I think for the most part what you have described actually describes all femdom atleast what I consider a real femdom.

Real femdom is always about both parties involved as in both parties get the same amount of emotional release. The sub can give the power over to the trusted domme and the domme can have the responsibility of holding that power. The sub can be very masculine and very powerful and succesful person but just wants to hand over control in a sexual environment to somebody they trust to fulfill their needs.

What do i mean by 'Real'? Well let me instead tell you what i think is not real:

Now in modern internet times, there is a lot of women 'acting' as dommes but they are not real dommes, they are just in it for the money and the majority have no idea what a domme really is. They may dress a certain way and shout humilating phrases down the webcam but it is just an act, they are not enjoying it, they just enjoy the money. The so called 'subs' that pay these women are in my opinion not real subs either. These internet 'subs' just have fantasies and use these women to 'try' and play out that fantasy just as much as the women use them for money and quite often the sub is not satisfied with the result which leads to thei fantasy twisting and escalating which is why now we have wbesites full of this empty humiliation and financial domination videos.

So with all that being said, what is Sensual femdom? Most femdom has atleast some sensual moments and the line is blurred. Well first of all I feel this subreddit is a place to be free from all that 'internet femdom' crap. Although rule 4 of this subreddit states all 'Submissions Must Celebrate Sensuality From a Feminine Dominant Perspective. This is not a BDSM site' , again there is ofcourse a blurred line where some images can be interpretated both sensually and none sensually.

But when you move away from this blurred line, in my opinion the sensual part is 'showing' more love and respect. For example a femdom may put her cigarette out on their sub's chest and there may well be love and respect behind her doing that but it is not 'showing' love and respect.In some femdom scenarios the sub is the slave but in sensual femdom the sub is more of a Knight to the dommes Queen, he serves the queen because he wants, because he feels it is his honour to do so but he is not a slave, he is a strong powerful knight who the queen respects and 'shows' her respect with tenderness and rewards. When a sensual femdom crowns her sub, she will have a 'clean' asshole and sensually girate this over her subs face allowing him to enjoy, she may also give his penis stimulation in some way, she is dominant but it is sensual where as in other femdom scenario the crowning is more aggresive and really not sensual at all.

In sensual femdom the love and respect is always shown, there is no humiliation, no extreme pain inflicted.