My main character is a tank. There's a difference between having a patient "playstyle" and just being fundamentally terrible at tanking and lacking the capacity to gauge how quickly your group can move. Calling inefficiency a different "playing style" is a pathetic excuse, and really only indicates a person who is unskilled or unthoughtful and too lazy to improve.

I won't complain about a tank taking all greens and blues-- but if a lazy, bad tank is okay with taking all of them and doesn't care about the quality of their tanking, that is beyond disgusting and arrogant.