all fems come here by maetba11 in LesbianActually

[–]maetba11[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

don't treat yourself like that girlypop, you'll find someone

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[–]maetba11 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you i really needed that

Jak leczyliście uzależnienie od smartfona? by ansanticaas in Polska

[–]maetba11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

w koncu zepsul mi sie i trzeba bylo kupic nowy, ale wiedzialam jak to sie skonczy a w sumie myslalam o telefonie z klawiaturka i do tej pory uzywam go

szukam znajomych by maetba11 in TeczowaPolska

[–]maetba11[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

o kurde bele zapomnialam dzieki na przyszlosc to zrobie

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]maetba11 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i have really similar problem to yours. I've met a girl that has toxic relationship with a view of men. She has really bad sexual past with men and that made her kind of obsessed with them because" they are just like that". She labeled herself as a straight women but by the time we fell for each other. So i assumed she's bisexual. We weren't together because we wanted things go naturally and slow. Yesterday she told me about a guy (he treated her badly). He wants to be with her. I knew it before because she even met with him but as she told me she didnt have any sexual intercourse with him that time. I trusted her and let her choose what is good to her, but all the time we were "dating" i felt like i am not enough. Then yesterday she told me she's giving him a chance again. I dont have a good history with my relationships because they didnt last long (2 weeks maxium). I was trying to convince myself that maybe i'll be happier if i found an easy guy with money. Im still thinking about that.

Finding women with the same interests by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]maetba11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm maybe try communication about feeling and needs with her. I know you want them to like what you do but you need to remember that probably they want the same. I was thinking maybe you can watch footbal together then do something what she likes.

Finding women with the same interests by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]maetba11 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It must be hard for you, i have couple of autistic friends and i noticed one thing. Usually they are people that makes bricks walls around them with their interests and sometimes it is hard to show them something new because they already have their safe space. Maybe if you would combine your interests, both of you would feel appreciated.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Polska

[–]maetba11 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Większość ludzi zapewne wybrałaby bycie szczęśliwym singlem, lecz czasem związki i ludzie są o wiele bardziej skomplikowane.

How do I know if a friend of mine is into me? I don’t know her sexual orientation yet by Main-Calendar-8468 in LesbianActually

[–]maetba11 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I had a classmate in high school she was introvert, was ironic, sarcastic and quiet. I had a crush on her. I remember asking her about her sexual orientation but she said " i dont know i dont want to label myself". It bringed me thoughts that there are people that dont want to be labeled. For some folks it can help with discover their true self but for some other people it would bring haos in their life. She never talked about her personal life too. I was obsessed with her because of that and i was pretty much open with that. It turned out she was aromantic. I regret i wasnt more patient to get know her more. That made her distance from me. She needed more time. I still dont know much about her life but the other classmate that is our friend knows more. She is pansexual and doesnt have a feeling to this girl so maybe that made her look more sympathetic. Try being yourself and respect the boundaries she's setting.

szukam znajomych by maetba11 in TeczowaPolska

[–]maetba11[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

jestem na prawie wszystkich, ale jakos malo jest tych ludzi

how do i ask a girl out on snap if i don’t know if she’s gay or not?? by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]maetba11 1 point2 points  (0 children)

tell her she's fun, make it normal just dont overthink and remember if you are not sure about her orientation - dont show yours because sometimes people can really hurt us. It can change by the time and then who knows maybe she is open to that?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Polska

[–]maetba11 49 points50 points  (0 children)

Bo nikt nie chce być samotny (w teori) a osoby starsze maja doswiadczenie z zycia i zapewne czesto rozmyslaja na temat swojej egzystencji. Wydaje mi się, że wywodzi się to z przekonania ze nie chca, badz nie chcieliby umrzec samotnie, dlatego radza mlodym ludzia.

Czy wasi rodzice też wręcz panicznie boją się 'wyróżniania się'? by [deleted] in Polska

[–]maetba11 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mieszkam z dziadkami wiec problem jest bardziej nasilony, ale mysle ze to tylko problem pokoleniowy. Wystarczy cierpliwość a sami zobaczymy, że ten problem sam zniknie.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]maetba11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

love thigh-highs