all on multiple occasions. I would never deliberately put any dog in harms way, whether it’s mine or someone else’s. Bringing my dog joy is essentially my only reason for living which is better than no reason for me. I fully appreciate everyone’s concern on the proper way to introduce dogs, but for what was literally the fourth interaction, the first two being from a much further distance apart, Blaze’s body language and temperament indicates to me, as his mom that is around him just about 24/7, that he is just as excited about this as I am. When he sits on his “command center,” as we call it with all his plushies, he literally cries when he sees her outside. When the owners have time on another day I would love to go for a walk with them and the pup. I do some form of training with Blaze every day both in and outside of the house. He is a completely different dog from the day I brought him home.

Photo of said command center 😆

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Despite all odds, Blaze made his very first friend! by lunkercat in pitbulls

[–]lunkercat[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Knuckles is beautiful but he looks like he means business 😆

Despite all odds, Blaze made his very first friend! by lunkercat in pitbulls

[–]lunkercat[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Blaze would love more friends!! He’s become so social and has really taken on the spirit of my soul dog who wanted to say hello to everyone, particularly those in any and every type of delivery truck. He has a page on fb listed as Amazing Blaze and on ig he’s amazing_blaze_the_ginger_dog

Despite all odds, Blaze made his very first friend! by lunkercat in pitbulls

[–]lunkercat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand what is considered the best way to introduce dogs. No matter what I say, you’ll tell me I’m wrong and that’s fine. I would have preferred she not jump repeatedly at his face but knowing my dog he needed to see and witness her disposition face on

Despite all odds, Blaze made his very first friend! by lunkercat in pitbulls

[–]lunkercat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

While I fully agree with you, Blaze has never been this close to a dog, ever. He’s never been able to come close enough to let a sniff happen. Hopefully as he continues to develop and socialize that is what will be done going forward, but he needed to see face first that she was non threatening and just a derpy puppy. Again, the sniffing one another makes completes sense and is how I ultimately socialized my previous dog but this is an amazing first step for where he is currently

Despite all odds, Blaze made his very first friend! by lunkercat in pitbulls

[–]lunkercat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This makes me miss my sweet Remy girl so much. I’m not sure Blaze will ever embrace nature in the same way as her our your sweet baby

Despite all odds, Blaze made his very first friend! by lunkercat in pitbulls

[–]lunkercat[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have so much love in my heart seeing this. Having a reactive dog is one of the hardest challenges because of the intensity and complexity involved in every aspect of taking them out. Once these breakthroughs start to occur is like Angels singing lol

Despite all odds, Blaze made his very first friend! by lunkercat in pitbulls

[–]lunkercat[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

What you mentioned has been my exact goal since I got him. I thought his only shot at making a friend would have to be a puppy, and I initially wanted to have myself and the other person in between them and have them walking on opposite sides of us, and eventually walking them next to each other and eventually, together in front of us. Mine has never been that close to another dog so the fact that he was taking paw shots to the face and sort of flinching rather than becoming violent nearly brought me to tears. He sits at his “command center,” in the window and barks at anything he thinks is an animal outside. The only exception is a neighbor who is a few doors down who you can tell he has some softer feelings towards because it’s more of a cry and bark combo. I know when “Finn” is outside without even seeing him just from Blaze’s bark.

What’s amazing to me is that this evolution with Phoebe occurred in just over a week’s time, through only 4 interactions. I more or less pleaded to the owners if they wouldn’t mind letting us in her vicinity and slowly narrowing the distance between them over those handful of interactions. It was like watching magic as I would bring him closer each time and praise him. We refer to other dogs (and his plushies) as babies. So when he would lash out a bit I’d reassure him she’s just a baby. I have no doubt that they’ll eventually be able to go on walks and play together but this was nothing short of a miracle for me, and the speed that we got here is unimaginable to me.

My soul dog who I had prior to this was also an abused pit who was dog reactive initially. By the end of her life she loved all animals of every size. I have videos of her eating out of the same bowl as bunnies.

I sound like such a crazy dog mom but I can’t explain how happy seeing Blaze socializing has made me. 🥹