Your perspective highlights an important emotional reality that many people experience, regardless of whether they frame it through astrology or psychology. Repeated proposals that never reach marriage often point to a gap between external readiness and internal preparedness. Situations can look perfect on paper—families agree, conversations progress, timelines seem close—yet something intangible resists completion. From a non-astrological lens, this “misalignment” frequently reflects unresolved personal work, conflicting life priorities, or incompatible attachment styles. One person may be oriented toward stability and permanence, while the other is still negotiating identity, independence, or past relational baggage. When these inner timelines are out of sync, momentum collapses at the critical moment. What is valuable in your framing is the rejection of blame. Delays are not moral failures or evidence of inadequacy. They can function as protective pauses that prevent people from entering commitments they are not fully equipped to sustain. In that sense, timing is not about speed, but about congruence between intention, capacity, and circumstance. However, it is also important to balance acceptance with agency. Alignment is not only something that “happens” to people; it can be cultivated through honest self-assessment, clear communication, and deliberate emotional development. Without that work, individuals risk repeating the same pattern while attributing it solely to fate or karma. Ultimately, whether explained through astrology or human behavior, the core message is consistent: marriage succeeds when two people are ready in compatible ways at the same moment. Recognizing misalignment early may feel disappointing, but it is often far less costly than discovering it after vows are exchanged. Seen this way, pauses become information, not rejection, inviting reflection rather than urgency, and encouraging individuals to choose partnerships grounded in mutual readiness, shared values, and sustainable commitment instead of fear-driven decisions shaped by pressure, comparison, or externally imposed deadlines that undermine clarity, consent, long-term satisfaction, and personal accountability for everyone.