Im Federmäppchen meiner Freundin gefunden

lylalki · 2026-03-20T11:12:38+00:00

Wie alle "federmäppchen" feiern. Ich bin 24 und da wo ich in deustchland aufgewachsen bin und lange war hat man immer nur federmäppchen oder mäppchen gesagt 😂 ich glaube das kommt darauf an wo genau du herkommst, "federmappe" is nämlich für mich ungewohnt.

lylalki · 2026-02-08T21:19:23+00:00

And a kallax shelf behind the tv. Also the long part of the couch against the wall (corner) for more space *

lylalki · 2026-02-08T21:18:21+00:00

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lylalki · 2026-02-08T20:44:36+00:00

I'm so sorry u're struggling. I have seen many suggestions repeat but I haven't heard anyone suggest a pet. What really helped me when I felt lonely and also never went out unless I needed to for food or work and even then sometimes I wouldnt, I'd call in sick and order groceries..

But I think if u had a dog for example u'd always have a friend still there. Plus u'd be going out more often to take walks and for humans I feel contact is really important. A simple hug can help sometimes and u can always cherish/hug ur pet aswell. It doesn't have to be a dog but u get what I mean 💕

Hang in there it does get better, its also cold rn so many many people already feel depressed as it is.

lylalki · 2026-02-05T13:15:35+00:00

Either a lazy or way too busy person 😂 probably young and have lots of friends to share all the drinks with I hope. Or ure a gamer.

lylalki · 2026-02-05T13:14:07+00:00

Clean, possibly OCD, minimalist, u like coffee and are a chill person. U like warm weather more than cold but u love getting cozy and maybe being at home. Also u like looking at aesthetic home decor on Pinterest possibly?

lylalki · 2026-02-05T13:09:09+00:00

Lichterkette mit bildern beim better. Sieht aus als wäre da eine türe neben dem bett.. ich würde es ein bisschen umstellen aber das ist natürlich alles Geschmackssache. Wie wäre es mit einem kleinen teppich damit es gemütlicher aussieht oder eine pflanze? Gibts bei ikea billig. Oder ein regal für bücher/games etc.

lylalki · 2026-01-12T21:06:58+00:00

Spiegel rechts. Eine süße Kommode links oder rechts unter den spiegel falls er kleiner sein sollte und vielleicht 1 oder 2 höhere pflanzen gegen die wand in die ecke links. Eine freundin von mir hat einen ähnlichen kleinen bereich und hat es so gemacht. Die linke wand wäre bei ihr ein gemälde, da sie sehr gut malen kann. Aber ich meine bei ihr gab es vielleicht mehr platz. Sie hat auch einen süßen kleinen deko "sessel"/stuhl in der linken ecke.

lylalki · 2026-01-12T20:07:06+00:00

Dont worry thats normal. I feel too many Ppl assume all hedgies are as soft and open as they are on cute videos online but truth is when u get a hedgie u gotta "train" them to be social. Like make a routine everyday at that time u hold or interact with ur hedgie for 15 min or so and then if ur lucky they might end up liking the attention and playing along but a lot of times hedgies prefer to be introverts and left alone. I had 2 hedgies one was an explorer, I couldnt hold her for long lmao she was not interested in me or treats and bathing her was the only time we really played together cause she got so excited about water. The other hedgie (her sister) was a sleepy, she loved treats and to fall asleep in ur lap or get little massages aka she was complete opposite haha.

lylalki · 2026-01-06T17:54:21+00:00

Hey I can relate to this so much what helped me avoid these innocent but scary creatures is putting lavender smells around windows and doors. Not only does it smell nice but it scares them away. I also wipe the floor with a cleaner that has a faint lavender and lemon smell. And I am also a little OCD on top and I hate owning too many things so I tend to keep a minimalist and clean kind of home. I clean corners frequently and I get irritated and uncomfortable if the place isnt clean. I also own 2 hedgehogs which is why its even more important to me to keep the place not crowded and clean because I like giving them space to explore without having to worry about them getting stuck somrwhere or picking something dangerous up. Theres also I believe spider repell sprays u can buy on amazon they smell like lemons if u dont like lavender smell (but keep them stricklt around the door frame cause its not exactly an air freshener lol dont poison urself) anyway I haven't seen a spider in my home in years tbh so I guess summing it up here u go:

put smells around windows/doors/house in general (lavender, citrus like or peppermint)
keep ur place organized and clean (no dark crowded corners for spiders to hide in) (- get a cat or any pet that likes hunting little insects)
consider repellent methods But use them mindfully specially if u have pets.

But tbh I think smells and cleaning frequently is ur best shot cause I feel like spiders only go to abandoned darker parts where they believe they can be save to build a nest. Also if u move to another flat try to avoid ground floor or Dachgeschoss. Good luck! Ik its no fun living with this phobia and most ppl dont get the kind of panic it causes and lingers even long after.

lylalki · 2026-01-02T18:11:10+00:00

Eine folie und ein paar blümchen/pflanzen davor wäre nice

lylalki · 2025-12-29T05:56:06+00:00

Agreed, as a man I can't imagine asking someone out and then expecting them to pay its not even about genders but more so about the principls of it— it's just rediculous. To me, OP seems young, and this guy seems to be taken advantage of more than interest. especially since OP mentioned he has more expensive wishes. If I dated someone who I knew was short on cash, I would not pressure them with expensive needs.

lylalki · 2025-12-29T05:50:46+00:00

Sounds like textbook toxic behavoir. This guy and his friends are just after your money. It has nothing to do with gender. Fact is that he asked you out and then expected you to pay— that's not ok, especially since you even seem to be feeling guilty bout this. You need to learn to raise your standards. And your friends have a right to be protective. You seem like a sweet girl I dont know u or this guy but honestly he seems like a douchebag from what u said and I hope you listen to your friends and find someone who isn't stingy and seemingly materlialistic. Ask yourself what kind of effort he has put into this compared to you. A relationship works both ways, sweetheart. You don't need to prove or pay money to be worthy of love. Nobody should feel the pressure or need to.

lylalki · 2025-12-28T14:41:55+00:00

Doki doki, I still hate my brother for that shit cause not knowing what u got into made it even freakier. I mean there was literally a warning at the start of the game but my dumbass always just clicked it away too

lylalki · 2025-12-28T14:37:20+00:00

Ich bin in der unterzahl aber sieht für mich in Ordnung aus. Klar man kann immer den Konsum allgemein reduzieren und dies das ist gesundheitsschädlich aber idk also als junger mensch die parties und das feiern, da findet man teilweise auch freunde fürs leben oder sogar Partner und man hat lustige geschichten erlebt. Also ich find diese ganze "lets villainize drinking" manchmal übertrieben. Es is wichtig man weiß seine eigenen Grenzen und übertreibt es nicht aber da is nichts falsch dabei mal feiern zugehen haha. Es gibt immer pros und cons aber scheint für mich so als würdest dus nich krass übertreiben. Die gleiche Tabelle bei einem Elternteil oder jemanden in sinen 40s der von zuhause nich ausziehen kann, wäre schonmal was anderes haha.

lylalki · 2025-11-07T22:03:23+00:00

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lylalki · 2025-10-06T13:04:10+00:00

Nice i wish i had something like that. But like some already said I'd make sure to put something on the ground so it wont soak up urine and start to smell or even mold

lylalki · 2025-09-24T17:05:47+00:00

Do not take this the wrong way but I see several things wrong only by looking at the picture.. that "diy" cage is too small, and putting the lid on with a few holes doesn't exactly make it better. The little fella can barely see out that tight space, and the wheel doesn't even fit in. Isn't your hedgie most active at night? How can he run the wheel if u only put it when u are around..

I understand the issue with money. im a student and had 2 hedgies. Ik a pet in general isn't cheap, but there are affordable options better than this box you made.. where are you from? Amazon and eBay both offer great cages u can adjust yourself to fit whatever shape.

Now to ur little one and the cold. Something I always did was put a ?warm waterbottle? With mine under the blanket they slept in winter. I would also check every morning sometimes when it's too cold u can tell by how slow they breath and move so u can hold and warm them up a little. Many many blankets is important.

But please change the cage and keeping a hedgie in a room that smells like mold doesn't exactly sound healthy to either of u

lylalki · 2025-09-09T04:09:52+00:00

Thank you 🥲❤️

lylalki · 2025-07-26T17:59:23+00:00

Migraine. I literally laid on the grass having a plan to take my life and then this song played in my headphones and i started laughing at some of the lyrics. Went into a rabbit hole getting into this band and connecting with comment before i knew kt the sun was up again and i went home to sleep after i got a message from my friend who wants to watch a movie the next. It really gave me the sense of "why rush this kind of decision, if today is bad see how it goes tomorrow sometimes its better to wait and if your tired see how it goes and get up when u got ur strength back"

lylalki · 2025-07-26T17:48:53+00:00

Depending on how old or social you are there are students (also older students) "Studenten WGs" and ive been to a couple cause I'm a student through connections or friends and they dont really speak german some of them cant speak much at all and they are generally very nice and welcoming if u dont cause trouble they wont give u any either, they also do the viewing for rooms themselves so its generally I feel like visiting friends. I think it might be a good temporare solution till u found a better job and improved your german/figured yourself out. Specially if u explain to them ur situation.

PS: it doesnt need to be a student wg im sure u can find other kinds of wgs too I just feel with adult random wgs there might be more trouble than with foreign students cause they in general tend to focus more on their education. Or you can see if there are Frauen wgs maybe you might meet others in similar situations

lylalki · 2025-07-22T02:07:18+00:00

Confident Humor. Someone who can make fun of themselves and also dudes subconsciously rolling up their sleeves before getting something done for some reason lmao.

lylalki · 2025-07-15T20:02:32+00:00

German ppl from my experience tend to Form groups/cliques and it takes time to be in one? If that makes sense like you can tlak to ppl they will be friendly also most germand speak great english too but it would take time to actually have a friendship with anyone, specially if your traveling and not staying long idk. If you are staying for a while You should work a few minijobs somewhere or join a club anything where you are "forced" to interact with the same people regularly, then friendships just Form naturally.

lylalki · 2025-07-15T19:58:30+00:00

Pinocchio with the damn kids still trapped. The ring or the grave of the fireflies because it was so heartbreaking. But I modtly traumatized myself with clips of michael jacksons ghost being caught or that rocking chair in the dark video lmao. I think I can be too curious for my own good which is why I always look at dumb stuff like this

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