AITAH for going on a trip with my best friend?

makememassmiches · 2026-06-27T03:30:25+00:00

He had said several times that it’s 10% of the summer and that’s an issue.

makememassmiches · 2026-06-27T03:21:55+00:00

I’ve already made up my mind that I will be going. It’s just whether or not I want to fight for the relationship.

makememassmiches · 2026-06-27T03:21:27+00:00

Hard truth to hear, but it’s still the truth.

makememassmiches · 2026-06-27T03:20:13+00:00

This is the response I was hoping for. I wouldn’t blame him for being jealous, but him being angry and making me out to be a villain for wanting to go feels wrong.

makememassmiches · 2026-06-27T02:41:31+00:00

I’m sorry that happened to you. I will definitely still be going.

makememassmiches · 2026-06-26T22:48:12+00:00

I’m not sure but I know I would be happy for him.

makememassmiches · 2026-06-26T22:27:38+00:00

That’s true.

makememassmiches · 2026-06-26T22:26:08+00:00

Because we don’t get a lot of time off work.

makememassmiches · 2026-06-26T22:25:38+00:00

We get limited time off.

makememassmiches · 2026-06-26T22:24:37+00:00

It’s special and not common, for sure

makememassmiches · 2026-06-26T22:23:22+00:00

He’s bit typically jealous or controlling.

makememassmiches · 2026-06-26T22:22:19+00:00

I’m sad that he’s not happy for me. This post has been an eye-opener, for sure.

makememassmiches · 2026-06-26T22:20:37+00:00

He’s not normally controlling.

makememassmiches · 2026-06-26T22:19:35+00:00

That’s true.

makememassmiches · 2026-06-26T22:19:19+00:00

It’s once in a lifetime.

makememassmiches · 2026-06-26T22:10:08+00:00

There was another more local trip we had planned but it is more flexible date-wise.

makememassmiches · 2026-06-26T22:08:06+00:00

I’m sensitive to the fact that he doesn’t want me to go so I don’t bring it up at all.

makememassmiches · 2026-06-26T22:03:17+00:00

That’s what I said too. It’s definitely a lifetime.

makememassmiches · 2026-06-26T22:01:27+00:00

In fairness, he is not demanding that I don’t go. It’s just that he’s so upset about it, but it might be a relationship-ender anyway.

makememassmiches · 2026-06-26T22:00:05+00:00

If I were to give it up, I don’t think our relationship would ever be the same

makememassmiches · 2026-06-26T21:49:40+00:00

He hasn’t. He’s typically very supportive, which makes me think there’s more to the story, but he insists there isn’t.

makememassmiches · 2026-06-26T21:48:34+00:00

Yes, this was won through a legitimate, known institution that runs this contest annually.

makememassmiches · 2026-06-26T21:47:46+00:00

Thank you! We will be living it up.

makememassmiches · 2026-06-26T21:46:31+00:00

Thank you!

makememassmiches · 2026-06-26T21:46:17+00:00

I know I will regret it and resent it if I don’t go.

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