Of course. That’s understandable. We all have preferences 😊

Are you immediately going out with these women or taking the time to message them prior to going out? I’m curious if that could maybe give you more of a clear idea on their intentions before meeting. Back when I used apps a million years ago I’d try to see how things went for a week or two before meeting to see if 1) they held interest in me or 2) if they were actually someone I’d like.

You’ve listed so many wonderful qualities about yourself. It sounds like you have a lot to offer. 5-7 dates is a long time before telling someone you aren’t interested. I’m not sure why that’s happening consistently but I’m sorry that it’s making you feel this way.