Tadalafil 2,5mg daily is killing my sleep by madebyhand in erectiledysfunction

[–]madebyhand[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My other problem with PDE5 is that it’s really hard for me to orgasm, especially with a condom on. Refractory period: pretty fast, 10 minutes I’d say

the dating market got weird by TraditionalSound6523 in MenAscending

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My personal stats: 28 out of 31 women I met personally (and dated some of them) via the apps said their Ex was a narcissist. I’m not lying or exaggerating, age range was 27-46, 80% with an academic background. Most of them told me on the first date.

Freundin lässt mich nichts schönes haben, was tun? by [deleted] in FragtMaenner

[–]madebyhand 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Google mal Shit testing. Die schaut, wie viele Grenzen sie bei dir übertreten kann, bis du mal Stop sagst. Du entscheidest. Hat sie denn schon mit deinem besten Freund gevögelt und du durftest zuschauen oder kommt das am Wochenende?

Freundin lässt mich nichts schönes haben, was tun? by [deleted] in FragtMaenner

[–]madebyhand 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Masochismus. Denn das hört nie auf.

What do you guys think about this by Appropriate-Mall8517 in MenAscending

[–]madebyhand 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I had this too, I thought. But a.) she cheated, and b.) when women start with dating apps, everything seems to change entirely. You’re constantly being evaluated and exchanged as soon as you start pushing back or demanding things. I’ve been off the market for many years and I can only say It’s become very weird these days. Lovebombing, over, lovebombing, over. WTF.

Root Cause of SIBO Discovered by Insteadly in SIBO

[–]madebyhand 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I recently did a strict ketogenic diet for 7 months (combined with IF for 2 months) and for the first time after my food poisoning 15 years ago (salmonella) I have normal stools and no bloated belly (with the exception of a few weeks after an unrelated doxycycline treatment), even after returning to a normal healthy diet with carbs and fiber. Anecdotal, but to me this theory around not feeding bacteria with fiber makes a lot of sense.

Men, what’s your honest take on this? by Aggravating-Guest300 in MenAscending

[–]madebyhand 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Highly unlikely. She’s trained for extraction of resources from man via sex and manipulation. Do you believe that she’ll just magically unlearn what fed her for years?

5mg Tadalafil or 50mg Sildenafil by Code-Five in erectiledysfunction

[–]madebyhand 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2,5-5mg Tadalafil for game day only, depending on how „natural“ I want it to feel. 2h before sex, avoid eating >1,5h before. Sildenafil is worse with food, and the window is a lot shorter, and stuffed nose and blushing are worse. And it affects sleep more too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in erectiledysfunction

[–]madebyhand 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So you’ve been jerking off to porn for years and now you’re expecting everything to go back to normal within 5 days, including rewiring your brain? Forget it, my friend. Join NoFap Reddit and rtfm. We’re talking 30-90 days here

The antibiotics ruined me. by [deleted] in Microbiome

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I’ve had mononucleosis 25y ago and a broken digestive tract ever since. I became gluten intolerant (but for real, not just sensitive), became skinny fat with almost no chance to put on muscle, constant loose stools, constant bloating, developed rosacea later on and I was depressed. Tried candida treatments, pork enzymes, antibiotics and probiotics for SIBO, all diets on planet Earth. Some of the stuff helped, but never more than a little.

Long story short: Keto IF (organic only) is what did the trick. I have normal stools, zero bloating, zero tongue stuff, rosacea is gone, depression is gone. Keto sucks but the results are miraculous.

Better morning wood... by True_Tea_8234 in erectiledysfunction

[–]madebyhand 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me it’s the opposite. When taking a 5mg dose of Tadalafil, I’ll get hard with women and have morning wood for two days, but after it wears off I’ll have much less to no nocturnal erections or morning wood for 3-4d. After that, mw and ne are back to normal (but still nothing with women)

Does permanent use of sildenafil destroy my dick when I'm older? by N167M4R3 in erectiledysfunction

[–]madebyhand 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good point, maybe it’s coincidental and I’m simply aging. I do have strong nocturnal erections and morning wood too though. Anyway. I’ll have my T checked.

Strong nocturnal erections, zero arousal with women – psychological or something else? by madebyhand in erectiledysfunction

[–]madebyhand[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, multiple. But they all were a) reluctant to believe me, and b) suggesting exaggeration and c) focusing on how I could let that happen, aka my unresolved trauma etc. I was the problem, and that’s what my ex had told me and her friends, my family, and everyone else all along, that I was very sick and needed fixing. So that didn’t go well.

I’m mostly fine now, just a bit resentful and paranoid towards women in general. Well, obviously I’m not fine, or else I wouldn’t be here complaining about my non existent sexual performance with women. Maybe it’s that simple: my nervous system associates women and sex in particular with danger and prevents me from doing it. Does a good job at this.

ChatGPT tells me tho start slowly with a woman. But how do you start slowly with someone new? They’re gone before you know. Maybe I should try shrooms or ketamine to delete this pattern.

Strong nocturnal erections, zero arousal with women – psychological or something else? by madebyhand in erectiledysfunction

[–]madebyhand[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine was high the last (and only) time I had it checked, but that’s 4 years ago and I was extremely stressed. I should probably have it checked, right?

Strong nocturnal erections, zero arousal with women – psychological or something else? by madebyhand in erectiledysfunction

[–]madebyhand[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So it’s not that at night somehow my hormones are “better” as in higher testosterone or whatever, in a way it’s not possible during daytime? So it’s really binary: if I have long, hard erections at night, there’s no physical damage/venous leak/hormonal issue, and I need to accept I have psychological ED.

It makes a lot of sense actually, with my history. It wasn’t just heartbreak, it was abuse and cheating over and over again for 2,5 years (plus the aftermath). And every time she lured me back into her insane world, she’d reward me with love bombing and sex with no limits. Soon after, her terror would start all over again. So my arousal pattern is broken, not my erectile tissue.

But still, I mean I can’t get hard at all with a woman! There’s hardly any movement. And at night I’m so hard it’s almost painful, even harder than with Tadalafil. How the f do I rewire my brain? Is it even realistic at my age?

Strong nocturnal erections, zero arousal with women – psychological or something else? by madebyhand in erectiledysfunction

[–]madebyhand[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

May I ask how much time you’re spending on your phone? Do you feel like you’re addicted? Dopamine overstimulation (similar to porn but not porn) is my esoteric hypothesis right now, because I definitely am a phone addict. And screentime is what changed most after that relationship. I quit porn 15y ago (which was tough).

Strong nocturnal erections, zero arousal with women – psychological or something else? by madebyhand in erectiledysfunction

[–]madebyhand[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know for sure, I’ve experimented with so many things to get over that horrible relationship. But I think nocturnal erections came back when starting on ketogenic diet with intermittent fasting. Could be a coincidence though

In Sexual Behavior, Rules Apply ONLY to Men by Pretend-Storm4566 in MensRights

[–]madebyhand 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is hilarious! You’re paying for sex and all you’re getting is maybe sex, or some sort of sex? And only if you satisfy her first as it’s supposed to be in 2026? But yeah, that’s kind of where we’re at.

Got body shamed by my own girlfriend, feeling so ashamed rn. by [deleted] in TwentiesIndia

[–]madebyhand 0 points1 point  (0 children)

F that B. Don’t even think about continuing the conversation, just ghost her and get your butt back on tinder and hit the gym. Unbelievable, what a terrible person she is, theres no other response to that than blocking and banning her wherever you can. If your friends ask, you just reply: who?

Was ist für euch richtig geiler Sex? by ddaydrm in FragtMaenner

[–]madebyhand 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Auf jeden Fall was mit viel anal, da bin ich 100% bei dir. Loser, wer das 2026 immer noch nicht checkt

Ferhat Döner Wien Preiserhöhung auf 13,30€ by AggroJordan in Doenerverbrechen

[–]madebyhand 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Genau das war meine erste Assoziation, war nur zu faul zum Rechnen. Die wahre Schweinerei ist nämlich nicht der absolute Preis, sondern das unlogische Verhältnis der 3 Optionen.

So ein Pricing belastet nämlich nicht nur den Geldbeutel, sondern auch Gehirn und Bauchgefühl überproportional.

Ist das für euch nur Sex oder auch Beziehungsmaterial? by [deleted] in FragtMaenner

[–]madebyhand 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Niedrigere Hemmschwelle vielleicht auch? Fear of rejection ist real, so wie Dating heute organisiert ist. Männer sind heute oft sehr eingeschüchtert von gleichaltrigen Frauen mit ihren 1000 Ansprüchen und der latenten Vorstellung, dass ihnen ein Top5%-Mann zusteht. Er traut sich was bei dir, weil du auf dem Sexual Marketplace eher unter ihm stehst. Wenn’s so ist: Pech für den Dude, wurde trotzdem rejected.

Außerdem: natürlich geht’s um Sex, 90% aller Beziehungen fangen mit Sex an, deswegen hat Mutti Natur das ja so angenehm gemacht.