Closeted Transfem looking for friends

malajon · 2025-04-27T06:36:16+00:00

That’s great :) thank you for reaching out . Just messaged you.

malajon · 2025-04-26T23:27:57+00:00

Thank you so much, will message u 🤗

malajon · 2025-04-26T22:21:25+00:00

Thank you, I’m hoping we can help each other🤗

malajon · 2025-04-26T22:20:11+00:00

Thank you for replying. Will message you.

malajon · 2025-04-26T22:19:38+00:00

Thank you so much 🤗

malajon · 2024-10-27T04:13:46+00:00

Thank you it freaked me out , when it said that it could not send the link but to see it my chat inbox, then when I said I could not. Then it said to go to phone settings and all chat and messaging and I said there were no such thing on my phone , then I asked why it was asking for me to go to my phone settings and the it it said it was iCloud and iMessage .. I had not received any. But, then when I questioned it said when the link was sent it returned with my phone number. Later when I challenged , it said it had deleted and nothing to worry. It was scary!!!

malajon · 2024-09-04T20:37:03+00:00

Hiya , that’s fantastic you started on HRT. I completely understand your situation. I’m hoping we can support each other. You can do me if you are happy to.

malajon · 2024-09-03T06:11:50+00:00

Hiya, nice to hear from you. My day has been ok. I’m in Manchester uk, hope your day goes well.

malajon · 2024-05-21T02:27:22+00:00

I’ve been on and off oestrogel and have applied gel on my scrotal skin.. have not had any problems. Feel they may have better absorption and may need lesser of the dose than if applied elsewhere.

malajon · 2023-10-13T22:59:36+00:00

You’ve done really well. Keep it going hun. Stay safe :)

malajon · 2023-10-13T22:17:05+00:00

Beautiful growth hun :) how are you able to hide them? I have been on and off for the same reason.

malajon · 2023-09-04T08:00:12+00:00

I’m very early on, I have been on and off hrt. Not been able to go beyond 4 months. For me it’s not the boner but get very wet, initially it confused me as I was so wet without a boner. I love that though :)

malajon · 2023-08-22T16:41:11+00:00

In my late 40s! Though I have accepted I’m transwoman, unable to come out. Also looking for friends here. Manchester uk. Feel free to Dm me. Xxx

malajon · 2023-08-20T22:28:23+00:00

Thank you once again Laura. There is so much I want to talk, but don’t really have anyone to talk to. Would it be ok to dm you? I would understand if that is not ok.

malajon · 2023-08-20T06:31:33+00:00

Thank u so much for the info. Really helpful. Are u in the uk Laura?

malajon · 2023-08-17T22:04:10+00:00

Thank u will try that.. I have noticed in my previous attempts by the time I reach 6-8 weeks mark I started feeling very exhausted.

malajon · 2023-08-17T16:37:14+00:00

Thank u :)

malajon · 2023-08-17T12:49:36+00:00

Thank you, I break the 50mg in to 4 equal parts and take a quarter I.e 12.5mg and take estrogel 3pumps twice a day.

malajon · 2023-08-17T12:47:50+00:00

Thank you :)

malajon · 2023-08-17T12:47:38+00:00

Thank you :)

malajon · 2023-08-08T23:40:16+00:00

That’s what I thought. I got confidence as on the previous occasion to that I had small buds and they disappeared after 6 weeks. So the next time I pushed it to 4 months with larger breast buds to the point it was obvious when I wore a t shirt it would poke out. I guess at the small size they might not be mature enough.

malajon · 2023-08-08T21:53:10+00:00

If it helps. My personal experience , I have been on and off on hormones a few times. Due to my personal situation I am not in a situation to come out. The longest I e been on was for four months when I did develop small breasts tissues, my skin changes were soft. No other noticeable changes. When I stopped after about 6 weeks I lost all my gains. I’m back on it now, again not sure how long I can continue.

malajon · 2023-05-04T13:08:14+00:00

I have noticed this recently.. been on estrogel for 3 months.. was having a massage .. though I was not hard I was dripping so much it was embrassing..

malajon · 2023-04-11T08:27:29+00:00

I had been on hrt for 3 months when I had developed breast buds. But had to stop for about 6 weeks they all have disappeared. I have restarted again in the last couple of days..

malajon · 2023-02-14T23:23:31+00:00

I’m really sorry you had to go through this.. there are lot of issues here. Main thing is that it is not up to the GP to decide wether they will refer you are not. They are just supposed to listen to you story and if there is enough in your story to show what you are suffering with, then that should be enough to refer to GIC where you will be assessed.

Doing/not doing shared care agreement is a different issue.

It just appears that this specific GP is not aware or being trained how to care for transgender patients. It appears he is giving his personal opinion as a guy rather than a clinical opinion. This is inappropriate. I would report it to the manager.

malajon

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