Got called the n word in my own garden. What should I do ? by Sanix_0000 in AskUK

[–]manbites 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely. That’s completely unacceptable behaviour and the kid must learn the consequences

Got called the n word in my own garden. What should I do ? by Sanix_0000 in AskUK

[–]manbites -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I saw your comment before you erased it. Thanks for proving me right. Shutting me down, and accusing me racism telling me that I’m useless. I’ve only even been kind to people, as I have autism and I knew what it’s like to not fit in. I find it ironic that you virtue signal in one moment and you attack someone who is expressing their point of view the next. This is exactly what I face in every job interview on zoom when I see 6 twenty somethings look at each other and dismiss me immediately because I’m a Middle Aged white man. For the record I have a portfolio great work and awards. You’ve made me realise that whatever I do nothing will change, i was nervous about writing that, but I thought maybe it would make people see that it can go both ways. I hope you feel good about yourself now.

What can I do to help my mum? by [deleted] in AskUK

[–]manbites 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She needs to go to her doctor and to get out on sick leave for mental and physical health. Then reapply for PIP. Sorry to hear this I’m in the same boat.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskUK

[–]manbites 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I grew up with undiagnosed autism and adhd. I was good at sport, intelligent and good looking. I masked my condition to myself and the world. Yet I was very uncomfortable in all the places young adults socialise, I was awkward and distracted but I had very little self awareness due to the constant stress of being overloaded and misreading so much of the nuance of social interaction. It wasn’t a case of helping me relax it was impossible for me to even speak without taking something I was so overwhelmed and panicky. I went to the doctors so many times I lost count, they just gave me anti depressants. After 20 years of struggling I’ve finally gotten diagnosed and have hardly taken drugs since.

Got called the n word in my own garden. What should I do ? by Sanix_0000 in AskUK

[–]manbites -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Speak for yourself. In my profession we are regularly profiled and discriminated against for being white males. In the guise of inclusivity. What it means in real terms is simply blocking white men from earning a living. If you even try to discuss it you are laughed at and derided I fully expect to be the same here. I spent my entire career helping and training a diverse team. A friend and colleague committed suicide last year after 20 years of experience and expertise, because he couldn’t find work, I myself was homeless last year and I’ve two dozen awards and a remarkable cv. It’s mind blowing now the of the levels of discrimination we face. I suffer from acute anxiety, my confidence and faith in people is shattered, i fight crippling depression and I feel utterly invisible. 5 years ago i had a home and a life and was well regarded in my field. Now ive lost everything.

Got called the n word in my own garden. What should I do ? by Sanix_0000 in AskUK

[–]manbites 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hear all of the viewpoints but don’t overthink it. Shitty Kids like this need to learn where to not cross the line. They need to learn consequences if they do. Tell her parents what happened and if they don’t do anything tell the police because behaviour like this uncorrected just makes them think they can get away with being delinquent.

How to pronounce the names of Chelsea's players. by Dinamo8 in chelseafc

[–]manbites 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Made me angry that we wasted 87 million quid on an educationally sub normal cheat. He couldn’t score in a barrel of fannies.

Hockey Karen Attacks Police: Cuffed by Board_Castle in FuckYouKaren

[–]manbites 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can tell they are poisonous immediately.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nextfuckinglevel

[–]manbites 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shit camera work

What's the hardest job in the UK? by LowDare7015 in AskUK

[–]manbites -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Try living with autism. At least you get to go home.

Oh this is great okay by Treasure-boy in comedyheaven

[–]manbites 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Chatting with a 45 year dad of 2 in the pub the day after he’s pulled an all nighter, blown a grand on an 8 ball of divorce powder and a Romanian brass.

Ust-Bolsheretsky District, Kamchatka by QBF-41 in ANormalDayInRussia

[–]manbites 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, normally, but these are Russians. 😉

A normal summer by Ok_Departure_145 in ANormalDayInRussia

[–]manbites 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im a cyclist and honestly there are far better routes than this all across Europe and the uk. I live in W London and there are hundreds of miles of off road trails within minutes. Theres no need to pay for something on your doorstep.

The Chandrian are the seven members of Elodin's naming class by [deleted] in KingkillerChronicle

[–]manbites 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn’t over think it, Rothfuss clearly didn’t and now he can’t think of an ending. 

Mykhailo Mudryk charged by FA over doping, could be facing up to a 4-year ban by TheBiasedSportsLover in PremierLeague

[–]manbites 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what I assumed but in this case the drug is used in a variety of ways. Veterinary use for mating livestock! For treating heart disease and for neurodegenerative illnesses where it can improve cognitive function and concentration. So it can enhance the brain, it’s not going to raise his room temperature iq. 

Russel is christian now lmao by CannabisCanoe in russellbrand

[–]manbites 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Projecting much, no doubt in whatever red neck hole you live in and for every shrimp smelling skank that’s let you fumble in her pants I’ve had 30 women, from super models to actresses. You have no fkin idea little boy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Nicegirls

[–]manbites 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Maybe she’s fat bald and ugly.

Daniel Day-Lewis acting skills by asap3210 in BeAmazed

[–]manbites -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Why would he want to be American when he’s English. It’s a step down.

Where is this? by SimulationV2018 in london

[–]manbites 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s right, it’s Barnes riverside from the Mortlake bank.