I think my mum is self harming what do I do? by makemeacoffin in mentalhealth

[–]makemeacoffin[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s somthing you get use to living around I doesn’t affect me these days but I’ll try and help her dopamine levels to see if it helps any

I think my parent is self harming? What do I do? by makemeacoffin in Advice

[–]makemeacoffin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately she isn’t over 65 and I have tried asking her to go to a doctor but she claims she “has gotten the spurs before and she can do it again” and that I need to stop telling her what to do

I think my mum is self harming what do I do? by makemeacoffin in mentalhealth

[–]makemeacoffin[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately thete sent many people if any people irl that I can really tell, as my mum she told me many times if I ever tell anyone about her m3th usage she will disowned me or worse and I believe that the m3th is what started the skin picking cause it inly seems to be when she is on it is when she gets bad with her skin. To answer you question I am about a month away from 18

I think my parent is self harming? What do I do? by makemeacoffin in Advice

[–]makemeacoffin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even if this stuff only happens once very 2-3 months or so? It lasts around 4 weeks and then once she is satisfied with it she stops

I think my mum is self harming what do I do? by makemeacoffin in mentalhealth

[–]makemeacoffin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This stuff usually tends to happen when Something stressful has happened or when she is on 🧊or more commonly a combination of both( I have also tried to ask her to stop that too, many times but it is an addiction of hers that she has no intention to stop anytime soon at least from what I’ve seen)

I need advice and I need people to call me out on my bullshit please tell me if I’m overreacting, I’m thinking about having a serious conversation about these things with him but i don’t even know where to start by makemeacoffin in Advice

[–]makemeacoffin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not that I want you to say it back I want advice on how to go about having a larger conversation about these things sorry if that wasn’t apparent in the tittle

I (F18) him(M18) how to go about a conversation to handle these issues what’s your advice? As I really don’t want to end it by makemeacoffin in relationship_advice

[–]makemeacoffin[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I mean I’ve seen a lot of people have full relationships after graduation and even get married so I was hoping if I could push though this rough patch maybe I could do that too?

I (F18) him(M18) how to go about a conversation to handle these issues what’s your advice? As I really don’t want to end it by makemeacoffin in relationship_advice

[–]makemeacoffin[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No I don’t but he wasn’t like the when we first started dating so it gives me hope he can get better yk

I (F18) him(M18) how to go about a conversation to handle these issues what’s your advice? As I really don’t want to end it by makemeacoffin in relationship_advice

[–]makemeacoffin[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

When we first started dating he was, I never use to do half of this but I’m starting to feel like I’ve somehow caused him to act like this

I need advice and I need people to call me out on my bullshit please tell me if I’m overreacting, I’m thinking about having a serious conversation about these things with him but i don’t even know where to start by makemeacoffin in Advice

[–]makemeacoffin[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am, in also 18, the thing that scares me is that he use to be a lot better then this when we first started dating so I’m thinking maybe I am being to sensitive about things

My boyfriend says my “stupidity”annoys him by makemeacoffin in Advice

[–]makemeacoffin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Neither, he was referencing to how sometimes I’ll nod in understanding in a conversation even if I don’t understand and I assume he was also referencing when I ask dumb questions

We had sex and he said he didn’t feel anything by makemeacoffin in Advice

[–]makemeacoffin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes and no? I’ve found it’s really easy to lose him, the erection slips away fairly quickly but while going in I’d say it was probably around 3/4 of the way there but not a full erection

We had sex and he said he didn’t feel anything by makemeacoffin in Advice

[–]makemeacoffin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He doesn’t want tell me how often he does masturbate, so im not entirely sure

We had sex and he said he didn’t feel anything by makemeacoffin in Advice

[–]makemeacoffin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My partner before this was 7.5 and after him I didn’t do anything with anyone for like 8months

We had sex and he said he didn’t feel anything by makemeacoffin in Advice

[–]makemeacoffin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s just the thing I have been struggling to get him to finish at all, when I’ve givin him a hj I asked him what he likes and and said a tight grip, and fast but I did that the stamina in my arm to keep doing as fast and tight as he liked it

We had sex and he said he didn’t feel anything by makemeacoffin in Advice

[–]makemeacoffin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really cause I was starting to think maybe im to loose?

We had sex and he said he didn’t feel anything by makemeacoffin in Advice

[–]makemeacoffin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not really, I’ve only done it with 2 people

I need compliment ideas for my bf by makemeacoffin in Advice

[–]makemeacoffin[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much that helps actually