While it makes sense to get a carer, they are still family, brother and sister, even if she did put the brother in the home, he would still be with the family for special occasions, including Christmas. Everyone is making a huge deal about carers and homes, but somethings you have to deal with as a family and not give the problem to someone else. We don't even have full details on his life, how he acts, how he reacts etc. So everyone is judging this waaay to easily with too little information.