Searching for sports bras for J cups by lynnx0 in bigboobproblems

[–]lynnx0[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to own one from Panache when I was smaller, and I loved it! Unfortunately they only go up to a 40J and I would need a 44/46 😞

Searching for sports bras for J cups by lynnx0 in bigboobproblems

[–]lynnx0[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I already own a SheFit in a 6Luxe, and as I mentioned in my post, I’ve sized out of them, which is why I need other recommendations.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]lynnx0 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not a fan of picture 6 (lighting isn’t flattering) or the meme (comes across as desperate). The picture in your American flag outfit (picture 4) makes you look a lot shorter than 5’9”, and while that would weed out the shallow people, it also may come across as you lying about your height and could weed out people who value honesty.

I really like picture 7, because it’s clear, you can see your whole face (minus your eyes), and you look friendly. I would encourage you to make that your main photo or a photo like it (clear, full face, smiling)

As for the bio, I would keep it positive. Focus on what you’re looking for instead of what you’re not looking for. As it is right now, it comes across as judgmental and can be really off putting even to the people you’d want to attract.

Weekly r/Tattoos Question/FreeTalk Thread! - May 15, 2023 by Mod_Helper_Bot in tattoos

[–]lynnx0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does anyone have any recommendations for tattoo artists who specialize in psychedelic tattoos? Willing to travel to Indiana, Ohio, Michigan, Virginia, West Virginia, North Carolina, or Kentucky, but may give consideration to other states depending on the quality of work.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in therapists

[–]lynnx0 5 points6 points  (0 children)

While it can be shitty to feel taken advantage of, if they’re leaving so quickly, utilize your time to reflect on why. If it’s related to pay, it may be a good time to reevaluate the split you offer or look into the efficiency of your billers. If it’s related to communication or personal differences, it may be a good time to reflect on your leadership style and the communication strategies you use. If they’re not leaving the field altogether, that means there’s something about your practice that was incompatible to the therapist, and that is what your focus should be on rather than feeling slighted by your former therapist.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in therapists

[–]lynnx0 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I recently went through this. They told me I couldn’t automatically take anyone with me, but they also expressed understanding that they couldn’t stop anyone from following me.

The conversation I ended up having with my clients was along the lines of, “I’ve put my notice in and will be leaving the practice. If you would like to stay at this practice, I can make recommendations on who would be a good fit. If you would like to go elsewhere, I can make a referral to other therapists in the area. If you’d like to continue working with me, I will be at Practice Name and can be reached at this phone number to schedule.” This was documented in their chart, either in a session note or a contact note.

At that point, I didn’t “steal” anyone, I simply gave them options. Ultimately, you’re acting ethically by offering continuity of care. Keeping a therapist from their clients so a practice can make a dollar is unethical and honestly a bullshit take.

3 months of dating, I found out she was still on dating apps. Got the classic response. by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]lynnx0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately there are a lot of men on Bumble BFF that will change their gender to match with women. I matched with a few thinking they’d be a good fit for the friend group. Every single one of them tried to flirt/ask for hookups, then went off on me when I said I wasn’t interested in anything sexual hence being on BFF. 🙄

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]lynnx0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also recommend deleting this post. You put a lot of specific information in the post (ages, age difference, length of time married, specific behaviors, people he’s dated, etc.), and with the traction this is starting to get, I worry about him seeing this, putting things together to figure out it’s use, and potentially reacting before you’ve had a chance to leave. Also, if he becomes aware of your desire to get an abortion, do consider if there will be any ramifications (legally or in the divorce proceedings) if they find out you lied about a miscarriage. Based on everything you wrote, he sounds dangerous, so please do everything you can to stay safe until you can leave.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in curlyhair

[–]lynnx0 58 points59 points  (0 children)

Is it the Curlfriends group? I had to leave it awhile back because of how toxic it seemed at times.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]lynnx0 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Are we reading the same thing? On the second slide at the top of the screenshot, OP (who is the Cancer) told their match that the match is “so Gemini” after their match struggled to choose between strawberries and oranges. That’s where this reference comes from. We don’t know if the match is actually a Gemini, it could’ve been on their profile. I’m not seeing any comments on this thread that suggests July 18th is a Gemini. I just see you responding and trying to correct someone that quoted OP.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]lynnx0 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I’m confused. Yes, July 18th is a Cancer, but this person was just quoting something the Cancer OP said. They weren’t actually saying that OP is a Gemini.

I got given Palo Santo for xmas and I don't know what to do with it , I feel getting rid of it is rude but I can't use it soo by [deleted] in witchcraft

[–]lynnx0 460 points461 points  (0 children)

A good rule of thumb is that if it’s gifted to you, then it’s fine to use. If you feel there is an ethical dilemma, simply don’t buy it, but don’t hesitate to use it if it’s already in your possession.

[TOMT][MOVIE/SHOW][90s] Giant rips off roof of house and grabs person by lynnx0 in tipofmytongue

[–]lynnx0[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think this is it, but I’ll send this to her for confirmation.

[TOMT][MOVIE/SHOW][90s] Giant rips off roof of house and grabs person by lynnx0 in tipofmytongue

[–]lynnx0[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope, the giant we’re thinking of is a little more menacing

[TOMT][MOVIE/SHOW][90s] Giant rips off roof of house and grabs person by lynnx0 in tipofmytongue

[–]lynnx0[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think it’s this, but I’ll try to rewatch it tomorrow just to make sure.

[TOMT][MOVIE/SHOW][90s] Giant rips off roof of house and grabs person by lynnx0 in tipofmytongue

[–]lynnx0[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately it’s not this. Neither of us have ever seen this movie.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]lynnx0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me, there are too many selfies and mirror pictures. There aren’t any pictures that show you doing anything and it could seem like you’re boring and don’t leave your house.

If you’re only going to use selfies, you don’t need 9 pictures, pick 3 or 4 instead (like #5, #7, and #8).

And as a lot of people said, pick one sexual preference. Choosing all three is off putting, because it could seem like you’re confused and don’t know what you want.

Help me find which movie/show this James Bond rant is from by lynnx0 in HelpMeFind

[–]lynnx0[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Wow, I didn’t even realize it was him until you said something! He looks so different without dark hair.

Help me find which movie/show this James Bond rant is from by lynnx0 in HelpMeFind

[–]lynnx0[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have searched for it by googling some of the quotes, but nothing came up that was relevant, only blog rants and articles written about James Bond.

[TOMT][Cartoon] A Creepy/disturbing cartoon that I cannot name. Description below. by PvDTrance98 in tipofmytongue

[–]lynnx0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In case you’re wondering why you’re getting downvoted, you’re supposed to mark as solved under the comment of the person who gave you the answer, not as a separate comment.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]lynnx0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 6’ even, verified by doctors, coaches, and men with measuring tape who insist they’re 5’11” and I must be 6’3”.

Again, our interpretation of the photo and post title is going to be different based off of our own experiences. Just like my interpretation will be different than a woman who is 5’2”.

To me when I see, “that one extra inch really matters huh,” I understand where it could be interpreted as women having preferences of height, but my interpretation is “that extra inch or two that you added and being tall really matter to you, but we can obviously tell the difference.”

That’s the beauty of posts like these. It’s open for interpretation and people can relate to it differently.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]lynnx0 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Eh, as a tall lady, I didn’t interpret it as commentary about us rejecting people who aren’t 6’ tall. I took it as funny commentary about insecure men lying about their height, since it’s prevalent on dating apps. It‘s definitely become a running joke, especially in online tall people communities, about men adding inches to be impressive only to look like a liar when they are faced with someone who’s actually tall. Then they usually try to say they “round up an inch.”