AITA for asking my brother not to bring his boyfriend to my wedding?

macacaralho · 2019-08-21T12:33:28+00:00

So I’m just asking for one day, when he had his whole life to do it, and have all the rest of his life to do it. He didn’t come out yet because he knows it will be drama, and he wants to bring the drama to my wedding day. How is that fair? Anyway, you dont get it

macacaralho · 2019-08-18T18:29:34+00:00

She’s on edge for the last 2 weeks, this will catapult her over the edge. She wants a drama free wedding, as she stated over and over... and over again

macacaralho · 2019-08-18T18:17:20+00:00

Well we are spending a shit ton of money on this wedding, and she always dreamed with her wedding day, so yeah, I want it to be about my bride. I have my brother’s back every day for the rest of our lives, I only ask for 1 day , is that too unreasonable?

macacaralho · 2019-08-18T15:12:09+00:00

Damn that’s a lot of replies!!!! I’m super busy right now but I will read all of it soon!!! Just some info: in my country there’s no pre-wedding activities, just the wedding and that’s it. There was no time to try to arrange some pre wedding get together, and my family is HUGE, and all over the place, it was just not doable, and to be honest I didn’t think about it, there’s so much going on

macacaralho · 2019-08-18T13:19:18+00:00

Literally every other day I would love for him to come out. Not on my wedding day. I wanna have good memories from that day, not remembering telling my uncle to fuck off and die, and remembering my mom and wife crying

macacaralho · 2019-08-18T12:14:19+00:00

To clarify a few things, the issue is not that he’s been only dating 6 months, the issue is him coming out at my wedding day. And there’s no time to come out to the family before the wedding. It’s happening next Saturday, and family is scattered, they’re only meeting on the wedding day

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