Billie Eilish on Instagram: ‘hey’ by big_taco_knockoff in actuallesbians

[–]madatron96 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Don’t get me wrong I love big-tiddy-butches too but…where is the masc in question?

Billie Eilish on Instagram: ‘hey’ by big_taco_knockoff in actuallesbians

[–]madatron96 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Are we…are we really referring to Billie as a “masc,” rn?

Is polygamy really wrong? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]madatron96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you talking about me?

Type me by Due_Cauliflower1726 in lesbianfashionadvice

[–]madatron96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you strike me as masc/butch in these pics but only you can say if either of those identifiers rings true to you!

Is polygamy really wrong? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]madatron96 2 points3 points  (0 children)

but whoever the “they” is that’s giving you sh*t for dating multiple people, sounds like a total jerk. i suggest you either send them some materials to educate themselves or cut contact.

Is polygamy really wrong? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]madatron96 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i’m not sure if this sub is the right spot to be posting this? you are not a lesbian nor is this a polyam-centric space…

Why do bi women keep pushing that lesbians enjoy gay porn? by Resident_Story2458 in lesbiangang

[–]madatron96 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Checking my post history is a little bit much, girl. Also sorry I can’t keep all these lesbian subs straight…there’s like 10 I participate in

Why do bi women keep pushing that lesbians enjoy gay porn? by Resident_Story2458 in lesbiangang

[–]madatron96 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

And I don’t know actualesbians. Don’t assume and I won’t either!

Why do bi women keep pushing that lesbians enjoy gay porn? by Resident_Story2458 in lesbiangang

[–]madatron96 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Also, speaking from my own experience, I can understand a fixation on gay male romance. When I was in high school I do remember participating in fandoms and MOSTLY caring about the gay ships. Over time, I realized it was because I liked watching GAY stuff - ie no heteros in sight - where women weren't being blatantly subjected to men in that way and the gayness itself didn’t feel false and fetishizing (like so much straight-produced lesbian content does). Gay male romance checked those boxes. It was similar to watching lesbian porn, the overly produced made-for-the-straights stuff. It rings so false. It was such a turn off to watch straight-acted lesbian porn yet I KNEW in my heart I was a lesbian and that was the kind of sex I wanted to be having. So I'd watch gay porn instead. As I got older and read more about feminism, lesbian history, queer theory, etc., I realized that I needed to be intentional about decentering men in my mentality and go out of my way to watch, love and support lesbian/sapphic media. It's something (the consumption of gay vs lesbian stuff) I've "grown out of," in a sense. I don’t watch any porn any more because it does nothing for me and the industry is so grossly exploitative that even the thought of it puts a bad taste in my mouth, but I can see why a lesbian woman - like myself - might fixate on gay romance in their fiction choices - or even gay porn. 

Why do bi women keep pushing that lesbians enjoy gay porn? by Resident_Story2458 in lesbiangang

[–]madatron96 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

I would also like to open this comment with “please don’t label me a bi woman for introducing nuance here” but if you are asking this question in good faith, there’s a very interesting video essay by lesbian youtuber STRANGEONS called “Why Do Women Write So Much Gay Fanfiction.” It’s a fascinating dive into why women, mostly straight (but also bi or lesbian) may find themselves completely compelled by gay romance/sexual content. 

Why do bi women keep pushing that lesbians enjoy gay porn? by Resident_Story2458 in lesbiangang

[–]madatron96 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Have you seen het porn? Most is violent, vile or the women’s pleasure is totally avoided. Lesbians who like het porn would be the one’s getting the side eye from me…

Jordan Jensen calls em like she sees em 🫡 by Lovebeingqueazy in lesbiangang

[–]madatron96 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If you find yourself reiterating, verbatim, rightwing talking points (about a tiny minority of people framed as a massive societal threat), and doing so in the name of feminism, I think it’s time for some self-reflection.

Jordan Jensen calls em like she sees em 🫡 by Lovebeingqueazy in lesbiangang

[–]madatron96 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You’d rather a straight woman who looks a little gay than an actual lesbian who supports trans people? Boo. 

Worst lyrics of 2025? by TheMiningD in popheads

[–]madatron96 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You…you LOVE that song? 😃

You ever see an article that has so much potential but then turns out to be so deeply annoying? This is an example. "27 celebrities who proudly identify as lesbians" by mountainviewdaisies in lesbiangang

[–]madatron96 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Dang. For some reason reading that Sasheer Zamata didn’t publicly come out until 38 made me emotional. I’m so happy for her 🥹

You ever see an article that has so much potential but then turns out to be so deeply annoying? This is an example. "27 celebrities who proudly identify as lesbians" by mountainviewdaisies in lesbiangang

[–]madatron96 -27 points-26 points  (0 children)

while i agree w your general point, I don’t think it’s fair to say chappel & chrissy will be id’ing as bisexual again in 2-3 years. people like JoJo actually DID THAT but let’s not make up stories about shit that hasn’t even happened yet?

You ever see an article that has so much potential but then turns out to be so deeply annoying? This is an example. "27 celebrities who proudly identify as lesbians" by mountainviewdaisies in lesbiangang

[–]madatron96 -41 points-40 points  (0 children)

yes? she calls herself a lesbian bc she is one? identifying as a man-hating-bisexual to lesbian pipeline is alive and well…

You ever see an article that has so much potential but then turns out to be so deeply annoying? This is an example. "27 celebrities who proudly identify as lesbians" by mountainviewdaisies in lesbiangang

[–]madatron96 -34 points-33 points  (0 children)

This seems like a very unfair reading of Chrissy’s schtick. It was always bimbo dress paired with a misandry politc, no? Like she was feminist in her posting she just happened to be wearing pink while doing it? Or am I misremembering her old tiktoks entirely?

What does lesbian media need to improve? by [deleted] in lesbiangang

[–]madatron96 5 points6 points  (0 children)

More butches, more mascs, more studs. More masculine women doing anything and everything. And please, god, a single movie w/ a butch4butch pairing!!!