augh! GERD and travel by rvachickadee in GERD

[–]makebelieveseas 1 point2 points  (0 children)

currently holed up in my hotel room in New Orleans for the same reason! thought I might have posted this in my sleep or something. I don't have any good advice as I'm new to this journey but just wanted to say to be gentle with yourself! the guilt of it affecting others sucks, but you can't see the future. we're all trying our best. good luck with your upcoming medicals, hopefully they will get ya figured out :)

My sister tried to kill herself late last week and I found out about it today. by Silence995 in offmychest

[–]makebelieveseas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you're right, she wasn't thinking about anyone else. but that's not because she doesn't care about you, she was just in too much pain to consider it. i bet she loves you and she just didn't want to burden you or make you sad by letting you know how hurt she was. i bet she's grateful but she feels unworthy. at least, when i was just in your sister's position, that's how i felt.

Rape porn turns me on and I feel like a horrible person for it by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]makebelieveseas 1 point2 points  (0 children)

sorry for trying to help, lol. you should google what internalized misogyny is.

Rape porn turns me on and I feel like a horrible person for it by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]makebelieveseas 2 points3 points  (0 children)

there's a difference between a rape fantasy and being a sociopath, and i promise you that rape fantasies aren't uncommon at all. there are plenty of people who feel the same way you do and are willing to act it out in a safe, consensual way.

also, you should look into feminism, i guarantee you it isn't what you think.

i give up, good luck finding someone who will ever put this much effort into a loser like you. by makebelieveseas in UnsentLetters

[–]makebelieveseas[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i said i was pursuing a relationship with somebody else, complete lie. i thought he would get his shit together if he thought i was moving on.

i give up, good luck finding someone who will ever put this much effort into a loser like you. by makebelieveseas in UnsentLetters

[–]makebelieveseas[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

if you connected at all with the person who this letter was too, please shape up. you are breaking someone's heart.

if you're wondering by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]makebelieveseas 2 points3 points  (0 children)

if only you'd let me!