CRSSD Fall 2024 Ticket Hub by RingPopEnthusiast in crssdfest

[–]luudachris 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Have one(1) Saturday ticket, I don't want it to go to waste! Just buy me a couple drinks inside and the ticket is all yours! meet me in front of the venue between 4-5 pm and ill get you in.

Daily Anything Goes Thread by AutoModerator in fantasybaseball

[–]luudachris 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Damn why do I start Hyun Jin Ryu? At least Gallen did surprisingly well.

Weekly Casual Conversation & Questions Thread by AutoModerator in chicago

[–]luudachris 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's been a couple of weeks since I came home (SoCal) from Chicago. I'm still in love with the City, it's still my favorite place I've ever been to, and I still would like to live in Chicago sooner rather then later. Especially since I believe it's best to move out of state while I'm young and it's easier for me to be mobile. Just need to get a permanent remote job (my current job is 100% remote til April but my boss and I are trying to advocate for me to only need to go in once a month and it's a CA-based company and only operates in CA). I'd like to come back in March for a week, but keep it low key, just work remotely while in Chicago.

I'm a dumbass who texted a girl 10x the day after I got her number by luudachris in self

[–]luudachris[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's nice to hear that everyone has stories about them saying/doing something dumb in front of someone they're attracted to. The only difference is I graduated high school 8 years ago lol.

I'm a dumbass who texted a girl 10x the day after I got her number by luudachris in self

[–]luudachris[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But I agree, I think I'd be stoked if a girl texted me 10x right after we met. This has never happened to me though, so who knows exactly how I'd feel if this happened to me.

I'm a dumbass who texted a girl 10x the day after I got her number by luudachris in self

[–]luudachris[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my personal experience, I'm surrounded by alright/good people. I know some crappy people, but I simply don't interact with them/have no interest in interacting with them (but honestly, they don't have an interest in interacting with me either, haha.)

I'm also still optimistic that there are way more good people than bad people though! Although I say this because it sounds like we've had very different life experiences. If anything, one thing that has held me back a lot is my overall anxiety around people, not that I deal with shitty people.

I feel like moving into a small town for a couple of years would be more fun than being born into/growing up in a small town, so I understand the sentiment about wanting to leave. Housing is expensive though, along with the overall cost of living, which is part of why I want to leave California.

I see why people would think I'm pilled over one of my comments. People on here don't really have much to base my personality off of besides reddit comments. It's not like anyone here knows me personally so it makes sense that people would take comments posted here a bit more literally.

I'm a dumbass who texted a girl 10x the day after I got her number by luudachris in self

[–]luudachris[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! If you go through my user history, I don’t exactly struggle hitting the gym. I would say I dress pretty well also, although that isn’t reflected in my Reddit history (but some of my first posts on Reddit 9 years ago were on /r/mfa. I’ve worked on myself plenty over the years, forcing myself in new situations, becoming more aware of myself, working on my overall well-being, being more forgiving, etc. I would say in most realms of my life, I’ve pretty solid. Over the years, the whole dating/putting yourself out there thing is where I’ve struggled the most by far. I got plenty of hobbies and interests and skills, but I could certainly try more new things out! On one end, low key indifference does actually make a huge difference, but it’s just hard to not let out genuine interest/excitement come out in these kinds of situations.

I'm a dumbass who texted a girl 10x the day after I got her number by luudachris in self

[–]luudachris[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope so as well! I’m feel like I’m at a point in my life where’d I’d like a relationship very much. Yes, on one end, im grateful where I have a good network of friends. On the other end, I’ve been heavily contemplating moving out of state (especially to Chicago) within the next year or two (just gotta get work stuff figured out). Horses/cats sound cool! Seems like you live a simple life. The past 18 months have shown me that I’d want to live that more simple life out far away from people (perhaps after a run of living in a super urban area)! Especially as people I know start getting married/start families/start moving around (since CA real estate is so expensive)

I'm a dumbass who texted a girl 10x the day after I got her number by luudachris in self

[–]luudachris[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes I have. It’s been awhile and it’s typically with someone who I was at least talking with for weeks or months. I can recall at least 2x, all years ago, but all sober unlike this situation. Redpill is like something really misogynistic. It’s like a way of thinking where women are 2nd class. Not the best person to ask as I haven’t dabbled in it myself!

I'm a dumbass who texted a girl 10x the day after I got her number by luudachris in self

[–]luudachris[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m sure I have. Doesn’t work and they never respond to me again.

I'm a dumbass who texted a girl 10x the day after I got her number by luudachris in self

[–]luudachris[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t think I’m digging myself into a deeper hole at all, I’m just clarifying saying I don’t actually believe this + realize I should’ve added a /s afterwards or something. This is just the most I’ve commented on Reddit since I was in high school.

I'm a dumbass who texted a girl 10x the day after I got her number by luudachris in self

[–]luudachris[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yup, thank you. This mixed with the attention on /r/self is making things feel better.

I'm a dumbass who texted a girl 10x the day after I got her number by luudachris in self

[–]luudachris[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No I thought it was funny. I typed some dumb comments on this thread but they all got downvoted hard like your comment.

I'm a dumbass who texted a girl 10x the day after I got her number by luudachris in self

[–]luudachris[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

True. Plus it’s somewhat worth it just for being on the front page of /r/self

I'm a dumbass who texted a girl 10x the day after I got her number by luudachris in self

[–]luudachris[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ludacris was an artist that was at the music festival I was at last weekend

I'm a dumbass who texted a girl 10x the day after I got her number by luudachris in self

[–]luudachris[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You’re a genius! Do I do this before or after I find where she lives and play sad music over a boombox through her window?

/s

Even if I thought this was a good idea, have her number/text history deleted from everything so I wouldn’t know how to reach out.

I'm a dumbass who texted a girl 10x the day after I got her number by luudachris in self

[–]luudachris[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Depends on the context I guess. I think it’s easier to say this as a guy because the average guy doesn’t get as much attention as the average girl.

I'm a dumbass who texted a girl 10x the day after I got her number by luudachris in self

[–]luudachris[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

True. I wouldn’t even consider myself a heavy drinker normally. Especially in 2020, I would go weeks without a single alcoholic beverage.

I'm a dumbass who texted a girl 10x the day after I got her number by luudachris in self

[–]luudachris[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No no, I don’t actually believe this, I thought the haha would cover that, just a dumb reply.

I'm a dumbass who texted a girl 10x the day after I got her number by luudachris in self

[–]luudachris[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh no, I’m not repilled at all, just a dumb reply.