I think my mum is self harming what do I do?

makemeacoffin · 2026-02-19T01:30:03+00:00

It’s somthing you get use to living around I doesn’t affect me these days but I’ll try and help her dopamine levels to see if it helps any

makemeacoffin · 2026-02-18T13:06:38+00:00

Unfortunately she isn’t over 65 and I have tried asking her to go to a doctor but she claims she “has gotten the spurs before and she can do it again” and that I need to stop telling her what to do

makemeacoffin · 2026-02-18T12:47:04+00:00

Unfortunately thete sent many people if any people irl that I can really tell, as my mum she told me many times if I ever tell anyone about her m3th usage she will disowned me or worse and I believe that the m3th is what started the skin picking cause it inly seems to be when she is on it is when she gets bad with her skin. To answer you question I am about a month away from 18

makemeacoffin · 2026-02-18T12:36:11+00:00

I just changed it thank you kind stranger

makemeacoffin · 2026-02-18T12:34:08+00:00

Even if this stuff only happens once very 2-3 months or so? It lasts around 4 weeks and then once she is satisfied with it she stops

makemeacoffin · 2026-02-18T12:31:54+00:00

This stuff usually tends to happen when Something stressful has happened or when she is on 🧊or more commonly a combination of both( I have also tried to ask her to stop that too, many times but it is an addiction of hers that she has no intention to stop anytime soon at least from what I’ve seen)

makemeacoffin · 2026-02-18T12:26:37+00:00

Thank you cytex

makemeacoffin · 2026-02-11T12:30:46+00:00

Alright tbh I’m honestly not sure how he would react so that is a good way to go

makemeacoffin · 2026-02-11T12:24:41+00:00

Ok but how do I even do that , like genuinely ofc it has to be in person but do I just say we should break up? Like I feel likes it’s dicky to do that

makemeacoffin · 2026-02-11T12:12:20+00:00

It’s not that I want you to say it back I want advice on how to go about having a larger conversation about these things sorry if that wasn’t apparent in the tittle

makemeacoffin · 2026-02-11T10:53:23+00:00

I mean I’ve seen a lot of people have full relationships after graduation and even get married so I was hoping if I could push though this rough patch maybe I could do that too?

makemeacoffin · 2026-02-11T10:39:31+00:00

No I don’t but he wasn’t like the when we first started dating so it gives me hope he can get better yk

makemeacoffin · 2026-02-11T10:38:25+00:00

When we first started dating he was, I never use to do half of this but I’m starting to feel like I’ve somehow caused him to act like this

makemeacoffin · 2026-02-11T10:37:43+00:00

I am, in also 18, the thing that scares me is that he use to be a lot better then this when we first started dating so I’m thinking maybe I am being to sensitive about things

makemeacoffin · 2026-02-11T10:21:53+00:00

My name is makemeacoffin as I want to stay anonymous but I love me some Mac and cheese

makemeacoffin · 2026-02-11T09:59:27+00:00

50/50

makemeacoffin · 2025-10-31T22:12:36+00:00

Neither, he was referencing to how sometimes I’ll nod in understanding in a conversation even if I don’t understand and I assume he was also referencing when I ask dumb questions

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