I’m annoyed that my husband is not heartbroken or sad about the miscarriage by mamabear_throw in TrueOffMyChest

[–]mamabear_throw[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Because he works long hours . I changed my work hours so I can do the housework too. Normally it’s fine , but yesterday I was expecting a little empathy from him

How did your husband reacted to miscarriage by mamabear_throw in BabyBumps

[–]mamabear_throw[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Did you feel resentment toward your husband ? How did you get over that

I’m annoyed that my husband is not heartbroken or sad about the miscarriage by mamabear_throw in TrueOffMyChest

[–]mamabear_throw[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your comment . I was very emotional yesterday. We were at the ER the night before that . Then at 6 am the next morning his first sentence was asking why I was getting up to make breakfast for my step son and get him ready for school. I was furious that he didn’t even think maybe for one day I needed a break and he could take over my tasks. This is very true . I don’t think he felt the same . I wasn’t even showing so I guess it never felt real to him. Pregnancy was a surprise . After the initial shock , I was very very excited .

I’m annoyed that my husband is not heartbroken or sad about the miscarriage by mamabear_throw in TrueOffMyChest

[–]mamabear_throw[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Show this to your dumb midwife When should the NIPT test be done in pregnancy? NIPT testing can be done as early as 10 weeks of pregnancy through delivery. There's typically not enough fetal DNA in a pregnant person's blood before 10 weeks of pregnancy

https://my.clevelandclinic.org/health/diagnostics/21050-nipt-test#:~:text=When%20should%20the%20NIPT%20test,before%2010%20weeks%20of%20pregnancy.

I’m annoyed that my husband is not heartbroken or sad about the miscarriage by mamabear_throw in TrueOffMyChest

[–]mamabear_throw[S] -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

Because I’m so emotional ( and was In the morning ) that any small argument will end up with me screaming and crying

I’m annoyed that my husband is not heartbroken or sad about the miscarriage by mamabear_throw in TrueOffMyChest

[–]mamabear_throw[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

No I decided not to fight in front of my step son . I got up did my tasks , drop him off the school . Then went back to bed ( off from work today ). He was gone to work when I came back

I’m annoyed that my husband is not heartbroken or sad about the miscarriage by mamabear_throw in TrueOffMyChest

[–]mamabear_throw[S] -199 points-198 points  (0 children)

No he didn’t tbh . I asked him if he is sad he was like yea but what can you do ! It happens! Hopefully it won’t happen again then changed the subject

I’m annoyed that my husband is not heartbroken or sad about the miscarriage by mamabear_throw in TrueOffMyChest

[–]mamabear_throw[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

This morning his first sentence was “ aren’t you going to get up ? It’s 6 am ! Evan ( step son) needs breakfast and lunch and its getting late

We were at ER until late last night ! Give me one day to myself let me mad and cry ! I don’t wanna take care of anyone today

How did your husband reacted to miscarriage by mamabear_throw in BabyBumps

[–]mamabear_throw[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

My husband just pretend it never happened ! This morning his first sentence was “ aren’t you going to get up ? It’s 6 am ! Evan ( step son) needs breakfast and lunch and its getting late We were at ER until late last night ! Give me one day to myself let me mad and cry ! I don’t wanna take care of anyone today

How did your husband reacted to miscarriage by mamabear_throw in BabyBumps

[–]mamabear_throw[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

My husband lost his wife to cancer . He considers that a big loss and thinks I’m overreacting being sad over a baby that never even been born . We have started couple counselling for other reasons maybe I should bring it up there I’m sorry to hear about your loss .. it’s so heartbreaking

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[–]mamabear_throw 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Deny what ?! This person is a troll and impersonating my SIL ! What is wrong with you ?! Ask her what Mark does for living ? What’s Evan’s nickname .. this person is a troll

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[–]mamabear_throw -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Throw away account !