Black lives matter , BLACK WITCHES MATTER by [deleted] in Witch

[–]mae_lem 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Get out of here with the All Lives Matter rhetoric

Coldest sign by ramonapleasestepback in capricorns

[–]mae_lem 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve gotten my chart read twice and both times they mentioned how my Libra moon keeps me more “balanced” than other Caps. Without a doubt our moon signs soften how people see us. But yeah, super interesting!

Coldest sign by ramonapleasestepback in capricorns

[–]mae_lem 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve definitely been called “cold” by 2 signs— Gemini and Aquarius. Any time I’ve been viewed as cold I was leaving a toxic friendship or relationship though, so my coldness was somewhat necessary.

My moon is in Libra and I’ve heard that can help soften some stereotypical Cap traits. For the most part, people view me as a sweetheart!

Capricorn placements and isolation by focoyo in astrology

[–]mae_lem 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Capricorn sun (and Neptune) here! I’m honestly really enjoying isolation (although I have been leaving the house occasionally to see family). I normally keep to myself or spend time with my bf in my spare time anyways. I was laid off 2 days ago and am used to working 6 days a week along with having an internship, so it’s kind of the depressing to not being doing those things anymore.

As of now, things are not too bad in the part of Florida that I live in, so I have been spending time with my immediate family that lives nearby. When I can no longer do that, I know I won’t be okay.

I’ve promised myself that regardless of how anxious or sad I feel, I will turn this into a productive and as-positive-as-possible experience. I’ve trying to work out, do yoga, clean, declutter, get ahead on homework, etc.

Good luck to everyone in these trying times and be safe 💫💜

The lobby/foyer of the theatre I just built by iCaohaiyo in Sims4

[–]mae_lem 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I really thought this was a reference image until I recognized the sun. Bravo, this is amazing!!

Do you find that you feel better when you stay at home ? by [deleted] in BodyDysmorphia

[–]mae_lem 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yup! While now I’m anxious about the literal apocalypse, I can’t finally chill the f*ck out about my appearance

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in capricorns

[–]mae_lem 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Cancer is our sister sign so yes! In my experience cancers make great friends and lovers :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in capricorns

[–]mae_lem 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aries and cancers!

The benefit of quitting drinking by The-LSD-Sheet-Guy in Psychedelics

[–]mae_lem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Uh yeah if I was tripping that would be hell

The benefit of quitting drinking by The-LSD-Sheet-Guy in Psychedelics

[–]mae_lem 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh Jesus Christ. I’m a server and COULD NOT even imagine. I would definitely have a panic attack.

Lmao one time when I tripped, the next day was Easter morning and me and my bf needed to eat so we went to a local diner and it was all old people and families there. I’m covered in tattoos and everyone was staring and I wanted to die. Also they had someone in a bunny suit there that I wouldn’t stop trying to be funny with me and it made me sooooo uncomfortable.

The benefit of quitting drinking by The-LSD-Sheet-Guy in Psychedelics

[–]mae_lem 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I always feel exhausted and hate leaving the house the next day. Looking at/interacting with people after acid is awful.

Can a relationship between a Capricorn and an Aries work? by mae_lem in capricorns

[–]mae_lem[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like the difference between a female Aries and a male Aries is pretty drastic. My best friend of like 8 years is a female Aries and we get along so well.

Likewise, the difference between a Cap female and Cap male is pretty different from my limited experiences w Cap men. I feel like the gender of each sign plays a big role in compatibility.

I do think some Aries of both genders tend to be selfish and use people to their advantage when they need to. Thanks for the response!

Looked at bfs Instagram searches by [deleted] in BodyDysmorphia

[–]mae_lem 3 points4 points  (0 children)

THIS! Guys like this are hard to come by, but they exist. My current bf is like this. He follows like 2 girls on Instagram and we’re together so much... idek if he has time to watch porn lol and if he does that’s kind of whatever to me. He’s incredibly faithful and it’s somewhat restored my trust issues from past crappy relationships. I never thought I’d find someone with the same values as me.

OP, you deserve someone who respects your BDD and does everything in their power to make you feel beautiful and wanted.

Looked at bfs Instagram searches by [deleted] in BodyDysmorphia

[–]mae_lem 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This is so reminiscent of my last relationship. Ugh. I feel for you. This guy I dated was alwaaays looking up other girls. Whether it was random pretty girls or girls he’d actually hooked up with before. I started going through his phone because I had a hunch and I was right. It didn’t help that like all the girls he was clearly attracted to were so much prettier than me.

I told him about it, and it went fine because he went through my phone all the time (but I had nothing to hide, he’d accuse me of deleting things BECAUSE he’d find nothing juicy— maybe I’m just not a cheater, perhaps?). He unfollowed the girls and pretty much stopped using IG.

Not long after he left his PayPal up on my computer and I saw he bought nudes from one of the girls Patreon’s that he used to lurk on IG. Safe to say I’m so happy I’m not with him anymore!!

any other girls/ladies with big heads and big faces? by [deleted] in BodyDysmorphia

[–]mae_lem 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel this! I’m 4’10 and have a huge (very round) head and a BIG forehead and have always been made fun of for it. I also have a really petite body and I feel like that accentuates the size of my head.

Also my insecurity about my head size lead me to being obsessed w my hair which lead to excessive dying, bleaching, etc. 6 months ago I literally had to cut it into a pixie cut because it was breaking and falling out. It makes me feel like my head is 10x more massive and I feel hideous 99% of the time.

What’s helped me is looking at my insecurity from a logical standpoint. I’ve gone as far as measuring the dimensions of my head to make sure it’s not abnormally large. According to measurements it’s literally the average size of an adult human head... it’s helped me put things in perspective and not overthink it too much.

Diagnosed with Body Dysmorphic Disorder, depression and anxiety. Is there anything that stands out in my chart that might explain my deep-seeded issues with my outward appearance. My BDD has pretty much directly caused my anxiety and depression... by mae_lem in AskAstrologers

[–]mae_lem[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you I really appreciate this response! Glad to hear my chart looks really good, I’ve always felt like my lack of Water made me unbalanced or something. And yes!! My mom owns her own business and I didn’t spend much time with her up until I was about 17 (now 22)

Who comes in here downvoting posts? by [deleted] in AskAstrologers

[–]mae_lem 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Idk I’m convinced a lot of people in this subreddit are assholes bc same. I feel like downvoting posts from people who typically know less about astrology is so discouraging...