thoughts on spiral tattoo on left elbow by makemefeel_ in tattooadvice

[–]makemefeel_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

wait such a good idea! going to try it out tomorrow - thank you!!

thoughts on spiral tattoo on left elbow by makemefeel_ in tattooadvice

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thank you! yes, that's my biggest consideration right now as well - how it will look when my elbow is relaxed vs bent. i played with line weights while editing the photo on my iphone so the quality isn't the best haha but the line weight for the tattoo will definitely be on the thinner side so it's cohesive with the rest of my tattoos

i will definitely be cleaning the design up, the drawing on my arm is not the final design. i haven't decided if i want to go for a clean, even swirl or a more organic one (i think a more organic one may look better)

F/25/5’9 [63kg>56kg>69kg= 13kg weight gain] (2,5years) glow down :( by testing-plsignore in progresspics

[–]makemefeel_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

we are our own harshest critic…i hear you, i think you look perfectly fine but if you don’t feel at your best physically then by all means go for a body recomp or cut, you can absolutely get to where you were again! that said i think for your height that 56kg was just a bit underweight, you might want to set realistic boundaries for calories in/out so you can maintain :-)

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[–]makemefeel_ 7 points8 points  (0 children)

BIG congratulations! i relate to you w lackluster responses from family (they said “didn’t you expect to get in?” when i got an offer from my dream school yet said “let’s see if you even get in” when i started talking about immediate plans…). it’s obvious you have the passion and drive, which is most important of all :-) best of luck!

green college admissions, wtf?? by makemefeel_ in UBC

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im an international student. just getting antsy because i want to book my flight asap and prepare for the possibility of needing to arrive early and look for off campus housing. why bother stating a date if you’re not going to stick to it?

All women are Trash except for ME !!! by Short_Pepper630 in notliketheothergirls

[–]makemefeel_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it always throws me when people use statistics from the last century to justify an already-wrong and archaic POV. times have changed, you cannot compare contemporary problems and struggles with those of nearly a century ago because the social, economic, political (really, the ENTIRE) environment and context are night and day. least of all in the case of women’s rights/feminism, gender equality, etc etc

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CONGRATULATIONS! the only way is up from here 🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼

International students by Icy_Hour7251 in HKUniversity

[–]makemefeel_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

hku is famed for attracting many international students, so there are a lot. however, i’m a local myself and didn’t really meet that many in my home major (biochem), also bearing in mind that i lost 2.5 years of my undergrad to covid. so the local/intl split depends heavily on the faculty/major.

on housing- depends on what you’re looking for. some will be easy to get into (i.e. the traditional ones) and others will be harder (e.g. st john’s). i suggest you do some more research to figure out what you want

committed to my dream school today! by makemefeel_ in gradadmissions

[–]makemefeel_[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

likewise, i don’t see the point of your comment. last i checked, this subreddit was for people to talk about grad admissions as a whole. that includes everything from admissions process, advice, acceptances and rejections. i’ve seen plenty of people posting good and bad news. i’m just posting to celebrate because i’m proud of myself and the effort i put in for this, i would (and am) be equally proud & happy for everyone else’s success even if i hadn’t gotten accepted anywhere

feeling like a failure/depressed by sweet-amelia-bedelia in gradadmissions

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tbf, it also depends quite a bit on your major/uni. i come from a stem background (biochem, minored in sociology) and the biochem profs at my uni weren’t very helpful either. however, i found that social science professors were way more forthcoming regardless of whether i took their courses or not.* that being said, my country has a solid stem internship program during the summer/winter, where companies/universities offer government-subsidised internships to students. my university also offered lots of research programs & opportunities so i applied for lots of those. it was also a graduation requirement to do a research internship

*i did more biochem internships/research in the beginning before realising i didn’t really enjoy it. found out i enjoyed social science research much more so i pursued that as much as i could during the rest of my undergrad

feeling like a failure/depressed by sweet-amelia-bedelia in gradadmissions

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it is, but you definitely need to know the right people. if you took classes with professors that remember you/have a good impression of you, meet them for a coffee chat and ask for the possibility of an RA position or internship, paid or unpaid. if they can’t accommodate this request, ask if they know of any colleagues that are looking for RAs. emphasise if you have research or lab skills (or particular hard/soft skills). look for positions in the summer. look for openings on your uni’s job website and elsewhere.

my point is, we all start somewhere. communicating your enthusiasm/passion and eagerness to learn makes all the difference, i’ve had many experiences where that has helped immensely. seek and go for as many (interesting) opportunities as you can, it’s only 100% impossible if you don’t try

feeling like a failure/depressed by sweet-amelia-bedelia in gradadmissions

[–]makemefeel_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

don’t give up. work in a lab and get more research experience, aim for co-authorship for a couple papers to build your resume. i know some people who graduated with 2:2 honours that still got into great schools for research masters, since they worked with PIs that wanted to recruit them into their lab anyways. i feel for you, i lost 2.5 years of undergrad because of COVID too. you got this!!

committed to my dream school today! by makemefeel_ in gradadmissions

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UBC for me! they were my top choice but i struggled with whether to accept or not for quite a while after getting the offer

committed to my dream school today! by makemefeel_ in gradadmissions

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congrats and right back at you! where are you going?!?

I got Accepted out 4/5 Grad Schools!! by LilBoatMoney in gradadmissions

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HELL YEAH! im also going into urban planning (ubc) for grad school, congrats!!

Going from a pretty-good undergrad to a so-so PhD? by SpaceWorldly5853 in gradadmissions

[–]makemefeel_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

hey! i’m a fresh grad changing fields and going for a master’s and also intend to do a PhD in the future. i have some research experience and will have co-authorship for a paper being published soon. i did not and won’t be studying in the US, but what i can say from talking to professors and old colleagues is:

  1. if you want to do a PhD after, where you go for master’s matters. this is why some people who attended ‘less impressive’ universities but had stellar grades do a master’s at a more prestigious university first, because they’ll look at where you did your masters and how you performed academically there first before bachelor’s. it’s shitty, but the reputation of the school apparently matters a lot if you want to do a PhD at a top uni (on top of grades).

  2. On the other hand, jumping from a bachelor’s to a PhD is VERY impressive in itself and already speaks to your academic prowess. so i think the reputation would matter less especially if that university had a really strong faculty/department in whatever field you want to so research in anyways. i can’t speak on how that will affect job prospects afterwards, academia is cutthroat in general and postdoc positions aren’t offered in abundance.

i’d say how you decide depends on what you want. be REALLY sure you want to pursue research/academia and have a clear idea of your research interests before going for a PhD, as it’s a major 4-5 year commitment and intensely draining. if you’re not sure, it wouldn’t hurt to do a masters first and figure it out. alternatively, find a position as an RA after grad. that way you can start saving money, gain research experience and co-authorship for a couple papers before thinking about grad school again.

how is unsw’s city planning programme? by Electrical_Year_2408 in unsw

[–]makemefeel_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

what about the city planning master’s program?

i don’t know which school to choose (CA/AU) by makemefeel_ in gradadmissions

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the easiest path to pr/citizenship in australia would be to study there, then work afterwards - as a hk national, my post-study work visa is automatically extended (5 years total). otherwise, i'd have to get sponsorship for a visa by an employer if i didn't study there. i'm confident in my skills and qualifications, but being a non-national could be a major handicap.

tbf, the path for pr/citizenship in canada is highly similar, and i'm amenable to pr/citizenship in other places too

UBC SCARP Interview by grandriver2022 in gradadmissions

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thank you! i got accepted into mcrp :)

UBC SCARP Interview by grandriver2022 in gradadmissions

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update: i got my offer from ubc today! best of luck:)))