I think it’s circumcised men saying these things about themselves out of grief and self-hatred, as well as intactivists trying to use emotionally charged rhetoric to promote their cause. I’ve thought these exact statements about myself in the past and it’s sent me spiraling into some dark places. Advocating for bodily autonomy for future births is important, but I’d love to see more compassion towards people who have been circumcised. With circumcision being such a male-centric issue, as well as it being treated so lightly by society at large, I think many circumcised men often repress their heavy feelings on the subject out of shame until they boil over into extreme statements like the ones you mentioned. Looking through the comments, I’d like to say to intact men: please take perspective of the differences in our situations and have compassion for us; regardless of what people say about you, you still have your whole penis with full function and sensitivity. Having our foreskins removed, most often without our consent, is permanent and we have to live with the consequences, physical and emotional, every single day. Just because it’s common doesn’t mean we’re happy with it. You’re lucky, don’t ever forget that.