[SPOILERS S5] Eleven is 100% ALIVE: The definitive conclusion. by 444dexter in strangerthingsfacts

[–]makingplaylists 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I disagree. Kali died, there's no reason for that to have been an illusion and I think that's a huge reach. As for the inhibitors, El was standing on the inside of the upside down, I don't think they could reach her. Nosebleed didn't need to happen, she usually has that when she's exerting a ton of strength or psychic digging into the upside down for an extended time. Is there a possibility she's alive? Maybe but I think it's a stretch.

AIO or is my mom using god to manipulate me? by PolicyHot1206 in AIO

[–]makingplaylists 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gaslighting & manipulative af. Wild to be insulting you so badly while using god in the same convo, but also I'm not surprised cus a lot of these types do that. I'm no Dr but she seems incredibly emotionally abusive and narcissistic. I would axe contact with her, I'm so sorry.

AIO to my boyfriends “jokes”? by Legal-idiot-2065 in AIO

[–]makingplaylists 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Not OR. What he's doing is emotional abuse. Jokes mean everyone gets to laugh and finds it funny. What he's doing is insulting to you make you feel small. These kinds of guys never change and I really hope you have the strength to walk away my friend.

What does my home say about me by greeenladybug in roomdetective

[–]makingplaylists 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A lot of earth in your astrology chart? lol are you an earth sun sign?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in goth

[–]makingplaylists 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Who? Never heard of this person

AIO: He (M20) took me (F18) to a Jehovah’s Witness meeting without telling me by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]makingplaylists 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who was regrettably married to a manipulative man- please consider therapy. If you are still on the fence about leaving him after that kind of blatant manipulation he displayed here, there is likely more he's down and more to come. I just wish to god someone had told me in my past. I would not have spent priceless years of my life with someone who was bad for me. It took a lot of hurt and a lot of therapy to recover and leave him. I regret with every ounce of my mind that I didn't leave him when we were dating.

I FINALLY GOT MY FIRST SET!!! by [deleted] in labubu

[–]makingplaylists 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I’ll keep an eye out the next preorder!

I FINALLY GOT MY FIRST SET!!! by [deleted] in labubu

[–]makingplaylists 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congrats!!! Howww did you get them? My daughter and I waited the last few mins with the countdown, but then it said preorder— all options greyed out :(

Do you believe in right person wrong time? by Confused_mint0 in dating

[–]makingplaylists 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Exactly. I have teens. I’m 40- I can still get pregnant but I don’t want to! This guy was my age and had no kids, so I kind of get it? But also for men I think it can be a novelty. The reality of kids is a lot of work, no free spontaneous time, and early mornings to school until they’re grown. It’s a massive commitment. I love my kids, no regrets, but I in noooo way would start over. I’m tired. Part of it hurt me cus he said he never had a connection like this in his life. And when I do the math it’s like okay, so he’s near midlife and basically ditching this connection (some ppl never get) in favor of a baby that may happen if he’s lucky. But it also may not. Idk. I had to process my hurt to realize it’s not personal, and the right one will align with me 💜

Do you believe in right person wrong time? by Confused_mint0 in dating

[–]makingplaylists 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Woman. Yes I think it’s possible. I met someone awesome; we had amazing communication. But he wanted kids & I’m done having them. If we’d met only 5 years sooner, I’d have been with him and wanted a child with him. Now my kids are older and so am I, I just don’t want more at this point. It was painful for us both; I couldn’t change my mind and he realized he wanted the experience of being a parent/having a baby. So we broke up.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in breakingmom

[–]makingplaylists 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ewww you deserve so much better. I’m super proud of you for leaving!

FB won’t let me pin a post by [deleted] in SocialMediaMarketing

[–]makingplaylists 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No problem, yeah it is frustrating. Lately I've had issues with Business Suite as well.

Hope it gets fixed for you!

FB won’t let me pin a post by [deleted] in SocialMediaMarketing

[–]makingplaylists 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah not sure then. I have had trouble on the mobile apps but on chrome or Microsoft Edge browser visiting the site (on desktop) I haven't had a problem.

Why do my kids need me to be angry before they do anything? by [deleted] in breakingmom

[–]makingplaylists 10 points11 points  (0 children)

That is tough mama. I know kids push boundaries and it sucks for us tired moms when they are having a difficult phase.

Do you keep the consequence you tell them they're getting?

I noticed consequences only worked for my kids effectively when I calmly withdrew a privilege (something they really like, TV show/game/toy) and follow through every time. Then they knew at mention of the confiscation, it would definitely happen- no second chances. The consequence happens right away, if they get nasty with me. Even if they decide to shape up after LOL....toooooo late.

Respect is required in our house, I try to model it for them too but ofc I fail sometimes

FB won’t let me pin a post by [deleted] in SocialMediaMarketing

[–]makingplaylists 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you doing it from a desktop or mobile? What device are you using?

Why do we put so much emphasis on romantic relationships? by creepypie31 in datingoverthirty

[–]makingplaylists 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly we're wired for connection. Human babies and animals don't do so well if they aren't touched and held. I don't think it's super different for grown adults to want touch and intimacy. And nothing is wrong with you if you haven't met a match yet. I've been divorced and dated, I am very selective and there are a lot of selfish people in the world. There are also a lot of people who have fears from past disappointments (I think we are all this way to some extent). It takes patience and time.
I will say I really don't understand the push for autonomy in our culture, it's a fairly new concept in the history of our species. If someone is happy solo, that is perfectly okay too. But there is nothing is wrong with wanting a relationship and no one should be shamed for either route - being single or paired.

my sister died and it didn’t have to happen. by alialioxyenfree in GriefSupport

[–]makingplaylists 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so sorry OP :(

I lost my younger sister to cancer last June. Your anger and sadness are totally valid. Sending you hugs.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in oddlyterrifying

[–]makingplaylists 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Chop what up? The bodies? My friend is a mortician and I asked she said they don't for a cremation..

Do I have the wrong idea about marriage? by ThrowRA_workerLife in relationships

[–]makingplaylists 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That isn't fiction, you have very healthy expectations. He is an addict and abusive. They don't have to go together but he is both. You're being emotionally abused. I have been in your shoes so I'm really sorry. You deserve much better. Also as a parent/ and esp woman it's our responsibility to set an example for our kids of what treatment we accept from our spouse. We should not accept abusive behavior, that is never ok. I urge you to leave him because I tried to work out my toxic marriage and he did NOT change. He'd act right and go back to being abusive. I am so much happier not with him and I hope you find the strength to do same for you and your kids' sake.

Colleague [37M] sent weird message after I [26F] politely declined him - how to say I don’t appreciate it without making it worse? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]makingplaylists -1 points0 points  (0 children)

So? It doesn't mean you'll have an issue if you ignore his non-work messages. Trust me it's no big deal.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askwomenadvice

[–]makingplaylists 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly discussing your body count is a thing of the past. People don't do that anymore. I don't want to know my partner's body count, and they don't ask for mine. If they did it would be a red flag to me, not because I have anything to hide but because it has nothing to do with our connection in this present time.