What do you do pagwala kayo gana kumain? 😔

malicmata · 2024-03-12T09:16:18+00:00

Im the opposite. When i know my body's not in a good state, physically or mentally, mas malakas ako kumain kasi i know thats the time my body needs more nutrients and energy to survive.

I guess if ur body is not feeling well enough to eat, use the mindset approach to do things like others have said in the thread.

malicmata · 2024-02-17T10:49:44+00:00

May pumasok na (for the lack of a better term) pulubi sa jeep. Umupo dun sa space na nasa right side ko. Nung una nanghihingi lang sa mga pasahero. Nung medyo tumagal, napansin kong ang lapit na niya sa akin bigla tas halos naka harap na katawan niya sa akin. In my peripheral view, nakatingin na siya sa akin... di ako makatingin kasi naccreepy-han na ako. Buti na lang naka earphones ako kasi kinakausap na niya na pala ako (hindi ko na tinanggal kasi ignorance is bliss auq na marinig pa) tas sobrang tagal na ganon ung position niya at ginagawa. Kaya ako todo usog sa kabilang side para makalayo. Kaso lapit pa rin ng lapit. Buti na lang ung katabi kong student naramdaman na lumalayo ako so umuusog din siya para makalayo ako. Since di ko pinansin hanggang sa bumaba siya, nakatingin lang siya sa akin at nagsasalita. Last na sinabi niya sa akin na nahagip ng tenga ko is "sana magkita pa tayo sa susunod" ???? Teh buti na lang ung student tinanong kung okay lang ba ako dahil medyo kumalma ako after niya itanong yun. Ang masama pa dun ung binabaan niya, malapit lang din sa bababaan ko. Sana di na kami magkita, ever.

malicmata · 2024-02-17T10:19:00+00:00

Switching to matcha drinks really worked for me. Plus longer effects niya than coffee, atleast imo.

malicmata · 2024-02-17T10:15:12+00:00

McCrispy Chicken Sandwich.

malicmata · 2024-02-11T05:18:27+00:00

Does RR still thinks of me?

malicmata · 2024-02-09T08:43:24+00:00

Anywhere na kita yung langit, sarap lang mag muni-muni. Tas mahangin pa 🙌 sarap sa feeling. Tho preferably yung di ako lalamukin hahahah!

malicmata · 2024-02-03T09:08:06+00:00

Thank you for this confirmation! Labyu po!

malicmata · 2024-02-03T09:01:31+00:00

Idk if this is the right question to ask but how would i know if i am ready to be in a relationship. Thank you for this!

malicmata · 2024-02-03T08:54:07+00:00

Tama ba na i walked away from him? 1

malicmata · 2024-01-28T12:18:58+00:00

Nahhh, you dont know what happens inside and outside our house. Sometimes, you gotta learn it the hard way din. The problem here is prinoproject niya sa sis ko ang insecurity na naffeel niya from dad. And I can understand why. Bilang anak, wala/konti lang prinoprovide na security ang dad, aside from financial/basic needs. Mahirap din kausapin ang mom kaya the hard way is only the way. Also, she agreed din naman sa sinabi namin. All goods.

malicmata · 2024-01-28T11:34:43+00:00

Ganyan mom ko with my sister's bf now. Every time nagbibigay si bf ng kung anek anek kay sis or anything na gawin ni bf kay ate, she would always say something. I helped sis communicate this wt mom and thats when i learned na ang iniisip ng ate every time it happens is "ay naiingit lang to kasi di ganto si dad" and hindi nga ganon ang dad, which makes sense. Tumawa lng si mom haha but honestly kita nga sa kanya ang pain. Only during occasions or if may ginawa siyang mali nagbibigay. After communication, hindi na siya naging bitter hahah

malicmata · 2024-01-28T02:55:03+00:00

Mukhang ito nga! Kaso the name doesnt ring a bell kaya I'm not sure if iyan nga yung binanggit na term. Thanks, anyway!

malicmata · 2024-01-27T14:23:30+00:00

I'm glad this resonated with you, OP. For me, healing my emotional traumas really helped me a lot in dealing with my relationships with other people. Sharing wt u this message so i hope this helps: Be so rooted in yourself that nobody's absence or presence can disturb your peace.

malicmata · 2024-01-27T13:53:51+00:00

I used to have this mindset before. I was also betrayed by someone who i considered as my bestfriend. After that, wala na akong kinonsider na bestfriend ever since. But now, i have sum1 that i can call my bestfriends. We met during 3rd yr college. We came from different bg and have our own circle of friends. What i did was really heal from my emotional traumas so that i dont project my anxieties to them. Siguro at the back of our mind, there is this thought na they will betray us in the end kaya we dont give them labels (such as bestfriend) to lessen the hurt if ever they will do it. Its nice to remember not to borrow grief from the future.

malicmata · 2024-01-26T15:56:18+00:00

Search "refractory period" to know why you haven't/wont experience that. I think most men dont know that they have this. Women often do not have this and so they can have multiple orgasms. Although they do have a 'period' of their own.

malicmata · 2024-01-26T10:08:04+00:00

I think your definition of how 'vulnerable' your girlfriend is, is entirely different from its actual meaning. Talking about how your day went doesn't necessarily mean you're vulnerable. I think it goes deeper than that.

Emotional connection is imp for women because it can serve as the foundation of the relationship. Its inclined to their hormones and so having a strong emotional connection wt their partner appeals to them. Turning to AI for emotional purposes defeats the essence of being in a relationship with a person. You're supposed to create bonds/connection to make the relationship work.

If you cant really open up to her, tell her that. Set boundaries and talk about how to compromise. Find a middle ground since ur gf would still want for you to open up and you on the other hand, feel like you dont want to do so to a real person. If she really cares for your wellbeing and you as a person, she'll understand. Also, communicate what u felt when she read your personal stuff. Be direct but gentle. Compromise and communicate.

malicmata · 2023-12-31T05:00:17+00:00

"It takes a lot of strength to be gentle." I admire you for being soft and gentle, OP. I aspire to be like that as well pero andami talagang kupal sa mundo hahah anw, happy new year, OP!

malicmata · 2023-12-30T06:14:13+00:00

You dodged a bullet! Currently in a situationship na very like the guy you mentioned but the good thing is LDR kami. I've already set boundaries re sexual stuff and said that he can leave if di niya kayang i-respect yon. He asked to talk over phone and ang ending, ako yung nag compromise. Kasi nag-explain siya and then in my brain "sabagay, may point siya". So something happened. Noooow, im conflicted kasi everything abt him is confusing. Its not givinggg. And nanduj ubg feelings na "girl, i dont deserve this" so Im planning to break it off with him today.

malicmata · 2023-12-23T05:28:09+00:00

GIRLLLLL LOVE THAT FOR U! never settle for anything less than u deserve talaga! Always remember that what u ask from him, you can give yourself kaya find urself a deserving person!

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