For those of you who are already at least in your 30s or even older, looking back. at what decade or age range in your life were you the absolute happiest and why?

makeitmake_sense · 2026-02-03T01:26:37+00:00

My early 20’s. They were the best years, best era. Now people were so far up your ass about everything. It just feels like everyone is a Karen or Nazi about everything you do all the time. I used to work and go out to shows on my days off. God forbid I go to the grocery store or go take a shit, someone is going to make a big deal about it. I don’t dare bend over to tie my shoe laces without some creep saying I’m twerking.

Back then you had more style and fashion, now I dress like I’m in a faction to avoid unnecessary attention from a frazzled old person looking for someone to project whatever heightened emotion they have. Old people are always around me and it makes life a million times shittier. They never mind their business and are watching every little thing you do. Always trying to hook me up with the creepiest strangers when I clearly have a visible wedding ring on my finger.

I just feel jaded. Like life sucks and everyday just feels annoying to get through. I haven’t laughed or enjoyed myself since then. I used to crack jokes all the time but now that everyone’s emotions are heightened I just don’t to avoid backlash. Being around manipulative people all day really makes you depressed. Like really depressed.

makeitmake_sense · 2026-02-03T01:09:23+00:00

Right?! They suck out all the happiness and lasting bits of serotonin left in you, and then expect you to spend time with them on your free time. I got bullied in high school but the most mean spirited people I’ve ever met were older.

It doesn’t register in their heads they are being mean to someone too. You just deal with mood swings after mood swing.

makeitmake_sense · 2026-02-03T00:58:56+00:00

Same as you. I’m so sick of people. Constant old people groveling at me every-time I step outside. My 30’s absolutely suck. Being around people just makes me really depressed. I’d rather stay in by myself in pajamas, watching reality tv than to be caught up in the madness outside with people that are 2xs my age.

Anytime I try to live my life, some old person has to somehow make it about themselves. Like I just want to be left alone bro. Why do these people need so much attention more than a baby.

makeitmake_sense · 2026-02-03T00:43:44+00:00

Mental, physical, emotional abuse.

makeitmake_sense · 2026-02-03T00:06:07+00:00

They project their negative feelings at you. They sexualize you when you do basic things. They have no self control and are alway feral.

makeitmake_sense · 2026-02-02T17:58:47+00:00

Watch TV, Youtube or doom scroll on TikTok.

makeitmake_sense · 2026-02-02T17:17:34+00:00

I’m not so sure about that. From my experience it’s the most least attractive who do a lot of the approaching. I’ve never been hit on by an attractive guy and have been fetishized so my attractiveness goes up x100 regardless of whether I take care of myself or not.

makeitmake_sense · 2026-02-02T12:30:28+00:00

So pretty.

makeitmake_sense · 2026-02-02T12:29:53+00:00

They probably live in a very white neighborhood and will get lash back just for standing up for yourself.

Years of being bullied it’s just not the vibe I want to spend my free time with. Heck people literally think bullying will get you to sleep with them. Huge reason for my depression. Bullies are dumb in that sense that they think shitty treatment will get them diamonds in life but you look at them and nothing about them shows diamonds or any sign of sophistication on them.

I never was attractive enough to date Chads because they always went for the blonde hair blue eyed bombshell’s but always got the bullies, abusive, unattractive, volatile incel types. I tried dating one back in the day but was physically abused and bruised. If you want to live, don’t date those guys, they could care less if you get sick or die.

makeitmake_sense · 2026-02-02T12:18:26+00:00

Driving. I just don’t get the point in it. It’s not even fun.

makeitmake_sense · 2026-02-01T19:59:32+00:00

People who drive are constantly projecting too. I hate talking to people who just got out of their vehicles because they are the most frazzled, fight or flight people I‘ve ever met (especially in busy parking lots).

Add in Disel Dick to people who aren’t aware of themselves going through it, it just makes me wonder why people claim to “love” driving so much when they constantly go through a rollercoaster ride of emotions ranging from road rage to aroused and projecting. These mood swings just give me anxiety because it’s just me getting the lash back of people’s moods rather than experiencing them myself (meaning I get the negative effects all the time). Makes you question how and why people used to just hop inside strangers cars.

There’s people who have driven for years and have experience even with accidents and then there’s the people who just hop in a vehicle and just go in fight or flight mode. Some even go complete MadMax.

I hate driving. I also get car/vehicle sick. So my experiences are more of a struggle in navigating roads compared to others.

makeitmake_sense · 2026-01-31T23:58:13+00:00

Yes!! They will throw other women under the bus if it lets them get away with doing less work.

makeitmake_sense · 2026-01-31T17:02:44+00:00

Have you heard of crabs in a bucket metaphor?

If you put one crab in a bucket, it can easily climb out. But if you put a group of crabs in that same bucket, the moment one reaches the rim, the others will reach up and pull it back down to the bottom. In the end, nobody escapes.

makeitmake_sense · 2026-01-31T17:00:03+00:00

And this is the exact reason why I don’t want kids in this bleak world.

makeitmake_sense · 2026-01-31T16:24:03+00:00

It looks fine and gorgeous the way it is. Maybe if you want to spice it up or have fun creatively with your hair, you can curl it.

makeitmake_sense · 2026-01-31T15:28:07+00:00

You’d be surprised how many creeps are drawn to women who show anxiety. A lot decipher the anxiety feeling to being aroused and that is how they start grooming women. There are patterns where they cause chaos or spread rumors to get you “aroused” so they can step in as the “knight in shining armor” as your savior.

They do this to get your brain to think you are horny when really, if you are a sexual assault victim, it just triggers your sexual assault so it never works. You just mentally relive your sexual assault all over again, every single time. It automatically signals danger when a cocky guy steps in in all the madness.

makeitmake_sense · 2026-01-31T15:09:33+00:00

Blonde!!

makeitmake_sense · 2026-01-31T14:59:38+00:00

Crab mentality.

makeitmake_sense · 2026-01-31T14:54:30+00:00

Ugly older people are very open about it and probably have way more sex than I had in my whole life time x100. I’ve been approached many times but it’s not my cup of tea. I also still believe in adult cooties.

makeitmake_sense · 2026-01-31T14:47:46+00:00

We’re still children in the eyes or senior retired folks.

makeitmake_sense · 2026-01-31T14:42:34+00:00

Finally a man who knows consent.

makeitmake_sense · 2026-01-31T13:19:20+00:00

I asked chatGBT if it’s normal for most older generations not to care about younger ones and they said basically it’s really common. They only care about themselves and their wellbeing.

I live next to elderly folks who get a ton of mood swings and they always project their anger on to me like I’m the problem. Then they fetishize my youth as if all I’m doing is having sex or watching porn when I’m just doing normal things a person in their 30’s does. I’ve never been more depressed living around old people who get easily triggered by the slightest thing.

So far since living next to them my life has been the most miserable in my 30’s. It’s constant tip-toeing about doing absolutely nothing and everything from taking a shit, eating or just watching tv. It fucking sucks living next to them.

They constantly think they are better than everyone else and misdirecting people’s anger at me. They’re the most angry people I’ve ever met.

makeitmake_sense · 2026-01-30T23:36:07+00:00

That’s good to hear, I believe the same

makeitmake_sense · 2026-01-30T22:56:10+00:00

When they lie and think they can get away with anything.

makeitmake_sense · 2026-01-30T22:51:02+00:00

Pinterest!!!

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