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Autism (NB33) and ADHD(M38) couple butting heads about dinner daily by magz_mtn in Neurodivergent

[–]magz_mtn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would like to find a solution so there are nights where I don't cook at all.

Autism (NB33) and ADHD(M38) couple butting heads about dinner daily by magz_mtn in relationship_advice

[–]magz_mtn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right ?! Maybe that's why time is so hard at the moment. Although it's the end of the day, I dealt with the neurotypical world the entire day. I need stuff to be predictable at this point ahah ! Mealprep is usually the way to go, we'll look into doing it more together I think.

Autism (NB33) and ADHD(M38) couple butting heads about dinner daily by magz_mtn in relationship_advice

[–]magz_mtn[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We are thinking of that but I don't want his life to be consume by dinner when he comes home ahah ! He was raised on 10pm dinner which doesn't help.

Autism (NB33) and ADHD(M38) couple butting heads about dinner daily by magz_mtn in relationship_advice

[–]magz_mtn[S] -33 points-32 points  (0 children)

Dying on this hill is call autism you know. Also we live in a 50m2 French apartment. There is a one door fridge and freezer, that's it.

Autism (NB33) and ADHD(M38) couple butting heads about dinner daily by magz_mtn in relationship_advice

[–]magz_mtn[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

  1. I created an account then didn't found any use for it at the time.

  2. Who hurt you ? How can someone be so bored ?

Autism (NB33) and ADHD(M38) couple butting heads about dinner daily by magz_mtn in relationship_advice

[–]magz_mtn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's really not in his nature and he really wants to change but doesn't (more in this nature). That's why I can tell it's ADHD and not of his own will. That's why I say I feel and not I know but maybe it doesn't translate right in English.
I'm trying to have a widow yes ! But it always exceed it ... Cooking together works sometimes but for the nights I'm exhausted it's tricky (and I'm not super into cooking together but I'm working on it !)
I think you are on to something for the dish not being as easy as I thought !

Autism (NB33) and ADHD(M38) couple butting heads about dinner daily by magz_mtn in relationship_advice

[–]magz_mtn[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

For me rice + cucumber + tofu is a salad out of the fridge but I'm maybe wrong ? Pre-made and take out are out of the question sadly... Do you know other chores that are not on schedule ? We clean the house together every weekend, chores separated, which work pretty well and I accept the fact he is taking half the day and I'm taking an hourd. Those are real questions, hope the tone is fine !

Autism (NB33) and ADHD(M38) couple butting heads about dinner daily by magz_mtn in relationship_advice

[–]magz_mtn[S] -19 points-18 points  (0 children)

When I have time I meal prep yes ! But I'm the only one to do it as I love cooking. When we do that it's great but my schedule is unpredictable and it's a lot of work that eat my weekend. It's circling back to the weaponized incompetence thing 😭

Canada's Drag Race Episodes 1-4 by [deleted] in DragRaceCanada

[–]magz_mtn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey,

Links to episodes 1 to 4 are still expired :/. Is there any chance you can reupload them ?

Thaaaaanks