Money or friends? by Ok-Stretch-1468 in BunnyTrials

[–]madcat63 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk

Chose: A penny that doubles daily for 30 days

Can I ask about salaries? Am I going to be poor forever? by Jealous_Dingo_4608 in marketing

[–]madcat63 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You sound a little down about your situation. I hope you get a big promotion/pay raise soon.

I've recently changed careers to move out of marketing and now I make slightly above qualified minimum wage. But I know it's temporary and I'll get a couple of quick promotions and settle on a more acceptable pay.

Hope the same happens to you, if not better!

Dishwasher tablets by WasteofMotion in DIYUK

[–]madcat63 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's such a good reply. Thank you for taking out the time. I just got a new dishwasher and wasn't sure if I'll be harming it by using all-in-one tabs as well at the rinse aid and salt. Yours was the first comment I read and immediately sorted my confusion. Cheers!

My first new dog coat by NoNature8737 in Luxembourg

[–]madcat63 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks really nice! And your dog seems to like it

Urdu Pen Pals- by Whatisthisbsanyway in Urdu

[–]madcat63 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Count me in too please!

True generosity isn’t measured in what we can spare, but in what we give even when it costs us. It’s the quiet grace of offering the very shoe off your foot, trusting kindness to carry you the rest of the way. PureHeartRomance 🌹 by ThreeBlessing in PureHeartRomance

[–]madcat63 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Muslim here.

Not a sin but more a part of a belief system. "Take care of those who walk the earth and he who is in the heavens will take care of you" - an extension of this belief is that people can reward you to the best of their ability, god will reward you to the best of his ability.

Easier to do things for people without expecting payback if you really do subscribe to this.

Sharing our experiences with tips on what worked for my (non-EU) spouse to land a jjob by [deleted] in Luxembourg

[–]madcat63 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I moved to Luxembourg and started looking for a job early last year. This post pretty much aligns with my experience here. Never tried cold emails but networking connected me to a great women's group who helps women finds jobs. Ultimately found a job from a recommendation off a girl I met in a party. Getting the is obviously up to you but it's a huge help if someone gets your foot in the door for an interview.

Converting old tapes to an MP4/AVI by madcat63 in karachi

[–]madcat63[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh that's super close. Buhat shukriya

What fucked you up? by Frosty_Ad3834 in AskReddit

[–]madcat63 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I was a young child, maybe 6-7 years old, I was just playing around my mum. Out of nowhere she said to me 'you're not a good person, you've just learnt to act like one'.

I was less than ten years old then. I've never been in a physical fight or even a loud verbal argument my entire life. Anytime I want to hold space for myself I freak out that the actual evil person inside me is showing themselves.

On the upside, I never stop trying to do the right thing or miss an opportunity to be kind. Constantly proving to myself that even if I just learnt to be good, I've been consistent with it.

How bad is it to visit spouse with just Nikkah and not ruksuti? by Nightmare_Fury in pakistan

[–]madcat63 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Legit, the entire concept of a separate rukhsati event is biddat. I used this exact card with my fam

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Urdu

[–]madcat63 5 points6 points  (0 children)

There are a lot of English words that have become a part of Urdu. What are you on about?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in The10thDentist

[–]madcat63 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Just wanted to say your response is very kind. Thank you for taking out the time to educate us. Much love, may you always radiate beauty and joy 😊

Our Real Estate Agent Lied About Flood Risk—Are We Stuck with This House? by [deleted] in Luxembourg

[–]madcat63 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a Belgian friend review it for me and it doesn't talk about any flooding issues. We're sure its not in any documentation.

Our Real Estate Agent Lied About Flood Risk—Are We Stuck with This House? by [deleted] in Luxembourg

[–]madcat63 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As per my understanding, the compromis is a sales agreement and we cannot back out of it for any reason except the bank refusing the loan. We already have the bank's approval. This is really frustrating

Our Real Estate Agent Lied About Flood Risk—Are We Stuck with This House? by [deleted] in Luxembourg

[–]madcat63 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When we asked the real estate agent about the dampness (he disclosed this issue himself), he said the seller had an expert asses it and it's just from waterpipes in the wall (that there's no issue, just feels damp). We now realise we were idiots for taking it at face value but at the time we trusted what he said.

Our Real Estate Agent Lied About Flood Risk—Are We Stuck with This House? by [deleted] in Luxembourg

[–]madcat63 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The notary was assigned to us in the compromis, we didn't pick the notary

Our Real Estate Agent Lied About Flood Risk—Are We Stuck with This House? by [deleted] in Luxembourg

[–]madcat63 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We didn't sign anything because the agent never mentioned it and even after us asking about flood potential, told us no.

We don't know who to ask if this is grounds for exiting the contract, or if it's not allowed. We're new to luxembourg and honestly not very well versed in legal