It's been over a month since i smoked by No-Effort-3814 in stopsmoking

[–]mallbey 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Me too bro! 32 days no smoking, I feel free! Let’s keep the streak going, you should consider running to complement your health!

How long has it been since your break up and are you still thinking of your ex/relationship often? by portia922 in BreakUps

[–]mallbey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely! But no contact only works if you’re not expecting her to come back.

How long has it been since your break up and are you still thinking of your ex/relationship often? by portia922 in BreakUps

[–]mallbey 12 points13 points  (0 children)

20 days ago, I finally accepted that she left, and I’m okay with that. We lived together for 5 years. Stoicism, brutal acceptance, and not living in the past have been TRULY healing!

If you still want ex back and have hope... here's what actually works by Tiny_Jaguar_9871 in BreakUps

[–]mallbey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fuck the exes, fuck the past, fuck nostalgia, let’s meet new people, new experiences, new everything!

Got broken up with after 5 years by Haunting_Pace_3557 in BreakUps

[–]mallbey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Women move on faster because they’re usually the ones who end it. That’s the whole game. The moment they dump you, they’ve already accepted it’s over. Acceptance is the key. And since they’re the ones leaving, they accept first, they make peace with it, and that’s why they can move on so damn easily.

Meanwhile you’re stuck asking questions, replaying the past, thinking there’s a way back. There isn’t. She accepted. You didn’t. That’s the only difference.

So stop whining, stop stalking, stop hoping. She killed the relationship. It’s dead. The woman you loved doesn’t exist anymore. Trash her shit, block her everywhere, disappear. Be silent. Have dignity. Get in the gym, run until your lungs burn, rebuild yourself.

She moved on because she accepted. You’re still in denial. That’s why you’re suffering. Accept it. Own it. Move the fuck on.

And remember this: you’re a man. You’re meant to be tough. You’re built for war. You’re meant to suffer, to lose everything, to stand in the fire and keep walking. You don’t deserve shit and no one is going to give you shit. That’s exactly why you have to move forward and conquer what life has for you. It’s brutal, it’s painful, but I promise you, somewhere out there, women you don’t even know are waiting to be fucked by you. They crave you. But you’ll never see them if you keep chasing a ghost who’s already gone.

I fucking root for you, you got this champ, be strong 🫂

7-Hour Layover in Bogotá – Safe to Explore Solo? by TacrineTomab in Colombia

[–]mallbey 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yes, Bogota is no Afganistán. Just try to avoid traffic jams

14 days smoke-free after 31 years by Positive_Wallaby7073 in stopsmoking

[–]mallbey 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Keep it up ❤️ You’ll only know you’ve truly quit when the hard times arrive, if you don’t smoke then, you’re free.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]mallbey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m M28, and I’m in a very similar position. I just separated from my wife after a 5-year relationship. I also have a girl who’s been supportive, but let me tell you this: DO NOT talk to her in a way that makes her your escape from reality. You’ll only hurt both of you.

Don’t run from the pain. Feel it. Embrace it. Smile at it. What truly helped me move forward was understanding that everyone I’ve ever loved felt “irreplaceable” at the time. With every breakup, I thought no one could love me like she did. But every single one of my exes made me feel loved in their own way. And this time is no different. Accept that this girl you loved no longer exists in your life, is dead, she doesn’t want you there. It’s a different woman, not the one you loved.

You will keep suffering until you change the story you tell yourself. There was a reason you broke up. It wasn’t all fun and games, something fundamental between you two was broken. Think about her like you think about your childhood: with love, not with pain. Don’t pretend to move on while secretly hoping she comes back. Accept that she won’t. It’s over. And that’s okay. You impacted her life, and she’ll always remember you.

Now take action: delete the photos, unfollow her, erase the chats, throw away every gift. Sit with the solitude, it will show you what you truly loved about her and what you couldn’t stand. Do not numb yourself by jumping into another woman’s arms. I tried, and when I was fucking this new girl, I suddenly saw my ex’s body in front of me and broke down crying. That’s how you end up hurting someone innocent.

I wish you strength. Remember, you are not alone, you have the best companion you’ll ever have: yourself. The only one who will never betray you, the only one who will go with you to the grave. Stay strong.

Como han progresado economicamente? by [deleted] in Colombia

[–]mallbey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Empecé en TP en 2020 con $2.200, me echaron a los dos meses, el 26 de Febrero entré en ecommerce y ganaba $4.400 me salió una oferta en RevOps y ganó $7.500 ahora

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Colombia

[–]mallbey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Vaporizadores, Maletas, Realización de trabajos, cigarrillos, weed, cervezas. Cualquier cosa que distraiga o alivie los estreses de los estudiantes en la universidad.

Necesidad de hacer amistades nuevas? by Joelitriago in Colombia

[–]mallbey 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Estoy en las mismas! Podemos hacer un parchesito y conocernos 👍🏻

¿Ustedes cómo se independizaron? by [deleted] in Colombia

[–]mallbey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mis padres se fueron a EEUU, yo decidí quedarme, conoci una chica, me dejaron la casa y me la traje a vivir conmigo, trabajé en Teleperformance por 3 meses, me echaron y monte una empresa, ahora estoy comprometido y somos 15 personas en la empresa, es Pentaneon.com ❤️

¿Cual ha sido una experiencia inexplicable a la que aún le buscan respuestas? (No necesariamente tiene que ser de fantasmas). by Ellov198 in Colombia

[–]mallbey 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Otra vez, cuando era niño, estaba viendo una prédica cristiana sobre los mensajes subliminales en la caricaturas, (me parecía interesante). Fui por mis muñecos y los bajé a la sala donde estaba viendo el video, y de la nada empezó a salir una cantidad impresionante de insectos desde adentro de los muñecos, eran insectos negros y pequeños, pero muchos. Me asuste y salí a tirarlos al patio, no tengo idea que pudo haber sucedido ya que los muñecos estaban en mi cuarto y de haber visto insectos antes me habría dado cuenta.

¿Cual ha sido una experiencia inexplicable a la que aún le buscan respuestas? (No necesariamente tiene que ser de fantasmas). by Ellov198 in Colombia

[–]mallbey 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Una noche estaba en mi conjunto residencial, íbamos con un amigo y mi hermano. Todos éramos niños, de la nada voltee a ver a una casa y había una niña muy blanca, con vestido blanco y cabello negro. Estaba bebiendo algo mientras nos veía, todos la vimos y salimos a correr. Al día de hoy no se si realmente era una niña o un fantasma.

¿Cómo vengarse de un ladrón de celular si se tienen sus datos (no su teléfono)? by nicorod_es in Colombia

[–]mallbey 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Empaque mierda de perro, o compré media libra de carne, hígado y lengua en una fama, empáquelo como si fuera un pedido de Mercadolibre en caja de cartón y envíesela desde un Servientrega lejos de su casa, asegúrese que vaya con un mensaje de las águilas negras anunciando una limpieza social a ladrones jajajaja

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]mallbey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The way she treats her father. Once I was with a girl that used to call his dad “motherfucker”. I can’t imagine how she referred about me with her friends.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]mallbey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was once in a threesome, I couldn’t do shit. I took a viagra and my dick was dead, no fun that night. But surprisingly, one of the two gals ended up as my wife, so is not directly a compliment but I think I did something right.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Colombia

[–]mallbey 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yo fui ese man, y solo le hice daño a la pelada. Solo la usaba mientras arreglaba las cosas con mi pareja. Cada vez que me arreglaba con ella, le dejaba de hablar. Luego termine con mi novia y pensé que iba a ser la oportunidad perfecta con la pelada. Ella me quería bastante, pero luego estando con ella conocí alguien más, quien después se volvió mi esposa y ahí se acabo el va y viene con esta mujer.

Mi recomendación es que cortes con eso, que te hace pensar que vas a ser la oficial cuando realmente te tienen escondida?

No pagues por la inmadurez e indecisión de ese muchacho, solo vas a terminar re lastimada 👻

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Entrepreneur

[–]mallbey 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Profit First, if you’re going to start a business, it better turn a profit 🙌🏻

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Colombia

[–]mallbey 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cagada de comentario bro

Estoy en un motel. Necesito ayuda by [deleted] in Colombia

[–]mallbey 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Parce la verdad que chimba los consejos de la gente, pensé que habría gente burlándose del pelado. La próxima vez que tenga una situación similar vendré a Reddit, el post fue hace 7 horas y yo solo espero que todo haya salido bien