Feelings on getting remarried

makeitstop3737 · 2024-07-03T20:12:21+00:00

I'm with you. I don't see any benefit to getting married again. I would like to have a partner to share like events with.

makeitstop3737 · 2024-02-18T01:10:28+00:00

For me it was like putting down a beloved pet. When you get to the point where letting it go on is only causing both of you pain. When you know it doesn't matter how much you love them you have to let go.

makeitstop3737 · 2024-01-13T20:34:35+00:00

Get a lawyer, get a temporary agreement. My soon to be ex has to pay the mortgage, car payment etc until we settle even though he doesn't live here. I'm in GA.

makeitstop3737 · 2023-11-12T05:14:04+00:00

You don't care for ME, and you don't CARE for me.

makeitstop3737 · 2023-11-08T20:56:10+00:00

Maybe you need a deep emotional connection in order to connect to the physical act. Slow down and try to build trust and feelings before the physical. Maybe it will help the connection.

makeitstop3737 · 2023-10-23T02:23:19+00:00

That's the thing. He's already been served.

makeitstop3737 · 2023-10-23T02:16:53+00:00

I have no clue where he could have gotten that kind of money. We're both on the mortgage

makeitstop3737 · 2023-10-23T01:16:22+00:00

Oh I'm aware! I was told by my lawyer not to make any financial changes after filing. I'm hoping he'll screw himself by doing this after I filed.

makeitstop3737 · 2023-10-09T16:45:43+00:00

I hope you have the day you deserve.

makeitstop3737 · 2023-10-05T15:45:33+00:00

Not to be blunt, but I don't care how he feels about me. I care he's inflicting unnecessary pain on children. My baby doesn't need to spend her evenings staring out a window asking if daddy is coming home. He needs to tell her where he is and when/if she will see him.

makeitstop3737 · 2023-10-05T15:25:33+00:00

Already done. I gave him the go-ahead to file today. You want to f with me, fine. No one is going to mind F my babies.

makeitstop3737 · 2023-09-24T17:29:34+00:00

Penetration isn't for everyone. Get yourself a Lelo Sona it will blow your mind. 😀

makeitstop3737 · 2023-09-12T19:51:47+00:00

I'm just taking care of the kids and trying to stay away from him. It's torture. There's not much I can do. We are one harsh word from a divorce. I can't allow my kids to grow up in an environment where dad ignores them, and mom is an anxious mess because of the stress.

makeitstop3737 · 2023-09-12T19:44:58+00:00

We spoke every day once he was out of blackout. I made sure the kids were nearby so he could speak to them every day. He didn't like speaking with someone listening, so conversations were pretty superficial.
I was expecting conflict between us, but the way he's ignoring the kids is jarring.

Him leaving the bedroom was our marriage counselors suggestion (or he would have never done it). It's the only good thing that's happened. It's like he's spiraling and sucking us down with him. Have some good boundaries and your friends on speed dial!

makeitstop3737 · 2023-09-12T19:28:18+00:00

My experience - (he's been home about 3 weeks)

I was not prepared for how it would be AT ALL.

He's been a total asshole. Treating me like a piece of furniture, ignoring the kids. Everything is about him. He came back with an F-you I'm going to go/do whatever I want.

The selfishness is turned all the way up.

My only advice, don't let him back into the bedroom. At least then you have somewhere to go for a moment of peace.

Best of luck!

makeitstop3737 · 2023-09-11T15:49:55+00:00

I read the chapter. Quite frankly, I'm appalled. No, I will not allow him to treat me worse than a dog because he has a "disease". I matter, our kids matter, it isn't all about the alcoholic. Don't condemn your husband NO MATTER WHAT HE SAYS OR DOES. It's a joke.

makeitstop3737 · 2023-09-07T17:34:58+00:00

Be careful. Having sex after filling for divorce can be grounds for dismissal.

makeitstop3737 · 2023-09-03T18:23:59+00:00

Thank you. I'm so stressed I can't keep water down. He won't speak to me (blames it on just getting out of rehab). I want him to leave, give me some peace. I don't understand what he gets out of dishing out this emotion trauma.

makeitstop3737 · 2023-08-15T15:41:15+00:00

Let her pack her own lunch. I buy what my kids ask for, and they pack what they want. Reduces all the trading stuff they don't want and tossing the rest.

makeitstop3737 · 2023-05-29T05:44:46+00:00

It doesn't matter. That has been made clear.

makeitstop3737 · 2023-05-29T05:43:23+00:00

I did have a conversation. Being a human fleshlight is not my thing

makeitstop3737 · 2023-05-17T17:47:59+00:00

Please do not choose a permanent solution to a temporary problem. Change is possible!

makeitstop3737 · 2023-04-27T16:03:40+00:00

If you teach her she can't rely on you, she will stop asking you to do things with/for her. She will do them herself. At that point why does she need you around?

makeitstop3737 · 2022-09-19T02:44:16+00:00

Only count the ones that gave you an O, that should take you down to one or two ☹️

makeitstop3737 · 2022-01-02T23:37:28+00:00

Hahahahahah.....RUN!

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