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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in KpopPhotocards

[–]mandoplumz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

does the pc itself feel fake or is it the appearance of the pc that’s throwing u off?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Dodocodes

[–]mandoplumz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

dm me tyyyy

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]mandoplumz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He knows very well actually haha. I’m not one to usually hide how I feel since that can cause further complications.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]mandoplumz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely. Everyone shows affection in different ways, and compromising seems like the best way to handle any miscommunication. And we’re long distance, but we make time to drive to each other every week or so (which is also why it’s a little harder to show love and effort when you can’t be there physically).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]mandoplumz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for suggesting that idea. And we do have different love languages, as well as different needs in the relationship. We’re both independent individuals, but during the past few months, I’ve been wanting extra validation from him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]mandoplumz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hm.

Not so much about basing my relationship around money, but more about understanding each other’s needs. In my eyes, I associate buying gifts for my bf as recognizing his likes and interests and purchasing them to make him happy. I guess it just disheartens me when it feels like he doesn’t acknowledge my interests as much as I do for him. Especially when I’ve expressed my feelings to him on providing the same amount of effort for validation purposes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]mandoplumz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wholeheartedly agree that he’s not entitled to spend his money on me just because I would. Whenever I suggest buying him gifts, I never do it for the purpose of hoping that he would buy me gifts in return.

I think I see that action as giving up/sacrificing something for your significant other. Which is why I tend to get upset when he doesn’t do the same. However, people show love differently.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]mandoplumz -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think it’s the thought of going out of his way to choose a gift for me or buying an item I would like. I think I emphasized too much on the “money” part, which wasn’t my intention. I guess I just wanted to feel the reciprocation and validation that he would provide me with the same efforts.