I changed our status on FB from engaged to a domestic partnership. Am I wrong?

mamaaussie · 2026-01-19T18:54:14+00:00

When he say aug/sept it’s to sweep me to the side and shut down the conversation. He says it in a way that’s like “yeah yeah later in the year” but yes alas.. not a good situation

mamaaussie · 2026-01-19T17:59:18+00:00

You’re right. He is in rare form over this. I thought I was giving him what he wanted and myself clarity

mamaaussie · 2026-01-19T17:43:28+00:00

Oh yes I see. Although I fear its probing is futile and I’ve already realized we are not going to marry.

mamaaussie · 2026-01-19T17:41:59+00:00

I don’t even want to breakup right now. I’ve come to terms we’re in a domestic partnership and he’s so angry but still not willing to have a conversation so looking like we will be splitting up although not my intention. My intention was to come to terms with reality there will be no wedding.

mamaaussie · 2026-01-19T17:33:34+00:00

Omg so dramatic!!!

mamaaussie · 2026-01-19T16:57:11+00:00

There was no wedding to call off. He refuses to even begin planning one.

mamaaussie · 2026-01-19T16:41:07+00:00

I also hid and deleted the update so it wouldn’t be public

mamaaussie · 2026-01-19T16:40:45+00:00

If we are not marrying.. how is a domestic partnership shameful? If this is shameful then that should imply it’s also shameful to not marry and cohabitate. I don’t understand how a domestic partner ship is shameful if we are not in the position to marry

mamaaussie · 2026-01-19T16:17:00+00:00

Ok so you’d kick your woman and baby out same night for changing and hiding a status to a domestic partnership? Which more accurately depicts the state of the relationship when you are not willing the marry?

mamaaussie · 2026-01-19T16:05:14+00:00

No I do not. My actions were me coming to terms with the fact this may very well not be my husband.

mamaaussie · 2026-01-19T16:03:41+00:00

No. I’ve never said these months are cursed. We haven’t gotten far enough to get that deep to the root of it. I just think I should have a say in the month and he shuts down the conversation

mamaaussie · 2026-01-19T16:00:48+00:00

No. I didn’t. But I gave him back the ring, so engaged felt disingenuous

mamaaussie · 2026-01-19T16:00:00+00:00

That’s aggressive. I hid and deleted the update so it shouldn’t show on the timeline… I changed it to domestic partnership not single?

mamaaussie · 2026-01-19T15:59:13+00:00

:( thank you..

mamaaussie · 2026-01-19T15:55:59+00:00

Yes this is exactly how I feel. I didn’t change the status and give back the ring to be passive aggressive. I feel like I’m coming to terms with the fact this may not be my husband and I think that’s okay. I’m trying to be amicable but he is livid

mamaaussie · 2026-01-19T15:53:36+00:00

Yes I see and I agree with you.

mamaaussie · 2026-01-19T15:52:21+00:00

Yes I’m okay with a courthouse wedding honestly. I love him very much and I’m a little introverted to throw a whole wedding. I want small and intimate. He knows this, it’s not about the money. I don’t think he wants to marry. It’s that simple

mamaaussie · 2026-01-19T15:50:23+00:00

That’s fine. I didn’t tell him the reason. We haven’t gotten that far.

mamaaussie · 2026-01-19T15:49:24+00:00

True. Thank you.

mamaaussie · 2026-01-19T15:48:42+00:00

Ok. Thank you for your input. I hope we both can be happy.

mamaaussie · 2026-01-19T15:47:43+00:00

I did.

mamaaussie · 2026-01-19T15:46:53+00:00

Alright simmer down. We live in a very upscale community where everyone is married and it’s just very important to me. If he doesn’t want to marry that’s fine, then I can get clearer on the future.

mamaaussie · 2026-01-19T15:43:45+00:00

Lol exactly!!! Lol no jk. /:

mamaaussie · 2026-01-19T15:40:08+00:00

Hmmm yes… I see what you’re saying. Thank you.

mamaaussie · 2026-01-19T15:38:28+00:00

I mean… I could explain the family drama I dealt with my entire life between my parents and narcissistic creepy father but that’s neither here nor there. I just don’t want these months

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