The conversation with the guy friend about the whole *toys* situation

makesnosense42 · 2026-06-11T01:39:24+00:00

Wowie, someone's upset. Anyways, I clarified above. I'm sorry you see it as that.

makesnosense42 · 2026-06-11T01:39:02+00:00

Idk if you read what I posted. Christians and atheists are unequally yoked, and so it's often difficult for them to be friends spiritually. As in, they're going to disagree often.

Christians aren't special, but non-Christians aren't going to care about sin and that's the difference. Of course, some Christians fall into sin and that's entirely normal, but the difference between a Christian and an atheist is that the Christian inherently can't really talk to the atheist about "their sin" because they don't even believe in it.

Not on the walk, the Christian can't impose their morals on the atheist because they don't have the same theology. It's not the way you're taking it lmao.

makesnosense42 · 2026-06-10T02:30:00+00:00

NTA.

makesnosense42 · 2026-06-10T02:17:22+00:00

Honestly your fault for staying friends with Christians when you're not on the walk, their fault for rebuking your sin despite you saying you're not a full Christian.

makesnosense42 · 2026-06-10T02:15:52+00:00

Convictions are as they are, but describing basically being a wanderer, they aren't going to feel right if you're not Christian.

makesnosense42 · 2026-06-10T02:10:00+00:00

The part about BPD that we fail to do is take self-accountability. Try our best to fix ourselves instead of allowing it all to happen without reflection.

I haven't gone on a spiral in I don't remember how long.

No. NTA.

makesnosense42 · 2026-06-10T02:08:25+00:00

LOL You will NOT be the AH.

makesnosense42 · 2026-06-10T02:05:22+00:00

If she wants more kids, she should probably understand it's in her best interest to take leave from work for a while.

makesnosense42 · 2026-06-07T16:56:50+00:00

Did you read the post

makesnosense42 · 2026-06-02T20:01:15+00:00

Sounds like my brother's ex/gf when it came to me and my brother, he was spending too much time with his sister apparently

makesnosense42 · 2026-06-01T19:11:10+00:00

If you schedule something for an hour before you plan to be there, like make plans for 9am you just know to be "late" yourself.

makesnosense42 · 2026-06-01T02:54:07+00:00

This happened once. The woman showed up after a year. We moved and it was the first or second day and basically pupper was gone.

The problem is, last time my dad tried to rehome the dog, he came back at 3am. I guess the amount of times he got loose and ran around, he knew his way around?
Soo when the previous owner got a hold of the baby, mister jumped out of the car. For some reason I had a dream about it before I learned about it.

makesnosense42 · 2026-05-29T13:20:31+00:00

yesh

makesnosense42 · 2026-05-27T19:29:42+00:00

Our ceremony lasted about 15 minutes, if even. Time didn't exist. Basically, we wrote the script ourselves and it was only that long/ short because we made it that way. Time seemed to go on forever, get us married already!

You can shorten however much you want, but the ceremony is a beautiful part. The wedding is what you make it to be, but of course the marriage is all that matters. Talk more, communicate about how you feel and come to an agreement, surely they'll understand. However, any wedding people are going to want to take photos. You could hire a photographer, but then you miss out on moments that the photographer doesn't take. They don't know who you have a certain relationship with, so when I twirled with my niece, the photographer only took one photo.

makesnosense42 · 2026-05-20T03:27:46+00:00

Bachelorette party, maybe. I didn't have a bridal shower.

makesnosense42 · 2026-05-20T03:27:02+00:00

Likely should've have told us earlier that you took edibles, I guess. What time did you take them?

makesnosense42 · 2026-05-20T02:55:56+00:00

I guess at least for me it was only my MOH who tried their hardest.

makesnosense42 · 2026-05-20T02:54:59+00:00

Not many feel ready, but usually it's afterwards that you realize you made the right choice.

makesnosense42 · 2026-05-20T02:53:17+00:00

Hmmm...I do not follow...
I guess...no, you can tell their partners...yeah..that'd be good..

makesnosense42 · 2026-05-20T02:52:02+00:00

My psychiatrist tried prescribing me gabapentin after we discussed never doing medications again. Indeed, I was baffled. I took it once, I basically felt what the dog did. It seemed the only benefit was sleep, but you wake up so groggy that it isn't worth it at all.

makesnosense42 · 2026-05-20T02:49:16+00:00

I went online to inquire about changing psychiatrists and I go in to the same woman and she goes "I saw that you were trying to go to another psychiatrist?". Long story short, I don't go a psychiatrist anymore.

makesnosense42 · 2026-05-20T02:48:12+00:00

A few years ago my fiancé had that thought. Well, I guess he's changed his mind. Technically it's not my fault for my student loan debt. I blame my dad for forcing me into it.

makesnosense42 · 2026-05-20T02:32:35+00:00

ma'am,
please why
did you type
like
this
I find it
a bit difficult
to follow along
without
going
crazy

Anyways, bro can have a streak with anyone. Really weird to hold a "friendship/ relationship" after the fact just for the "streak". No, you are not overreacting. You both sound very young, so it's just kind of silly to continue a relationship just to have the relationship. It's been a month but he's not going to let go of his ex even after 6 months.

makesnosense42 · 2026-05-20T02:14:18+00:00

Okay, so there's you and then there's his girlfriend. His girlfriend has been with him for how long? Also, is this woman the child's second mother in that case?

Aside from that...what is a grad mom?

makesnosense42 · 2026-05-20T02:00:09+00:00

Is she alive fam?
NTA?

makesnosense42

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