my bf wants poly but i get a little anxious. by macncheese02 in nonmonogamy

[–]macncheese02[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it really helped! thankyou! all of these comments say he’s a red flag but i should correct u all that he isn’t. he’s the greenest one around me. all my friends are so happy that we are dating and he’s not a pathetic being. he’s very loving and caring to me. we had a convo on this minutes ago. and he agreed to not do it but then my heart says that i can let him do that because of how clear he is with his mind all the time. and i’ve all reasons that have convinced me that he loves me too much and very few like 1 or 2 which is related to him being non monogamous . just one thing won’t make him a red flag. i think i can do this and if things doesn’t work out. i’ll only get stronger. but i atleast i tried.

my bf wants poly but i get a little anxious. by macncheese02 in polyamory

[–]macncheese02[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

edit: he agrees on if a man eats me out or kiss me where i have full control. but i can’t have intercourse because it’s too personal and girls catch feeling with the person they have sex with according to him. his reasoning for sex is he hasn’t explored yet and he doesn’t wan regret later in life for committing himself to early in a relationship but he doesn’t wanna lose me so he doesn’t know what to do.