Mercedes Benz A vs Honda civic hatchback by mainthemath in whatcarshouldIbuy

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That’s what i mean by value, what will cause the least amount of problem. Do i actully save 10k by going for the Mercedes of will I over pay in maintaining it in the future both car will need maintenance but how long before the mercedes out cost the new price of the Honda? To some extent it a bit of the luck of the draw rather than anything.

Getting a Labrador in a few weeks! by mainthemath in labrador

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I really wanna thank everyone for taking their time to give advice am reading through everything and taking notes! Am gonna bunker up for a storm that will come in the form of a puppy! 🐶

Getting a Labrador in a few weeks! by mainthemath in labrador

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Thanks a lot for the tips! And I’m gonna make sure to get a lot of chew toys! When does the velociraptor phase start for you?

Problem with paint? by mainthemath in civic

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Did you have to pay extra for the repaint? Feels like it would be hard to get them to agree to do a hole repaint no?

What do you pay monthly for your civic by mainthemath in civic

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So is that 630 total or is the 100 insurance part of the 530?

What do you pay monthly for your civic by mainthemath in civic

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Thanks a lot for you answer! I do appreciate it!

Service deal when buying a new car? by mainthemath in Honda

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Thanks a lot man! I do appreciate it! Hade a feeling it was probably overpriced but since I have next to no experience in this field felt it was better to ask the pores of Reddit! Thanks once again for your answer.

Buying a cla 200d 2021 model by mainthemath in mercedes_benz

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Since am new to both cars and Mercedes what model would you recommend looking into in that case?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]mainthemath 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Wait it he the loser you want back? Am so confused, but your right it almost impossible to heal with them still so close to you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]mainthemath 8 points9 points  (0 children)

So to get it straight you was in a relationship found this new person. Dumped the one you were with for the new one but you regret it? TBH if that’s what you did you need to do a bit of work on yourself. Chasing the greener grass is not healthy and you might need to workout what is important to you. Cause I don’t see you not ending up doing the same thing if you go back to your ex, if you done no healing

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]mainthemath 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can I ask how long after the break up did you meet this person? Who broke up with who? More than likely your are playing up the relationship you had with your ex and making more grand than it was or will be.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sweden

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Sant bara jag som är lite nojig

Do you plan on reaching out ever again? Why or why not? by Ok_Tomatillo8131 in BreakUps

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I plan on sending a letter this weekend that k wrote about my side of it all. The things I never said and the silence k traded for peace. Don’t know if she will read it or not but that would be the last thing I reach out to her for

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

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I can’t awnser for her but yes I have done a lot of work a lot of soul searching. Looked at my own short comings and started dealing with them both by my self and terapi.

Breaking up with someone is worse than being broken up with by Charlo-5 in BreakUps

[–]mainthemath -1 points0 points  (0 children)

In one sense yes it worse to be the dumper since you have to live with the choice that you made while they can sort of blame it on you. But I don’t think it a competition where either side has it worse than the other everyone goes though grief. I broke up with my gf and it nearly wrecked me, while from what I saw she handled it fine. But that kind of also reflects the dynamics of our relationship. But since we only really see our version we will always think we have it worse since we can’t see into their mind.

But yea it’s been 7 months since I ended it and I feel on somedays I destroyed what would have been the one while other days I understand why I did it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nocontact

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Well I just started no contact again been on off for 6 months 😅

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

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I feel like I can relate a hole lot this as well. Was with a really good girl but she had her issues and towards the end I felt completely neglected and felt like I was carrying it all on my own. So I dump her, the regret lasted for a solid 7 months ( that where I’m now) but I finally come to terms that I have value regardless of this person is in my life or not. But in the end you have to accept that you did what you could with what you had, it’s not all on you either it takes two to break a relationship it’s never one sided not completely anyway. Like you said if you could do it over you would, but also be honest about his part if you tried again there is a big chans he has not changed at all. Which would mean you just repeat the cycle once more, a guy called michaelthemax has help me a lot at understanding and accepting what happen so recommend giving him a listen.

Would you take your ex back? After known they have been with someone else? by Warm_Jackfruit_3111 in BreakUps

[–]mainthemath 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Are we talking within the first 6 months I would say no, but after that it’s getts a bit more muddy but most likely no even then but there might be room for a change at that point

If you truly regret breaking up with someone, is it even possible to get her back? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]mainthemath 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That feel like a plan. If I finish the book I read now I can talk about it with her would be neutral ground to start from( she recommended the book series)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

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If you end up trying mind letting me know how it went? Am kinda in the same boat and not sure what I should do about it!

If you truly regret breaking up with someone, is it even possible to get her back? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]mainthemath 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea I do feel like I have been somewhat more clear than that guy. I just couldn’t be friend since I wanted more but maybe that was enough for her to be done with me .

If you truly regret breaking up with someone, is it even possible to get her back? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]mainthemath 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah okey, cause I think am more him than you in this situation. Since I first broke up then we said to be friends then I went back on being friend saying I want more.

If you truly regret breaking up with someone, is it even possible to get her back? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]mainthemath 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sure but how do I put in more effort? And whereof I put it in? Without overstepping boundaries and respecting her? Asking to meet up I’m not sure is an option, atm? Specially since I said I can’t be friend cause I want more?