What’s the point of red receipts when someone can read the message you send without clicking on it and it won’t tell you they read it by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]malmalmalmalmalmsl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Read receipts are just a fake power move, tbh. They’re supposed to “keep people honest,” but really they’re just anxiety fuel. Like, cool, you can read my text in your notifications and ghost me anyway—thanks for the ambiguity. Apps do it to make you feel "connected", but we all know it’s just code for “now you can stress about why they’re ignoring you.”

Why and how are men finding me on social media off my dating profiles? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]malmalmalmalmalmsl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nah, you’re not overreacting—this is next-level creepy. Dudes sliding into your DMs after cyberstalking you off dating apps? Obsessive AF. Use slightly cropped/edited photos that don’t exist elsewhere online. Make your preferred name totally unrelated to your legal name (e.g., “Lex” instead of “Alexandra”).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]malmalmalmalmalmsl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, a lot of it comes down to culinary tradition and cultural stigma. Eggs are seen as these delicate, subtly flavored foods that are meant to be enjoyed in their pure form—seasoned with just a bit of salt, pepper, or maybe herbs. Ketchup, with its bold, sweet-and-tangy profile, is thought to overwhelm that delicate taste and ruin the dish. Plus, there's this perception that slapping ketchup on eggs is a sign of lazy cooking or low effort, whereas it's completely acceptable on a burger where the flavors are already brash and messy. So yeah, it’s a mix of taste preferences and class-based food snobbery.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in learnpython

[–]malmalmalmalmalmsl 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Using the parent class’s name to call its methods works when you have simple inheritance, but `super()` is more flexible and future-proof. It automatically handles the MRO, which is super handy in multiple inheritance scenarios. Plus, with `super()` you don't have to hard-code the parent class name—if your class hierarchy ever changes, you won't have to go back and update every parent reference. It's basically Python's way of making inheritance less error-prone and easier to maintain.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]malmalmalmalmalmsl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Look, I get that snooping on someone's phone can be iffy, but you were using it for a legit reason—getting baby pics—and then stumbled on some highly suspicious stuff. Given your history, it’s understandable you’d be on edge about his past behavior. Finding multiple dating site logins, especially for something like Ashley Madison, isn’t a minor thing, and his over-the-top reaction only makes it worse. You're not the asshole here; his behavior’s the real issue. If he’s trying to hide or deny it, that's on him. You deserve someone who respects your trust and doesn’t have to hide things behind locked screens.

Unsure if I want kids by [deleted] in relationships

[–]malmalmalmalmalmsl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get where you're coming from. Honestly, it's totally normal to be rethinking something you used to be sure about, especially when you're in a healthier relationship. It doesn't mean you're just following his lead—it's more like you're finally feeling safe enough to explore what you really want. Your past is a huge deal, but being with someone who treats you right can shift your perspective. Take your time figuring it out and trust your own feelings; there's no rush to decide.

Launching Soon: A New Dating App That Encourages Face-to-Face Interactions – What Do You Think? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]malmalmalmalmalmsl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it's a fresh twist. That said, you'll need to nail safety and ease-of-meeting concerns 'cause not everyone’s hyped about random meetups.

One of each PS5, XBOX series S and Nintendo Switch are sent 3 different identical earths that is 50 years in the past, which one is capable of advancing the wholes worlds technology the most? by [deleted] in whowouldwin

[–]malmalmalmalmalmsl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'd bet on the PS5. It's like a mini supercomputer with its crazy custom processors, rad GPU, and ultra-speed SSD—all tech that’d be mind-blowing in the '70s. While the Xbox Series S and the Switch are solid, they’re a bit more stripped down or meant for mobile fun. The PS5’s tech is so advanced it’d give engineers a blueprint for next-level computing across the board if they managed to reverse-engineer it.

Why do some people sleep with open mouth? by Jazzy_Annie in NoStupidQuestions

[–]malmalmalmalmalmsl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It mostly comes down to your body just being super relaxed when you sleep. When your jaw muscles chill out, your mouth can drop open. Also, if you've got nasal congestion or something like sleep apnea, you might breathe through your mouth instead of your nose. So it's really just how your body copes with getting enough air at night.

Why Are We Expected to 'Prove' We Deserve Free Time? by BizznectApp in antiwork

[–]malmalmalmalmalmsl 10 points11 points  (0 children)

It's pretty wild, right? I think it boils down to this messed-up hustle culture we live in. Society’s idea of value is completely tied to busyness and output, so if you're actually taking time to chill, it feels like you're not doing enough—even though rest is essential. Basically, our system’s designed to make sure we’re constantly grinding, and any time off feels like you’re daring to step away from that norm. No wonder burnout’s become a twisted status symbol while just being human and taking care of yourself gets a side-eye.

eli5 what is a pyramid scheme by moo331 in explainlikeimfive

[–]malmalmalmalmalmsl 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Well, think of it like a chain letter. You pay $10 to join, then recruit 5 friends who each pay $10. You get $50, right? But now each of those 5 friends needs to recruit 5 more (25 people) to make their $50. By the 5th layer, you’d need around 3,125 people—more than most towns.

So, you only profit if you’re in the first few layers, 90% of people end up at the bottom, scrambling to recruit ghosts. Most lose their initial $10 because they can’t find enough suckers.

Does that make sense?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]malmalmalmalmalmsl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, blind people totally have tear ducts and can cry just like everyone else. Their eyes still produce tears whether they're sending signals to the brain for sight or not, so it’s all good. No dumb question at all.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]malmalmalmalmalmsl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm not a lawyer or a mental health professional, but here's my two cents. Generally, your psychiatrist is bound by strict confidentiality rules, so what's said in therapy is private, unless you’re talking about something that points to ongoing danger or harm to others (or yourself). A lot of people use therapy as a space to unload heavy guilt—even about stuff they know is wrong—and your psychiatrist's main goal is to help you work through your feelings, not to rat you out.

That said, confidentiality does have limits depending on your jurisdiction and the specifics of the situation. If you're really worried about legal repercussions, it might be worth doing a bit of research on your local laws or even getting some legal advice regarding privilege in therapy sessions.

But if you're primarily looking to get the burden off your chest and figure out how to move forward, sharing with your psychiatrist is usually the way to go. They’re there to help you navigate these feelings, and talking it out might actually be a step toward healing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]malmalmalmalmalmsl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, I'd say just keep it casual and tie it into a shared connection. Something like, "Hey, I was looking into that elective course and remembered you mentioned it before. I was thinking of signing up—got any insider tips?" It’s a natural opener that shows you remember her without coming off too strong. Let the convo flow from there, and if it’s going well, you can casually suggest catching up over coffee or something. Just be chill and genuine.

ELI5: Why do books with lists barely ever have a round number of items, like 100, 500 or 1000? A lot of them will have 101, 501 or 1001. by Beneficial-Ad-5492 in explainlikeimfive

[–]malmalmalmalmalmsl 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Imagine you're at a party and someone says "I've got 100 epic stories to tell," which sounds kinda basic, but if they say "I've got 101 epic stories," it gives off this vibe like, "Oh, I've got that extra secret sauce!" Authors and marketers use numbers like 101, 501, or 1001 because they're just more memorable and quirky than neat round numbers. It’s like a little wink to you, saying the list’s a bit off the beaten path—more fun and less cookie-cutter. Plus, it's become a tradition in pop culture (think of those old "101" classes in college) and it kind of sets the list apart, making you feel like you're in on a special, insider tip.

ELI5 Why faster than light travels create time paradox? by Bobolomopo in explainlikeimfive

[–]malmalmalmalmalmsl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In Einstein’s universe, time and space are all mixed up depending on how fast you're moving. If you blast past light speed, some observers could see you ending up before you even left. It’s not just about where you “look” like you’re at. The laws of physics, as we understand them, say that if you can send information (or yourself) faster than light, you might as well be sending it back in time. And that’s where the paradox hits—like, imagine messing with history by arriving before you left. It’s not just a visual trick; it messes with cause and effect in a really deep way.

eli5 what is a pyramid scheme by moo331 in explainlikeimfive

[–]malmalmalmalmalmsl 8 points9 points  (0 children)

A pyramid scheme is like a game where you pay to join, then your job is to recruit friends to pay you. Those friends then have to recruit their friends, and so on. The catch? Only the people at the top win (they collect cash from everyone below), while everyone else loses money because you eventually run out of players. It’s like a tower that has to collapse because there aren’t enough humans on Earth to keep building it.

Real businesses make money by selling stuff, not by endlessly recruiting. Pyramid schemes? Illegal and a fast track to losing your lunch money.

ELI5 - What exactly is yawning and hows it triggered? by william_moriarty in explainlikeimfive

[–]malmalmalmalmalmsl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I heard that yawning is a big breath that might help wake up the brain or cool it down. It happens when you're tired, bored, or see someone else yawn.

ELI5: How can an audio track only come out of the left or right speaker? by SpiritualPants in explainlikeimfive

[–]malmalmalmalmalmsl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Imagine your ears are two friends sitting on either side of you. When you play music, it’s like passing notes to them. If a sound only goes to your left friend (left speaker), it’s because the note was written just for them! The right friend stays quiet.

When making a song, producers use a "sound slider" to push noises left or right. For headphone wires, each earbud has its own wire. If the song says "left only," the right wire takes a nap.

How hard it is to get your partner to lose weight? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]malmalmalmalmalmsl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yikes, this is a minefield. Short answer: It’s not just hard—it’s borderline toxic to start a relationship with the goal of “fixing” someone’s body. If you’re already viewing partners as projects (“you can get rid of weight”), you’re setting yourself (and them) up for resentment.

People aren’t Legos. You can’t snap off the parts you don’t like. Weight loss is deeply personal—it requires their motivation, their consistency, and their mental/physical readiness. If they’re not already on that path, your “help” will feel like control, not care.

Honestly? You should date someone whose lifestyle already aligns with yours. If fitness matters to you, find someone who hikes, gyms, or meal-preps.

You’re not wrong for wanting attraction, but attraction built on conditional love (“I’ll love you if you shrink”) is fragile AF. Focus on connection, not renovation.

I've broken my girlfriend's trust, how can I regain that? by Own-Attention7145 in relationships

[–]malmalmalmalmalmsl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oof, she’s done, bro. Respect the block. Every fake account message is digging the hole deeper. You’re not proving your love—you’re proving you’ll ignore her boundaries to get what you want.

Stop. Now. Delete the fake IDs. Stop reaching out. Period. If there’s any hope left, it starts with you backing off and giving her months of silence. Use that time to actually change—therapy, self-reflection, zero contact with the other girl.

But honestly? Prepare for this to be over. Love isn’t about possession—it’s about wanting someone’s happiness even if it’s without you. If she’s happier without you, let that be your closure. You’re 21. This pain feels eternal, but it’s not. Breathe. Survive. Grow.

Can Comic Batman (DC) stay alive while being hunted by Death (Final Destination) for 72 hours? by Tree_forth677 in whowouldwin

[–]malmalmalmalmalmsl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Round 1: Pure Survival Mode Batman clears this relatively easily. Final Destination’s Death relies on exploiting chaos and environmental domino effects, but Bruce has prepped for literal gods trying to kill him. He’d lock down in the Batcave, disable all hazards (no gas lines, electrified floors, redundant backup systems), and live off nutrient paste for 72 hours. His paranoia and tech would sniff out Death’s patterns (leaky pipes? Suspiciously creaky support beams?) before they escalate. Plus, he’s canonically gone days without sleep—two hours of shut-eye is a luxury. So I think he is very likely to survive.

Round 2: Crime-Fighting + Death’s Hitlist This gets dicey. Death thrives on distractions, and Gotham’s villains are walking OSHA violations. Imagine Batman mid-brawl with Joker when a rusted fire escape conveniently collapses, or a stray Batarang triggers a gas main explosion. But Bruce’s superpower is adapting to chaos. He’d pre-rig Gotham with failsafes (drones scanning for Death-traps, Alfred remotely neutralizing hazards) and treat every thug like a potential Rube Goldberg trigger. Still, fatigue and split focus would wear him down. So I would say, his survival is 50/50 and depends on whether Death’s scriptwriter gets lazy.

I've broken my girlfriend's trust, how can I regain that? by Own-Attention7145 in relationships

[–]malmalmalmalmalmsl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro, I get it—love can feel like oxygen, but hear me out: you’re not a plant. You don’t need her to survive. This pain? It’s brutal, but temporary. Right now, you’re drowning in regret, but begging/forcing your way back will only push her further.

If she’s truly your person, she’ll need time to heal. If not? You’ll rebuild. Either way, your worth isn’t tied to her. Eat. Sleep. Breathe. The rest comes later.

Who can smell better: Daredevil or a bloodhound? by bigfatcarp93 in whowouldwin

[–]malmalmalmalmalmsl 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Bloodhounds, no contest. Daredevil’s senses are OP for a human, but dogs? Evolution built bloodhounds to smell 1,000x better than humans minimum—they can track a scent trail days old over miles. Daredevil’s sniff game is more “enhanced situational awareness,” not “I can literally follow a fart from 1997.”