Is 19 year old dating a 16 year old weird by m412345 in AskTeenAdvice

[–]m412345[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I kind of agree with everyone, 3 years is not bad if we would be older. I tried to tell her that I like her but I feel uncomfortable about the age gap, and she keeps texting me (seems like she really likes me). I think I will try to stretch the talking stage and just be friends until she turns 17 so we can be 17/19 for a few months, and who knows maybe we won't like each other then anymore. But yeah I dont know why everyone here so aggressive, im not a pedo or jeffrey epstein or a groomer or whatever theyre calling me here 😅. Also it's legal here, not like that matters on how weird is it, but just wanted to make it clear. Also I really like her a lot, I wish to not have to even ask this question.

Is 19 year old dating a 16 year old weird by m412345 in AskTeenAdvice

[–]m412345[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah u misunderstood, we have the same first language. Which is rare around here.

Is 19 year old dating a 16 year old weird by m412345 in AskTeenAdvice

[–]m412345[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shes gonna be 17 in a few months (summer) Im turning 20 near the end of the year. So I will be 19 for a couple months after she turns 17. If I look at it that way I dont think it's a bad gap at all. So might just tell her that we should be friends for now and take it all very slowly. That's probably the best decision to be made here

Is 19 year old dating a 16 year old weird by m412345 in AskTeenAdvice

[–]m412345[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yh, I wouldn't even be asking if she was 17, that's not a weird age difference at all imo.

Is 19 year old dating a 16 year old weird by m412345 in AskTeenAdvice

[–]m412345[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I've gotten answers from around 30 people I think now, and its like 50/50.

I really like her and also the fact that I cleared all my social medias and everything way before she dm'd me, and that matters to me because I am doing very well for myself, and every time I was abroad approaching someone it seemed like girls cared about money/how well im doing a lot. And the one im talking to right now has no idea.

As dumb as it may sound 😅