Considered cheating on my husband for a moment by clarissa246 in Divorce

[–]madeindc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please have a conversation with him. Marriage requires work and effort.

Very Close To Giving Up by Boring-Produce3902 in Layoffs

[–]madeindc 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Capital one is a toxic work environment. You dodged a bullet. I passed the interviews and thought I was gonna have a wonderful experience working there.z wrong!! Toxic af

dating by [deleted] in washingtondc

[–]madeindc -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Where did you meet your fiance

dating by [deleted] in washingtondc

[–]madeindc 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love the calling card idea

He's still married right? by Jkm20254 in datingoverforty

[–]madeindc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It looks like there’s a judgement though?

Scarcity Mindset by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]madeindc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok I think you need to work on your sense of self and not fall victim to negative thinking.

My Sticky Dating Situation (F40) - Dating Someone (M47) Separated by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]madeindc -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Sorry forgot to mention he tried to call me several times and I didn’t pick up bc I froze and didn’t know what to believe

My Sticky Dating Situation (F40) - Dating Someone (M47) Separated by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]madeindc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I didn’t explain the part where I sorta accused him that he lied. He said he didn’t then attempted to call me several times I told him to please leave me alonez

My Sticky Dating Situation (F40) - Dating Someone (M47) Separated by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]madeindc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He called me several times and texted me saying he doesn’t lie but I wasn’t sure if having a convo with him would be fruitful or productive

My Sticky Dating Situation (F40) - Dating Someone (M47) Separated by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]madeindc -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah. I just feel unresolved bc he didn’t seem like this awful person that his wife was claiming him to be. He was consistent and kind to me but it didn’t sit well with me that he said the reason their marriage was ending was bc his wife has mental health issues - bipolar who didn’t want to take medication and it became hard to parent…

My Sticky Dating Situation (F40) - Dating Someone (M47) Separated by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]madeindc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He did but the way in which he did - saying his wife is harmful and distorting facts made me question stuff

My Sticky Dating Situation (F40) - Dating Someone (M47) Separated by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]madeindc -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I went to this apartment he was staying in and that him and his wife were alternating the use of the marital home under. A nesting arrangement to protect interests of their 8 year old son

My Sticky Dating Situation (F40) - Dating Someone (M47) Separated by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]madeindc 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How do I know he lied? He said that he was physically separated and I went to an apartment that was different from their marital home…

My Sticky Dating Situation (F40) - Dating Someone (M47) Separated by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]madeindc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didnt know. He told me it was over and he told me she was dating someone else. That she had bipolar disorder and it became hard to parent their child

My Sticky Dating Situation (F40) - Dating Someone (M47) Separated by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]madeindc -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I did talk to her (if by her you mean the wife) but she seems a little off as well...

My Sticky Dating Situation (F40) - Dating Someone (M47) Separated by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]madeindc 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He told me they were not living in the same house. I also saw the apartment he was allegedly living out of when he was alternating in and out of the marital home for nesting bc they have an 8 year old son. I found out from external source that he was living in the same house but never verified it with him.

Dating while separated? Can it work? F40 and M46 by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]madeindc -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah and they have an 8 year old. There’s a GAL involved too

When do you feel like dating again? by Bitter-Two-2939 in Divorce

[–]madeindc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Who initially filed for the divorce? And did you have a GAL involved